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Originally Posted by Prolongus
Uhhhh...not sure I understand...need clarification! You text her, email, maybe see her socially...a possible one stand with someone you just met MAY lead to BCD...with a Provider it definitely WILL lead to BCD.
Am I making sense?
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No. I always scheduled at least 2 hours, so at least the first 30 minutes I was there, it was about chit-chatting and getting comfortable. Figure that into the time texting and calling. I can't recall ever having a session with someone who wasn't at ease by the time bcd activities rolled around. I've had sex with a few civillian women I've known for 30 minutes (not texting, emails or phone calls, of course.) It was still different. The connection just wasn't there with providers. Too mechanical for me and I don't really believe it is just a provider being more nervous than a civillian. Except for 1 or 2 times, I always made 2-3 visits to the same provider hoping it would get less mechanical, before trying someone else. So, no. You aren't making sense, to me anyway.
