Hmmm..Really??

[ElumEno]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Hey Slick....

Please don't take this personally but when you start off by referencing MsE and then go on to compare her to another provider you have DUH just made it personal......

Think about it Amigo...

Duh, but I didn't mean too... unlike some others on here sometimes I just post with out all the bullshit hidden meanings behind them.

I made the mistake of thinking before hand that she might take it personally when I didn't mean for it to be taken that way, so I asked her not to take it that way... and well you know.

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by ElumEno

Sounds like you are going to take it personally anyway... and somehow even before posting it, I already know that you would... but hey I tried.
You read way to much into something that was suppose to be just a innocent comment. smdh

Yes I know it is something you have said, I was just trying to make a light hearted joke.

Seem that it is you that needs to learn when NOT to say something... hence this whole debate.

You directed that one post towards me and compared me to another lady. How is one NOT to take that personal? You knew the outcome, but yet still posted it. What's that tell you?

You just don't get it and I don't think you ever will.

In all honesty, I could care less if you find me exotic or not. I really don't value your opinion because you've proven yourself to have made bad choices in the past.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by MsElena

You directed that one post towards me and compared me to another lady. How is one NOT to take that personal? You knew the outcome, but yet still posted it. What's that tell you?

You just don't get it and I don't think you ever will.

In all honesty, I could care less if you find me exotic or not. I really don't value your opinion because you've proven yourself to have made bad choices in the past.

why do you care if he finds you exotic or not?

oh, did you mean, "couldn't careless"?

BTW, thanks for telling us you were being honest??

[ElumEno]

Originally Posted by MsElena

You directed that one post towards me and compared me to another lady. How is one NOT to take that personal? You knew the outcome, but yet still posted it. What's that tell you?

You just don't get it and I don't think you ever will.

In all honesty, I could care less if you find me exotic or not. I really don't value your opinion because you've proven yourself to have made bad choices in the past.

No I didn't foresee the outcome.. like I said, unlike you, I don't always post with a hidden agenda, it was just a post... one that was not suppose to be taken personally.

As for making mistakes... yes I have made plenty, but I have never tried to hide from them.
But you saying that I have proved myself for making bad choices is laughable at the least... those that leave in glass houses and all.

That is all I'm saying as this is just high jacking this thread even more.... we all have are own opinions on what is exotic... that really was all I was trying to say.

[MsElena]

Big.........You would be correct, it should be "couldn't careless."


One........When I post, there's no hidden agenda. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I have no problem speaking my mind. I don't post for other people, I post for myself.

[Smoking Monkey]

If it means anything....I think you're exotic Elena!

[Nia Baby]

STOP ARGUING WITH EACHOTHER YOU GUYS!!

WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SHARE OPINIONS W/O BECOMING OFFENDED... ITS JUST AN OPINION AND EVERY ONE IS ENTITLED TO IT..

NOW I AM SAD THAT I EVEN ASKED BECAUSE IT CAUSES COMMOTION

bye now

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by Nia Baby

STOP ARGUING WITH EACHOTHER YOU GUYS!!

WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SHARE OPINIONS W/O BECOMING OFFENDED... ITS JUST AN OPINION AND EVERY ONE IS ENTITLED TO IT..

NOW I AM SAD THAT I EVEN ASKED BECAUSE IT CAUSES COMMOTION

bye now

There is no reason to give an opinion that insults someone else, what use is that to anyone?

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by Smoking Monkey

If it means anything....I think you're exotic Elena!

Thank you sweetie.

[Guest013121]

Originally Posted by MsElena

What I said in either post shouldn't be taken personal, I wasn't referring to you.

And yes, it is funny to me when a white girl calls herself exotic. Jennifer Aniston isn't exotic, Megan Fox isn't exotic nor is Angie Jolie. But, actresses from Bollywood are, models from Brazil are.

But, that's my opinion....that's what I believe. Just as you have your opinion.

Originally Posted by MsElena

Now why would I take offense to it? I do want to thank you for making it personal though, quite nice of you.


Some time's you just need to know when NOT to say something. That's an art form you haven't conquered dear OneMule.

Now who is taking it personal? It seems you are. You take it personal when anyone on here disagrees with you or your opinions. What did Elum say that you didnt? You gave your opinion and he gave his. You was talking about 'white girls' and blondes and redheads not being exotic, then when I referenced some exotic ladies wearing those colors of hair you went to their ethnicity. Obviously, the word 'Exotic' has many definitions. If girls are using it to describe themselves, then so be it. Why it bothers you so much, I dont know and I dont care. I was merely explaining the reason why a lot of girls describe themselves as such. Its not just about ones ethnicity. That's all I was trying to say. We could debate on the adjectives ladies use to describe themselves all day long , but what's the point?

And the next time you want to be snobby to me by saying my red hair is not exotic, know something about me first. I'm of Northern Italian descent and German. But when I describe myself I'm not describing my ethnicity, I'm marketing myself through words in hopes they'll check out my ad and pics.

Tootaloo!

[HeyMikeyHeLikesIt]

Back on topic. I find clit piercings to be exotic.

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Now who is taking it personal? It seems you are. You take it personal when anyone on here disagrees with you or your opinions. What did Elum say that you didnt? You gave your opinion and he gave his. You was talking about 'white girls' and blondes and redheads not being exotic, then when I referenced some exotic ladies wearing those colors of hair you went to their ethnicity. Obviously, the word 'Exotic' has many definitions. If girls are using it to describe themselves, then so be it. Why it bothers you so much, I dont know and I dont care. I was merely explaining the reason why a lot of girls describe themselves as such. Its not just about ones ethnicity. That's all I was trying to say. We could debate on the adjectives ladies use to describe themselves all day long , but what's the point?

And the next time you want to be snobby to me by saying my red hair is not exotic, know something about me first. I'm of Northern Italian descent and German. But when I describe myself I'm not describing my ethnicity, I'm marketing myself through words in hopes they'll check out my ad and pics.

Tootaloo!

Where did I say your hair, Gemma's red hair wasn't exotic? I just went back to make sure I didn't miss anything and I can't find that comment. Now, I did say blonde's and red heads, so if you're taking that personal or that I made a dig at you....that's on you, not me. I wasn't referring to you Gemma, I was referring to hair colors that aren't considered to be exotic in my opinion. Just like bald heads aren't exotic to me, maybe I should have added that in my original comment so you wouldn't think I was referring to you.

What Onemule did was call me out and make it personal, I'm not the only person who saw what he was doing. But, that's his thing.

I have never had a problem with you and I still don't have a problem, but trust me when I say this. If I had a problem with you, you'd be the first to know because I have no issue in talking to someone or letting that person know I don't like or care for them. I don't do the passive/aggressive posts, I always post what's on my mind.


And I can't even believe that this topic is something to bicker over. Its stupid.

[Guest013121]

You're totally contradicting yourself. You're not talking about me but you point out that redheads and blondes aren't exotic (in your opinion)... Oh whatever, its not this serious and a difference of opinions always makes for a good read. I think the word exotic has been SUPER defined in this thread. We all have our own vision of the word. I'm quite sure, this thread won't deter me or any other ladies from using the word to describe ourselves.

[LNK]

Wow. All this hooker drama over the definition of a word.

And the word isn't even "hooker"!

[bluegrana]

y'all look good, exotic or not.