Giving out Personal info such as name of company employed by

[everyman kc]

A little backtracking JR lol. If I was a betting man. I be willing to bet that your chances of meeting any of the lady's on your hit list. Were small indeed at this point....I've met three of the women on your little list, and I found each was well worth the added effort it took in order to meet.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by everyman kc

A little backtracking JR lol. If I was a betting man. I be willing to bet that your chances of meeting any of the lady's on your hit list. Were small indeed at this point....I've met three of the women on your little list, and I found each was well worth the added effort it took in order to meet.

so the blackmail has not started yet it seems

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by everyman kc

A little backtracking JR lol. If I was a betting man. I be willing to bet that your chances of meeting any of the lady's on your hit list. Were small indeed at this point....I've met three of the women on your little list, and I found each was well worth the added effort it took in order to meet.

Please read it again. This is a list of ladies who have required information that I choose not to provide. All of them are highly intelligent and beautiful women. I respect their rules; it is my choice and my loss. Life is about having losses: move on.

I also recognize that over many year my preference has been to look for UTR ladies who are hard to replace as they retire from the hobby. My loss, and my choice.

Be safe my friends,

JR

[zeejoe]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Please read it again. This is a list of ladies who have required information that I choose not to provide. All of them are highly intelligent and beautiful women. I respect their rules; it is my choice and my loss. Life is about having losses: move on.

I also recognize that over many year my preference has been to look for UTR ladies who are hard to replace as they retire from the hobby. My loss, and my choice.

Be safe my friends,

JR

...so maybe just quit posting your own personal shit list for no good reason and just hoping everybody 'gets it' in the right context.

[Jayhawker]

Originally Posted by ElumEno

Escorting is a legal occupation and some places do require a license... you are assuming that all escorts sell sex... escorts sell their time only.
Now here is the real kicker... in some places that require an Escort license the fine for not having one is greater then the fine for solicitation.

Yea, uhhh sure you are absolutely correct and guys are literally just paying $150 to have donuts and coffee at Starbucks.

Just being funny.

[Onatop]

Well just think about it - both client and provider - where in the life do two people of the opposite sex get to know each other in such a short time and most clients vent details, etc. Most upper scale providers are good listeners, and if not the attention to listen most upper scale clients will seek one who will.
Getting to the information subject - well yes depends on who the provider is, etc., what they expect for screening information. Trust me I doubt if I every give out my work details again or phone # - did once to a UTR high end provider which there were no problems with such and yes had to give my real name also. P411 requires that they call the client at their work phone # to verify and the cost of $129 annual dues is too high in my view.
I aspect some feel safe with a real name, work details to feel safe for security or to have a trump card is problems arise. But how many clients know the real name of providers? Very few do - or want too?
It all depends on what the client situation is and desire to see a certain provider of what information is given. I guess once breaking the ice and establishing a trust with NSA or no drama then most of the time arrangements are carefree and no issues should arise.
Anyway I doubt if there is ever a perfect client provider arrangement.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia

There are only Two Options:

(1) You decide yes you will give out all the information the provider needs to feel safe seeing you. You get to see her.

(2) You decide you are not comfortable giving out the information the provider requires in order to see you. You do not get to see her. You simply move on to another provider who does not screen as heavily.

SAFETY is, and will Always be, my number one priority while in the hobby. No Exceptions.

So much this ..... any beating your chest about it is a waste of time.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Onatop

Well just think about it - both client and provider - where in the life do two people of the opposite sex get to know each other in such a short time and most clients vent details, etc. Most upper scale providers are good listeners, and if not the attention to listen most upper scale clients will seek one who will.

Getting to the information subject - well yes depends on who the provider is, etc., what they expect for screening information. Trust me I doubt if I every give out my work details again or phone # - did once to a UTR high end provider which there were no problems
Same Experience, same conclusion since my friend retired.

with such and yes had to give my real name also. P411 requires that they call the client at their work phone # to verify and the cost of $129 annual dues is too high in my view.

Agree

I aspect some feel safe with a real name, work details to feel safe for security or

to have a trump card is problems arise.
Understood
But how many clients know the real name of providers? Very few do - or want too?

Not at first, but it has been given, several times - and respected.

It all depends on what the client situation is and desire to see a certain provider of what information is given. I guess once breaking the ice and establishing a trust with NSA or no drama then most of the time arrangements are carefree and no issues should arise.
Anyway I doubt if there is ever a perfect client provider arrangement.

Agree, I have seen a my favorite ladies retire and move on, still talk to two once or twice per year. Married with children and doing well. They are special and remembered.

Well, it is confession time. I just tend to chicken-out when it is time to provide personal information to someone who I haven't met. I also have a list of ladies who have been reported on this board, and the previous board by other ladies for blackmailing a client. (Shutters)



Wow!

It may be true, or not, but I suspect that a lot of information is shared by those requesting the personal information. Thus, I don't provide it - that simple.

Until recently, I just did not post reviews. It seems to feel as if I am bragging about seeing a lady. I feel that our friendship should be between the two of us. But, recently I have asked and received a strong yes from some ladies. I will always ask if a lady would like a review and respect her wishes.

JR

[Onatop]

I guess I have been inactive for awhile seeing a provider.A lovely one that is a member here never gave her a review but has always provided +++ reference for me a couple times. Finding a UTR low low volume provider without giving your SS number is difficult maybe this is next ? I doubt if 50% of the BP listings are of the actual provider themself anyway think about this on behalf of the provider meeting someone you never meet before is a risk even for the client it is in my view. Not beating my chest in disagreement with a providers protocol but some things that providers require are stepping over the line on boundaries but a few bad apples ruin the whole barrel.If a client has went through the P411 verification which part of the fee is to do a background check,etc. on the client then I think some things should be left alone. Maybe providers like to do their own checks to make sure the client is clean cut or non LE?

What burnt me out I was blessed to see a lovely provider on this board a couple times never dreamed that she worked for someone until once she slipped saying then quickly contradicted herself. Only time I snopped was that I did a reverse phone number check on the contact phone number yes it was registered to a MidEastern name man hmmm oh well why or maybe the phone was provided so in case there were problems the phone # could be tracted and find the owner. Setting up an appointment with her was not easy at first since she was cautious but after a few emails, chat's things went well. Just the thought of someone else gaining benefit from seeing her kind of soured me.

Anyway my 2 cents worth on the thread.

[Onatop]

Correction on the above thread - The lovely provider that I seen has retired, shame in a way she is mentioned now and then on here from time to time.