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roaringfork · 10-21-2015, 08:41 PM

I'm reminded of an amp review from the ASPD days. The title consisted of the provider's name, followed by the boldface headline, PICTURE PERFECT ILLUSION OF PASSION!

In other words, "Don't put me down as a naive newbie-chump. I'm totally aware that her passion was just an illusion. On the other hand (shifting to the other subtext), if the illusion was perfect, then who's to say the passion wasn't real, and that I, therefore, am not truly a stud?"

This is just the complementary, male version of the basic stripper move: "Back off, buddy. This is just a job for me, and a shitty one at that." Then two minutes later: "I'm really hurt that you're treating this as a business transaction. I thought you were my friend.." (Either way--friend or customer--you owe her at least another twenty dollars....)

When it comes to claims about the authenticity of hobby interactions, both sides play the same game--of having one's cake and eating it too. For the ladies, though, these maneuvers are proactive and enriching; for the guys, defensive and, well, draining.

plove35 · 10-21-2015, 09:30 PM

For the time that I am paying to be with the lady, I give her the illusion of.passion as well. It all fantasy...I can pretend in my mind I am single again and having hook up sex, and the lady can pretend whatever the helk she wants. As long as the time we are spending is about me and her Im good

blowmypop23 · 10-21-2015, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Bbud1959

You know sometimes we guys have to fake the big O as well, it's complicated involving fluids, gears & mirrors!

I have done this on more then one occasion, mostly in real life but probably at least once or twice in hobby town

Tapper85 · 10-21-2015, 09:41 PM

Real talk express here, often times, hobbyists use negativity/jadedness to as a prevent preventive control to mitigate the risk of falling in love. Alas, most humans aren't equipped to handle promiscuity in a normal, healthy manner.

Bbud1959 · 10-21-2015, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by SexiKenni

I Love it

Thank you Kenni, as they say if you can't be good looking be funny!

blowmypop23 · 10-21-2015, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Bbud1959

Thank you Kenni, as they say if you can't be good looking be funny!

Does funny looking count?

trexxxs · 10-21-2015, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by bojulay

Girl I had a "Rag Doll" session with and she was so giddy sex drunk
afterward that she forgot her donation on the dresser, and was
kind of stumbling down the hallway going the wrong way when
I caught her.

Brought her back inside and had her drink a bottled water while
she gained back her composure.

I don't think she was faking.

Sounds like the chloroform hadn't completely worn off yet. Jk.

Tapper85 · 10-21-2015, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by trexxxs

Sounds like the chloroform hadn't completely worn off yet. Jk.

Bwahahahaha!!!!

daty/o · 10-21-2015, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by bojulay

Girl I had a "Rag Doll" session with and she was so giddy sex drunk
afterward that she forgot her donation on the dresser, and was
kind of stumbling down the hallway going the wrong way when
I caught her.

Brought her back inside and had her drink a bottled water while
she gained back her composure.

I don't think she was faking.

Quote:

Originally Posted by trexxxs

Sounds like the chloroform hadn't completely worn off yet. Jk.

Ok, that tears it. He won't be doing any more of my dental work.

bojulay · 10-21-2015, 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by trexxxs

Sounds like the chloroform hadn't completely worn off yet. Jk.

She was just drunk on the Bojulay is all.

I'm considering marketing me in a six pack.

cheatercheater · 10-22-2015, 07:40 AM

I'm sure that there is an equal number of providers who are great actresses compared to those who truly enjoy each experience. Especially true, I believe, in the younger ladies.

Not sure that a hard bodied 19 year old enjoys a 275 lb grandpa with a little dick on top of her humping away. Although several have seemed to enjoy the sex and fine dining.

I will say I have had some great experiences despite my own feeling of inadequacy. Reese is a prime example. It was so real how could it have been fake? Can't fake the wetness....

Sophia Banks · 10-22-2015, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by biglatinmale

If you're old with a soft dick, she's faking it, if you have a big fat cock, she's loving it

Well I don't know how many men you guys have slept with, but I've had my best orgasms with a semi-hard cock or I can orgasm very quickly after a man is finished inside me and can keep going for about 20 seconds and when it's semi hard it can hit my clit and I explode...

So I appreciate you guys thinking you know every single provider and what makes her click. You guys watching lots of porn have been trained that all women love being rammed by a huge cock......maybe you should listen to us who fuck many more men than ya'll do. Stop overthinking things, trying to figure us out and make generalizations all the time. It gets so old.

You'll never figure every woman out, just try to have fun! 😛😛😛😛

bbwhunter · 10-22-2015, 08:17 AM

I'm sure there is a degree of fake IOP with some simply due to not being attracted to the other person. That IMO is to be expected. The hobby definitely has a "fantasy" element to it, so just go with it.

From my own personal experience I can say that I have been fortunate in having very good experiences and haven't ever worried about IOP. I think that is due to my being selective and only seeing providers that I think I will click with. So far so good and it's rewarded me with some amazing sex.

Now do I think that the same providers would fuck me if it wasn't for the hobby? I don't know and really it doesn't concern me. The hobby is about having fun and enjoying yourself. Simple fact is that we are all adults and know what this is all about. If you're looking for more than a great time in the hobby, you need to look elsewhere because you won't find it here.

Be respectful, polite and courteous and you'll be rewarded with a great experience.

bobo1cg · 10-22-2015, 10:00 AM

If you have to call it IOP then its fake. I have met a few ladies that truly love what they do and it IS actual passion. Real passion is so much better than IOP.

grean · 10-22-2015, 10:48 AM

I think alot of ladies here LOVE their job and enjoy having lots of sex. That doesn't mean every guy every time makes them having screaming orgasms. I think we can tell the women who enjoy it and what ever emotion they do show is true." yeah that feels good, baby." is more or less real VS. "OH FUCK! YOUR COCK IS SO BIG! IM CUMMING SO HARD(followed by loud screams) " is more times than not little bit faked.

There are the robots who you insert $200 into the machine and then your dick and they are dressed as soon as you finish if not before. At least they're not faking it...