Louisiana lately seems like the providers are deserting us

[Spontaneouscb28]

I understand that. It is a far drive from the n.o area.

[Nicolet]

PM sent, LA_guy

[Longdongstrong]

ok, first, you are not ordering pizza. You are dealing with PEOPLE.

I'm sure providers have days they work, and days they don't. They may even take a vacation without tell us....

So, don't be put off that you PM and don't get a reply, generally.

Now, if she's "working" i.e. posted she's in town, or posted an add w/ her days available, good business would indicate that she's checking her PMs. If she's not, she should indicate calls please etc.

I'm a spur of the moment guy. Its frustrating dealing w/ ECCIE b/c I never know who's available NOW. So, I use BP some. Most with good results. At least enough to keep me coming back.

Now and again, I spot a lady I really want to see and I plan ahead and that works out well. Usually.

Overall, I"m very happy with the responses I get - both in time and quality. I've not had anyone really be rude to me.

Just accept that there are different rules and norms in this world as what we do is different and "out of the mainstream".

These women put themselves at risk dealing in this industry and I'm sure it takes a toll on them physically and mentally. Every job has its challenges.

Appreciate how hard it can be to be "on" every day, etc.

Cut them some slack.

Yes, the days of dial a date are gone - but back then, you'd get who they sent no photo in advance.

Now you get to see the girls, read reviews, find one you think you'll like and the price is, you have to actually schedule a time to meet up.

If you prefer "dial a date" then use BP more - like I do. I'm a dial a date guy. Sometimes its more important that its now and she's acceptable. Sometimes, its more important that its this girl or that girl but not the other one.

Just my 2 cents.

[Adaline]

Originally Posted by Longdongstrong

ok, first, you are not ordering pizza. You are dealing with PEOPLE.

I'm sure providers have days they work, and days they don't. They may even take a vacation without tell us....

So, don't be put off that you PM and don't get a reply, generally.

Now, if she's "working" i.e. posted she's in town, or posted an add w/ her days available, good business would indicate that she's checking her PMs. If she's not, she should indicate calls please etc.

I'm a spur of the moment guy. Its frustrating dealing w/ ECCIE b/c I never know who's available NOW. So, I use BP some. Most with good results. At least enough to keep me coming back.

Now and again, I spot a lady I really want to see and I plan ahead and that works out well. Usually.

Overall, I"m very happy with the responses I get - both in time and quality. I've not had anyone really be rude to me.

Just accept that there are different rules and norms in this world as what we do is different and "out of the mainstream".

These women put themselves at risk dealing in this industry and I'm sure it takes a toll on them physically and mentally. Every job has its challenges.

Appreciate how hard it can be to be "on" every day, etc.

Cut them some slack.

Yes, the days of dial a date are gone - but back then, you'd get who they sent no photo in advance.

Now you get to see the girls, read reviews, find one you think you'll like and the price is, you have to actually schedule a time to meet up.

If you prefer "dial a date" then use BP more - like I do. I'm a dial a date guy. Sometimes its more important that its now and she's acceptable. Sometimes, its more important that its this girl or that girl but not the other one.

Just my 2 cents.

I know its sometimes a long shot but don't forget to check the AVAILABLE NOW THREAD LAST PAGE that is a sticky at the top of 'REQUEST/ISO' category

[ilovethemgirls68]

One thing I've noticed is that less providers are taking same day/ last minute appointments. I have no problem with this. I'm in a client based business myself and if you don't plan your day in advance it sucks. I hate when clients expect me to jump through hoops to cater to them. Does nothing but add unwanted stress

[KwinVue]

Originally Posted by Longdongstrong

ok, first, you are not ordering pizza. You are dealing with PEOPLE.

I'm sure providers have days they work, and days they don't. They may even take a vacation without tell us....

So, don't be put off that you PM and don't get a reply, generally.

Now, if she's "working" i.e. posted she's in town, or posted an add w/ her days available, good business would indicate that she's checking her PMs. If she's not, she should indicate calls please etc.

I'm a spur of the moment guy. Its frustrating dealing w/ ECCIE b/c I never know who's available NOW. So, I use BP some. Most with good results. At least enough to keep me coming back.

Now and again, I spot a lady I really want to see and I plan ahead and that works out well. Usually.

Overall, I"m very happy with the responses I get - both in time and quality. I've not had anyone really be rude to me.

Just accept that there are different rules and norms in this world as what we do is different and "out of the mainstream".

These women put themselves at risk dealing in this industry and I'm sure it takes a toll on them physically and mentally. Every job has its challenges.

Appreciate how hard it can be to be "on" every day, etc.

Cut them some slack.

Yes, the days of dial a date are gone - but back then, you'd get who they sent no photo in advance.

Now you get to see the girls, read reviews, find one you think you'll like and the price is, you have to actually schedule a time to meet up.

If you prefer "dial a date" then use BP more - like I do. I'm a dial a date guy. Sometimes its more important that its now and she's acceptable. Sometimes, its more important that its this girl or that girl but not the other one.

Just my 2 cents.

Longdongstrong, I thank you for making time to write such a thoughtful and enlightening post. I am new to this, and, well, thanks.

[funluv]

Originally Posted by addison_scott

I know its sometimes a long shot but don't forget to check the AVAILABLE NOW THREAD LAST PAGE that is a sticky at the top of 'REQUEST/ISO' category

Addison Scott, Thanks for taking the time to post to this thread.

[Priscilla St. James]

I was starting to think it was me but I'm feeling the same way as if you gentlemen are deserting us/me! I also used to live in the area and have such awesome regulars but now it's like everyone is MIA...I do miss the good ole days when "clients" were gentlemen and friends! I guess times they are a changing...But I am an "oldie but goodie" lol and we'll be in the area pretty often now so don't be scared to send that PM

[haya1300]

I've been told by several ladies, some local some not, that New Orleans has gotten a reputation for the gentlemen being "Cheap" in that they are always trying to negotiate a discount 30 min rate, and that is keeping several ladies away from touring here. I know everyone has their own budget to work within, but when you start driving the cost of things down, one of 2 things will happen.....Your selection will get thin as some will go away, or 2, your choices will simply become "cheap". I think we are seeing the first, more ladies are just staying away...

[Adaline]

Originally Posted by funluv

Addison Scott, Thanks for taking the time to post to this thread.

Well you are quite welcome! Hope it helps! I also know that some fenys get upset with screening, but you have to understand that we have to keep ourselves safe from several things, not to mention if a lady doesn't screen or ask any info....I'd be a little worried. You can always do pre-screening for a lady you'd like to see even if you can't see her for 3 weeks. It makes it easier IMO for those days when you want a last minute / same day appointment when all that has been taken care of.

[NikkiSecrets]

Aw don't give up funluv! There are still some great ladies around. My email goes straight to my phone (whenever eccie decides to notify me that is) and I always try and respond in a timely matter. It sorta seems to me hobbiest aren't as active as before. So it can go both ways. Maybe it's me or maybe times change but I won't give up on y'all!!

Have a awesome HUMPDAY!

Xoxo
Nikki

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by haya1300

I've been told by several ladies, some local some not, that New Orleans has gotten a reputation for the gentlemen being "Cheap" in that they are always trying to negotiate a discount 30 min rate, and that is keeping several ladies away from touring here. I know everyone has their own budget to work within, but when you start driving the cost of things down, one of 2 things will happen.....Your selection will get thin as some will go away, or 2, your choices will simply become "cheap". I think we are seeing the first, more ladies are just staying away...

And I don't know what is going on...it seems to be like that everywhere for alot of providers....I have gals write me alot saying how slow they are or how they got in a bad deal by a client /ncns by a bunch of gents etc......


I have no answer....only thing I can say is that MOST reputable providers here care about their business and know how to run it to be successful...maybe that is the difference?? You gotta call the right providers???

I stay quite busy MOST places I visit....I usually have a waiting list in New orleans {and most other places} when I visit.......and I ususally get ninetyminute to twohour appointments.....VERY rarely do i get halfhours......I am not bragging,just stating facts....maybe it is because I am so reasonably priced and good advertising methods.
{I am "reasonably priced" NOT cheap/...lol}

[Lacey Companion]

See... I don't know about the local girls but I do know about the touring girls. New Orleans use to be great for a touring girl because the guys were loving and inviting. Here's a clue... just one example. You ever notice how many views I get when I post? Quite a few of those are touring girls and they are saying "wow, Lacey is a sweetheart who supports the site and is just trying to help everybody get along... but see how they are treating her? I guess the rumors are true. You can prebook back to back a month in advance but they are so cliquish, all it takes is one asshole to ruin ur whole trip. The cliques will pretend to book u and then all cancel at that last minute". See. Now add in all the LE and robbery problems. Then there are racial tensions that include providers not giving references in a timely fashion. I have been trying to help as I remember the good ole days when NO was a great city to tour plus I did use to live there for 3 years in the 90's. I was in the flood of 95. My then boyfriend was from two of ur most well known families. Lose the hatred or lose the quality. Your choice. This is my last attempt. My Lord, it use to be Memphis no girl would tour. Now it's NO and Memphis is a great place. Fix it! Show some respect. Stop the drama. It's up to u. I posted a fun thread like we use to play in... in NO... with RPM, Presto, Wiley, Causeway Commuter, Skeeter, Porno Dave, Lickolotopus, Soulman Ike, BarryBarry... all those names in my RIP Luv Bug thread. Those are gentlemen! They use to post all the time... when it was fun. Hell, even Christy Cupps came back to post in my thread. They don't none wanna deal w the drama. See, everybody went quiet after sweeps, then u mean people took over and it's gone down hill ever since. There's ur truth! U reap what u sow!

[TabooTerry]

Originally Posted by haya1300

I've been told by several ladies, some local some not, that New Orleans has gotten a reputation for the gentlemen being "Cheap" in that they are always trying to negotiate a discount 30 min rate, and that is keeping several ladies away from touring here. I know everyone has their own budget to work within, but when you start driving the cost of things down, one of 2 things will happen.....Your selection will get thin as some will go away, or 2, your choices will simply become "cheap". I think we are seeing the first, more ladies are just staying away...

Me personally that's not long enough to be with a provider if I'm meeting with them for the first time. I like to be able to have some convo with them and a good amount of foreplay before we get into it. If it was my second time meeting them maybe so.

I do some research on providers just to see if they're worth it a pretty face just not gonna do it for me if you don't seem to enjoy what we're doing.

Its kinda sad when you see older reviews with girls that IOP was high and then a recent review when she just there for the money makes you think who was the dumbass that messed it up.

[Lacey Companion]

Nice Terry. Few too many think like u. Have ya seen Al's burger story? Roflmao
Same principal!