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Russ38 · 07-09-2015, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by DToxxx

I never had an interest in reading reviews.

Me neither....

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Originally Posted by DToxxx

LoL. I know the definition very well.

Cool, then you also know....don't believe the bullshit.....

pyramider · 07-09-2015, 09:29 PM

Doubtful dtox understands much ... It does not take much to leave the hobby ...

pyramider · 07-09-2015, 10:53 PM

Nah, too many shallow holes to dig .... We are too lazy for all that work.

Russ38 · 07-09-2015, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Doubtful dtox understands much ... It does not take much to leave the hobby ...

I know 3-Sides but for the love of fucking Tebow....Fucktardedness is a motherfucking disease and rampant around these parts.....what is one to do Oh Tainted One?..... I'd say

and shit but that's just me.....Lol

Russ38 · 07-09-2015, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Nah, too many shallow holes to dig .... We are too lazy for all that work.

I agree....I've dug enough shallow holes....

I think our posts 33 & 34 got switched around....could be my fuckery during an edit....

Guest123018 · 07-09-2015, 11:15 PM

When you're certain of departure bury this life in the graveyard
or you'll definitely be back

Goloso33 · 07-09-2015, 11:24 PM

I left the hobby alone for a few years. It got a bit too expensive and I just got bored with it. And I got interested in watches (mechanical/automatic) so I spent the last two years buying watches instead of renting bitches. At least I still have the watches. LOL.

I went from AMPs to independents to SW and back to AMPs. The change in type of provider was too do something different. I've thought about trying out the strip clubs and k-bars.

LittleSpike · 07-10-2015, 01:47 AM

[QUOTE=Goloso33;1056932138]I left the hobby alone for a few years. It got a bit too expensive and I just got bored with it. And I got interested in watches (mechanical/automatic) so I spent the last two years buying watches instead of renting bitches. At least I still have the watches. LOL.

I think Goloso is onto something. When you're not involved in a relationship, this is a hobby. I have a few hobbies, firearms, photography, stereos, investigating the NWO, to name a few. Hobbies should be fun, and when they cease to be fun, it's time to take a break and get involved with something new. I think we may have discovered a new disease "Fuck Fatigue". Take a break until you feel horny again.

LS

Guest030816 · 07-10-2015, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by DToxxx

As for myself, I haven't had many great experiences in this game. Most often I do have buyer remorse. Always drive off saying "why the fuck am I doing this". Yet I repeat... Still not satisfied, I know I'm jaded...

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Originally Posted by DToxxx

Fair enough. I never had an interest in reading reviews.

This kinda jumped out at me...
You "haven't had many great experiences" and "never had an interest in reading reviews" Don't you thinck one might have something to do with the other?

Then, on the other hand. Maybe it's just you? Read the sticky Valerie wrote about things that should be perfectly obvious. Reading the reviews of someone you are going to see is perfectly obvious, but I don't remember seeing that in there.
Maybe you're not doing something right?. Maybe your expectations are too high? If this hobby isn't working for you, maybe you should get out. Try dating, you're bound to be dissatisfied with that as well.
Sorry cr, short rant there.
What's lacking in the relationship with your SO, that you still hobby? Married guys hobby to get some strange, providers offer what the SO won't do. At 30 something you should be knee deep in RW pussy. Obviously there's something lacking that you seek it here.

Guest062217 · 07-10-2015, 07:20 AM

When I first fell in to hobbying a few years ago, I was like a kid in a candy shop. I was hobbying every week. However, as time passed and life/work is more important I find myself at times thinking about leaving as well - but I know any type of hiatus wouldn't be for long.

My advice is just take it easy, relax and see the providers you have a connection with or be much more selective with seeing any new providers...Unless you have lost your libido or don't have any money to spend than that's different..

Good luck

cr76 · 07-10-2015, 07:36 AM

I think I just need a break and get my head on straight, evaluate priorities. What I really want. Thanks for the advice .

pyramider · 07-10-2015, 07:47 AM

Then go away ...

Hot to Trot Daphne · 07-10-2015, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by DToxxx

Fair enough. I never had an interest in reading reviews. And that's what the hobby may very well be for some? Read/write reviews and participating in drama filled threads

It's better to do the above and be sure of yourself than to drive off from an appointment feeling defeated and unsure of yourself as you have stated you do... yet you continue to torture yourself by repeating the process. I'd rather have a conflict with an outside fucktard on a thread than have an internal conflict as you seem to have. Maybe that's why you don't particularly enjoy your sessions.. This is supposed to be fun and a temporary physical satisfaction for hobbyists... not a fuckin job! Take a break and focus on something else, like work, a new side business, or your SO.

StinkyFingers · 07-10-2015, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by cr76

I've been toying with quitting the hobby. I have had lots of fun an spent some time with lost of beautiful girls, but lately I just haven't been I I it as much. I don't know if I got my fill or life priorities taking over , etc. so anyhoo, I have been toying with quitting, maybe getting some help. Whatever to know if anyone tried quitting before - exp, know friends that quit and never look back. I may stay in the game too, but it's been dwelling on me or a while.

I know what you mean ... I stopped eating ice cream for a while. My therapist helped me through the whole traumatic process. Life, and making important decisions is just so hard sometimes. I haven't had ice cream in 3 months and counting ... One day at a time.

Don T. Lukbak · 07-10-2015, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by cr76

I think I just need a break and get my head on straight, evaluate priorities. What I really want.

I think you may be onto something.

How can any mutt know whether he's actually out until a few years later he's wool gathering and for some reason starts in to wondering when was the last time he schtupped a hooktard and for the life of him he cannot remember?