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Old 11-20-2010, 08:47 AM   #31
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Summerwaves, would you liken it to a restaurant review? Doesn’t it provide some value as to what may be on the menu, with the understanding that everyone’s dish and experience will vary?
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Old 11-20-2010, 09:38 AM   #32
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I don't think you and anyone else should go by reviews, meaning to expect what you read in a review. It just doesn't work that way.
Right. Because noone is actually contracting for services here. Remember—you are paying for Time and Companionship! Anything else that may or may not happen is a matter of personal choice between two or more consenting adults! Just like it says in the disclaimers!

I think the core lesson that we all may be missing here, is that you should give a bunch of money to a woman, and then whatever she feels like giving you in return, is what you should be grateful to get. Oh wait, I thought this wasn't a dating site....

So obviously, you should also not review those (purely optional!) activities afterwards... Unless you intend on paying the lady royalties for it!

In short, Eccie should be closed down. Men should just not go around sharing information with each other about the girls that they've had sex with. That they paid for it. Ever. After all, YMMV.
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Old 11-20-2010, 10:37 AM   #33
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The level of service you receive being determined by the type of customer you are is hardly limited to the business of hobbying.
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Old 11-20-2010, 11:40 AM   #34
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I don't think you and anyone else should go by reviews, meaning to expect what you read in a review. It just doesn't work that way.
Ahh but one can find a member that looks at things near the same. Reading a review is only one part of the home work one must do. You can also get a idea by all contact before hand. As in her AD, her website, PM and email with, Any phone call contact.

Pictures are way more telling if a guy can get past the seeing just the skin.

If on a board. If you disagree on a topic is way more telling than if you agree. As no two ever agree on all things. How that disagreement went is very telling if I would want to met a provider and why.

I do not think one can go just by a menu. If you got to have a BBBJ or its no deal. You may miss someone that you will have a great time with. And in the end would not care at all if there was no BJ or it was CBJ. Some of the best times I have had with a provider, THERE WAS NO SEX AT ALL. There are some I would like to met just for sex. Some I would like to met to talk and or debate with. I kinda like to have a mix of the two. But that is just me.

Many are just looking for rack time and to fill a menu. That is not for me. But that does not make them wrong ether. If a provider is ok with the OP's wish list, ie, what she offers is in line with it. He would be easier to deal with than someone like me.

I could almost care less what the menu is. If one is only looking for a menu, and where he is looking there is not much info on that. Then he and others like that should review there findings.

And the reviews ROS of the BCD are very telling of the reviewer. Some tell almost nothing. If the OP is ok with that then he is not looking for PA credit let it be. Some that is all that it is about is the sex. And still some more that say alot about her but not a thing BCD. Well to get PA there has to be some of that BCD's.
Well the reviews I like tell more of what she is like. What the incall was like if she had one. If its her motel room how was it keeped. If out call was she on time, if not how she handled that. Did she respect your space/place. Any thing that was funny that happed(as something that went wrong can be funny. If both handled it well{also tells about the OP}). etc etc etc

The mods are going to try and get all to give some BCD in the ROS. I myself give only a small amount. The reviews I like only give a small bit. Others that is all that they are looking for and give. just the way it is

So how can and one say do not look at the reviews on a review board. Even if the board is so much more than that as ECCIE??????

As the reviews tells of the OP, and the READER can find a OP that has the same thinking.

The reveiw tells of her. So a reader can find if she is what he is looking for.

PS: If I missread your statement, sorry!


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And goes with my thinking of the reader finding a reviewer that thinks in similar way, and has similar tastes.

most readers can tell what is BS and not. And what would be ok for all or not. So why worry about a few nitwits that think all they read is golden, written in stone. For even without this board Some will still think they are going to get something they will not. Pease do not short most readers for a few that will never get it anyways
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Old 11-20-2010, 01:07 PM   #35
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Let's not overstate the case either way.

Reviews are useful. For the careful hobbyist, they are the closest thing to a consumer guide. For the provider, reviews are a primary marketing tool. We all understand that some reviews are semi-fictional.

However, even though most ladies strive for reliability in services, there is always the possibility of YMMV. After all, a session is being two human beings who may or may not be in top form on any given day or may have varying degrees of chemistry.
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Old 11-20-2010, 03:13 PM   #36
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Hey thats enough ass kissing on this forum lol


Jealousy gets you nowhere........







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Old 11-20-2010, 04:29 PM   #37
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Kisses for you, elghund!!
elg, we are envious of anyone who gets that from Hanna (regardless of how he earned it!).
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Old 11-20-2010, 04:41 PM   #38
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Summerwaves, would you liken it to a restaurant review? Doesn’t it provide some value as to what may be on the menu, with the understanding that everyone’s dish and experience will vary?

No, the menu may be different depending on the person. You can't compare escorting to a restaurant menu.
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Old 11-20-2010, 05:08 PM   #39
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You are correct! I am not comparing escorting to a restaurant menu; I am comparing the method of reviews and resultant expectations. Every patron will have a different experience, but based on reviews there may be a certain level of interest or expectation that develops based on the review. The patron doesn’t necessarily know what is standard compared to what is an extra for special guests.
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Old 11-20-2010, 05:23 PM   #40
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Now, now. There is no reason for anyone to get upset. I told the poster to talk to the provider about her services after his references check out. Leaving expectations up to prior reviews is not a good idea. I am very open about talking about graphic details but I don't know if it's allowed here.
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Old 11-20-2010, 05:33 PM   #41
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You are correct! I am not comparing escorting to a restaurant menu; I am comparing the method of reviews and resultant expectations. Every patron will have a different experience, but based on reviews there may be a certain level of interest or expectation that develops based on the review. The patron doesn’t necessarily know what is standard compared to what is an extra for special guests.
Yes, every patron will have a different experience or different perspective of the same experience.

As far as services rendered, well, those can drastically change depending on the patron's behavior and other characteristics.
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Old 11-20-2010, 05:37 PM   #42
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Yes, every patron will have a different experience or different perspective of the same experience.

As far as services rendered, well, those can drastically change depending on the patron's behavior and other characteristics.
Agreed! And a Belated Happy Birthday.
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Old 11-20-2010, 06:08 PM   #43
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No, the menu may be different depending on the person. You can't compare escorting to a restaurant menu.
You can compare a restaurant review to an escort review if you understand it's only on the eyes of the writer! LOL

And on the subject of restaurant menus and escort menus, really doesn't matter what's on the menu if the chef doesn't know what she is doing!!

Smooch!

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Old 11-20-2010, 06:17 PM   #44
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You can compare a restaurant review to an escort review if you understand it's only on the eyes of the writer! LOL

And on the subject of restaurant menus and escort menus, really doesn't matter what's on the menu if the chef doesn't know what she is doing!!

Smooch!

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Well, funny thing is the chef could be an absolutely great cook in someone else's eyes or the cook could change things up purposely or not, leading to positive or a negative outcum!

Nothing worse than being great in one person's eyes and nothing in another person's eyes! Some days a person just can't win!!!!

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Old 11-20-2010, 06:20 PM   #45
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nice tie, and thanks for the good point. mmmm been a long time that I have been tied by my own tie.
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