Question? Defention of a BNG........the answer ..

[DarkeyKong]

I used to only do bng's due to the nature of my business. It was always a matter of time only (unless I didn't want to go all the way with the lady, yes it happens). For me, I figure $100 is not really bad seeing that the norm is $80, just a $20 difference. However, I actually have to side with the OP and not the gents this time. BNG's should really be for in and out visits, otherwise, why not schedule a full service visit? In fact, a provider offered full service doing a bng but I had to decline do to being extremely busy.

The only reason I can think of is that one is trying to get more for less and/or trying to take advantage of the provider. I however disagree about the 10 minutes and am leaning more towards 15 minutes. But it doesn't matter to me as I don't cum from BJ's, I would just get a thrill out of them and finish the party myself. I know I'll probably get flames for my position, but that's my perspective.

[SexyPlatinum]

Bng to me is just a quickie for me 15 minutes of a small thrill I look for every opportunity to be ravished

[Sophia Banks]

Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

Bng to me is just a quickie for me 15 minutes of a small thrill I look for every opportunity to be ravished

Great ️SEXY answer!!!

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

Excuse me If I am wrong. Because I most recently added BNG to my menu. It was my understanding that a bng. Means blow and go. 10 minutes Tops.....tops...
So why is it. Most recently I have meet some people from Eçcie and p411.
They came for a bng. And wanted to take a shower. Wanted daty. Wanted hj. I offer all those things. Thats fine. However then what your wanting is a 30 min and up session.
I think it is ridiculous for these men to expect all this actives at a BNG rate.
Stop trying to take advantage of us ladies. Come out of your pocket and stop being cheap!

No wonder why some are YMMV!!!

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

I am just saying they wanted all the other stuff. I said no. And we never even met.

=====> BNG is what you define it to be, period! (using whatever resources & info you need to define it)
just be clear and upfront about what is and is not in scope during that kind of consultation.
if a client wants to exceed the scope of that kind of session, tell them that's not how it goes and let him know what kind of session it would be.

if a client contracts w/ you for a BNG consultation and exceeds the scope of that kind of session, let him know immediately that an addtl consultation fee is required. dont wait until he's ready to leave or has already left.

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

You would be surprised how many men in the DFW ask for this. I have never offered this in the 10 yrrs I am in the Hobby. It's just most recently this year. The ask for it all the time. My feelings were this . I am not a pit stop... And I don't like alot of traffic either. But For regulars and or someone I have seen before. No problem

so, why did you add it to your consulting offerings?
if you dont want to offer a pit stop consultation, fine. dont offer what some might think is a pit stop consulting offering.

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

First of all let me say this . I always offer a non rush experience. That's why for me I really don't do many BNGs. Let's face it. This is a Business a very fun business. It should be run as a business. My clients will always get what they pay for. Bng. Is just what that means. Blow n Go....if your going to incorporate daty and other activities. Well then thats going to be considered a fs session. I have always based my Rates on time spent not activities. I never upsell!

1st bolded sentence : how could a 10 min session be a "non rush experience"???
2nd bolded sentence : then just state it plainly and cleary what can and cannot happen in various time periods / consulting session types. [not necessarily in your ads, but in your replies to guys asking you questions]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

if its bothering you, take it off of your menu. its that simple. no one can force a grown adult to change how he/she thinks. if you feel its taking advantage of yourself, learn healthier boundaries or choose to not have it exist.
xo

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THIS in bolded large red. Alyssa, most excellent thoughts & comments!!!!!

[Walkin' Dude]

I love BNGs. But I can cum in like 5 minutes, so my BNG ladies probably love me too.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

Excuse me If I am wrong. Because I most recently added BNG to my menu. It was my understanding that a bng. Means blow and go. 10 minutes Tops.....tops...
So why is it. Most recently I have meet some people from Eçcie and p411.
They came for a bng. And wanted to take a shower. Wanted daty. Wanted hj. I offer all those things. Thats fine. However then what your wanting is a 30 min and up session.
I think it is ridiculous for these men to expect all this actives at a BNG rate.
Stop trying to take advantage of us ladies. Come out of your pocket and stop being cheap!

No wonder why some are YMMV!!!

I found it easier only to offer BNG sessions with people I have seen before so that none of this confusion would happen. Maybe you should try this and see how that works out...

You can't complain about how cheap men if you don't clearly state what a BNG consists of because there are fucktards everywhere.. That's why I only allowed returning clients this option

Everyone has there own definition of certain sessions don't be little men because you assume everyone knows..

BTW If you feel like men are cheap asses then don't give them an option to be one ijs

[Stanfeld]

My BNG with Dorthy lasted 23min 46sec. Good value.

[Laura Lynn]

By definition a bng is a rushed session, hence the term Blow and GO. 10min, 15min tops.

[Guest020720]

I think a client is paying for their time. But with a BNG as a provider there are expectations and as a client there are expectations.

I think the going rate is about $100 and the time is 15 minutes.

That's 15 minutes BCD. Not shower time or arriving at the door time.

But the guys who use that whole time to fuck the ever loving hell out of a provider's face and still not bust a nut, well, then, after that, it's really not her problem if he doesn't get his. In my own personal opinion. Just saying is all.

I'm down for a little good face fucking. But not 15 minutes straight of it. I am a human being. And I do like my mouth intact after a session.

So, there are the assholes who ruin the whole BNG experience for others of you.

I only offer it from time to time when I feel like taking the risk of one of these guys coming along.

Most of the time the guys are decent enough and are like "grean" described himself to be.

[TexasCowboy]

$100 for 10 minutes of BNG - Now that is a joke and hopefully not many guys are falling for this one. UM for a guy to get their moneys worth you need to drop to your knees and act like a hoover vacuum for 10 minutes without stopping - No talking allowed, business must be getting bad for you.

[uniquemonique]

To the op. Business is not getting bad for me! I simply wanted to know what others believed the definition of a bng. I don't do many of them.and wanted to hear from the community. Ghezz

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by TexasCowboy

$100 for 10 minutes of BNG - Now that is a joke and hopefully not many guys are falling for this one. UM for a guy to get their moneys worth you need to drop to your knees and act like a hoover vacuum for 10 minutes without stopping - No talking allowed, business must be getting bad for you.

Exactly what I was talking about.

Flag on the play.

[uniquemonique]

I asked a Question.... And got plenty of response. Thank you for your comments & suggestions.

[BLM69]

$100 the going rate for a 10-15mins of mostly gentle bj lol, I'm with TC on this one, for $400-$500 an hour salary it's time to stop complaining and put your skills to work or get replaced by a eager provider. I wouldn't even consider the $100 bng.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Stanfeld

My BNG with Dorthy lasted 23min 46sec. Good value.

must have been another girl