Is Provider Out and Hooker In? What the what?

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

ways true.

some people use the word "bitch" as an endearing term. how would you feel if someone called your mom a bitch, your wife a bitch, your daughter a bitch...
one time? whatever.. but if your daughter dated a person who referred to his significant other as a "bitch" eventually you would get sick of it. who wouldnt.

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

would you not care if your daughters boyfriend referred to her as "his bitch."

Could you please decide on how you wanna phrase the question. Is it adjective bitch or ownership his bitch

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

When did they stop teaching "sticks and stones"?

When being offended was IN and having a backbone was OUT

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

It's what you are...a hooker, prostitute, whore, escort, provider...everyone of those words is the exact same. It's what we are, tricks, johns, hobbyists...

It's only negative because you say it's negative...you're the one with the problem, not the person saying it...

My advice is to stop being the problem for yourself, by caring what someone else labels you...labels are irrelevant, until you give them power over you...so stop doing it...

Utter BS. But you know that and are pretending otherwise.

So you really believe the message conveyed is the same whether I use "Italian", "Dago", "Wop", or "Goombah"?

You really use "Southerner", "Red neck", "Trailer Trash", and "Cracker" interchangeably?

You are just as likely to call someone a "Black", "African American", "Spook", or "Kaffir"?

Words have meaning. They are not interchangeable.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Old-T

So you really believe the message conveyed is the same whether I use "Italian", "Dago", "Wop", or "Goombah"?

Yes.

Originally Posted by Old-T

You really use "Southerner", "Red neck", "Trailer Trash", and "Cracker" interchangeably?

Yes.

Originally Posted by Old-T

You are just as likely to call someone a "Black", "African American", "Spook", or "Kaffir"?

Yes

Originally Posted by Old-T

Words have meaning.

Of course they do. Why some of you choose to give additional meaning to words spoken by others, that have no such meaning, is beyond me...

Originally Posted by Old-T

They are not interchangeable.

Incorrect...there's this thing called a "synonym"...I believe that's what you're looking for...

[Old-T]

Communication involves two people and the speaker does not get to dictate to the listener that they should "hear" meaning different from what common usage and context convey.

If you actually believe what you are saying--and I truly do not think you do--then walk into a local barrio and call the inhabitants ****s and ******, then explain to them that those words do not convey insulting meaning to them. Go across town to a Black area and call them **********again explaining that any negative connotation is only in their minds, not yours. Then come tell us how many stitches you required.




#2 - Derogatory racial remarks are simply unacceptable, period. Disrespect another's ethnic background and you will most certainly regret it.


Staff edit. SMI

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Communication involves two people and the speaker does not get to dictate to the listener that they should "hear" meaning different from what common usage and context convey.

"Common usage and context" to whom? Again...if you choose to let what other people think about words affect you, so be it...I choose not to be a victim to words...but it's your choice...

Originally Posted by Old-T

If you actually believe what you are saying--and I truly do not think you do--then walk into a local barrio and call the inhabitants Spicks and Wetbacks, then explain to them that those words do not convey insulting meaning to them. Go across town to a Black area and call them Niggers and Kaffirs, again explaining that any negative connotation is only in their minds, not yours. Then come tell us how many stitches you required.

Nowhere have I ever said that society is not suffering from a mass self-delusion about their own weakness concerning words...they are...you're all simpletons and victims...your assertion that physical violence is guaranteed to be the subsequent result of a spoken word just proves it...and proves my point to the OP at the same time...

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

"Common usage and context" to whom? Again...if you choose to let what other people think about words affect you, so be it...I choose not to be a victim to words...but it's your choice...



Nowhere have I ever said that society is not suffering from a mass self-delusion about their own weakness concerning words...they are...you're all simpletons and victims...your assertion that physical violence is guaranteed to be the subsequent result of a spoken word just proves it...and proves my point to the OP at the same time...

No, it "proves" no such thing. Some words transmit intentionally insulting messages whether you allow them to make you angry or not. One who transmits insults and degradation may or may not "deserve" a violent response, but they should not be surprised if it happens.

But as is often the case with your posts, you perceive your subjective reaction to situations to be the objective "right" reaction for everyone. That is incorrect, but it is almost the perfect definition of egotism.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Some words transmit intentionally insulting messages whether you allow them to make you angry or not.

Incorrect.

Originally Posted by Old-T

One who transmits insults and degradation may or may not "deserve" a violent response, but they should not be surprised if it happens.

Again, incorrect.

Originally Posted by Old-T

But as is often the case with your posts, you perceive your subjective reaction to situations to be the objective "right" reaction for everyone. That is incorrect, but it is almost the perfect definition of egotism.

To others, my opinion is never wrong, nor is it right, it just is. To me, it is always right...I never lie to myself...unlike most of you. Once again, what you label my actions is of no consequence...surprised you haven't grasped that yet...

[universalenergy]

In the Texas forums the trolls like to also use hooktard for a provider and fucktard for the hobbyist.

They also refer to a mod as a modtard.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by universalenergy

In the Texas forums the trolls like to also use hooktard for a provider and fucktard for the hobbyist.

They also refer to a mod as a modtard.

That is correct...

[python54]

Rudeness is rudeness. Being civil and respectful is a wonderful virtue.....and that's coming from me andAtheist. You don't have to be associated with any group or cause to be a person others respect.

I do not respect the trolls on here who IMO have low self-esteem and a chip on their shoulder. I'm not perfect, neither are any of us, but working towards a goal of mutual respect makes a better world (and hobby) that we can enjoy.

Ladies chime in. Would you rather spend time with a respectful gentleman who enjoys and appreciates you or someone who says you're a whore and do as I say?

I always wonder what providers the trolls visit or do they act two-face and pretend to be nice to get what they want from a provider.

I've seen about 25 different providers over the years. I've always treated each one with respect even if they were way below my expectations. We don't know each others personal stories or what is going on in our real lives to judge. I've seen wonderful ladies and ones I ended appointments short due to incompatibilities. I give repeat business to ladies I adore. Some have retired but leave fond impressions. Some left impressions of offering me a swig of rum from the bottle she just chugged from.

The worlds an interesting place. Keep it interesting, classy and fun. You'll end up in that pine box with a smile on your face in the end.

https://cdn.psychologytoday.com/site...?itok=0lMkesSb

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by python54

Ladies chime in. Would you rather spend time with a respectful gentleman who enjoys and appreciates you or someone who says you're a whore and do as I say?

I'm curious...why do you assume that someone who uses the word "whore" is going to tell someone else to "do as I say"? Also, why do you assume that someone who uses the word "whore" doesn't appreciate or enjoy a whores company?

[python54]

#2 - Derogatory racial remarks are simply unacceptable, period. Disrespect another's ethnic background and you will most certainly regret it.


Staff edit...SMI






I think thats clear?

[python54]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

I'm curious...why do you assume that someone who uses the word "whore" is going to tell someone else to "do as I say"? Also, why do you assume that someone who uses the word "whore" doesn't appreciate or enjoy a whores company?

By the way......I've said my peace and will not engage in any troll-dom. I feel sorry for them and I don't wish to spend more time explaining why it's better to walk on the sidewalk instead of crawling in the gutter.

End of story and responses....

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by python54

I think thats clear?

Nothing is clear to Wakeup. Pure water turns opaque when it comes within 20 feet of him.