We need a Provider Appreciation Day...Not that it will ever happen, but it would be nice.

[oldmarine]

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

IMHO - With the amount of Providers in DFW, any day that a guy chooses you(any provider) to pay to have sex with is provider appreciation day.

If a guy only sees 1 or 2 providers a month. The hours, or days looking thru ads, showcases, to find the one or two we want to spend our hard earned money on is already appreciated. We chose to appreciate her above all the other DFW providers.

On the other hand. Any provider willing to see me is appreciated because I know at that point it's Hobbiest Appreciation day or in my case aka "Take Pity on Von Day"

Couldn't have said it better.

[txman123]

kitty, I've had couple of truly off the clock dates with providers (we need a better word) where they turned off the hobby phone.
One was as lovers on a date, other as good buds hanging out together.
Both were great.

prob is, the business you are in makes it hard to find people that you can have that kind of relationship with.

some ladies get offended with an otc proposal. I dont think its necessarily a personal dislike, but more of a feeling that its a sneaky way to try and get free pussy.
well not free but not paid for directly.

and your comments about faking it.
I'm not pollyannaish enough to believe it's always good for you and theres not lots of iop going on.
But i really hope that at least sometimes it's good for you. we are both supposed to enjoy ourselves, you ladies deserve a good time too.

to glom onto von and a few others, fwiw, when i choose you, out of hundreds, its cause i see something special in you.

hell, I'd be tickled pink to have some blue margaritas and chips and caeso on the patio with you over at (the name escapes me) mexican place in addison some time.

[KittyLamour]

I think it's the Blue Mesa on Montfort?

I'm game let's go!

[txman123]

kitty, lets do it, pm sent
ps - yeah, i luv that avatar, all too true.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

IMHO - With the amount of Providers in DFW, any day that a guy chooses you(any provider) to pay to have sex with is provider appreciation day.

If a guy only sees 1 or 2 providers a month. The hours, or days looking thru ads, showcases, to find the one or two we want to spend our hard earned money on is already appreciated. We chose to appreciate her above all the other DFW providers.

On the other hand. Any provider willing to see me is appreciated because I know at that point it's Hobbiest Appreciation day or in my case aka "Take Pity on Von Day"

A lot of guys on here view providers as interchangeable cocksockets -- Plan B or C is as good as Plan A, and as long as a nut results, all is good.

Some of us are a bit more particular, whether because money or opportunity is more scarce, or because we seek something a little, or a lot, more than just the nut.

Maybe we don't show it enough, or maybe the women see too many guys to appreciate it, but our selection process does show some appreciation. And a repeat visit, or a long-term business relationship, is the ultimate form of appreciation -- well, for those of us who can't afford cars and trips to Vegas.

Von, does the "take pity on me" approach work? I need to try something new.

[CPLOVER]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Hehe like my new avatar???

YES!!! It is very good. Much better than looking at your face.

[CPLOVER]

Kitty, you can also get a real job

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Every day we devote ourselves to pleasing others, doing whatever they want to do... putting our own sexual and emotional needs on a back burner to ensure our clients needs are met. We do things we may not be really into for people we'd probably never fuck if we didn't need the money. Over and over we get sexually teased, sometimes even close to an orgasm and get shut down right when it's feeling good because we couldn't come fast enough when the pressure to come on demand is what makes it so difficult to actually happen. We convincingly fake it while getting pounded from odd angles that bruise our walls , kidneys and bladder... we hop right up with a smile on our face to serve a warm wet washcloth for our partner to clean up comfortably with... we rush to put on clothing because when he's ready to go he won't be considerate and will open the door wide open so anyone outside can see you dressed or not. You scramble out of view, smile, thank him and generously tell him you hope to see him again.

You get so good at wearing a mask and being fake you shove your own needs further and further down. Inside you are lonely, you have no one to really talk to. Nobody to connect to on an emotional level. You don't trust anyone but stay on your guard expecting to be fucked over at any moment.

Your friends only call you when they want something from you.

Guys act interested in you as a person for some free pussy then never call you again whenever you do try to have a sex life outside the hobby.

You wonder if being independent is all it cracks up to be and you wonder if having a pimp and provider wife in laws could substitute for your family that's disowned you and left a void in your heart. You realize you may always be alone.

You contemplate if anyone would notice if you went missing.

You wonder if anyone would even care.

Wouldn't it be nice to have a day like a holiday... when your regulars buy you roses and take you to eat at The Cheesecake factory... if Hallmark had a section for Provider's Day cards and if people took the time to find us just the right one... then eagerly urged us to read theirs first...

Wouldn't it be great to be appreciated just once a year? Wouldn't it feel terrific if for just one day people were actually interested in what you had to say and sat down and wanted to watch your favorite movie without groping on you and insisting you stop watching it to please their needs...

It will never happen, I know. But at least it's something to think about...

Hate to add to your blues but this is a business love and it sounds like you are looking for a boyfriend I'm sure he will do all that for you. When did a client donation stop being enough appreciation for you?

I'm sure McDonald's is not looking for their customers to give them a day or show them we appreciate them for cooking the food for us lol that's why we pay them and I'm very confident that McDonald's corporation rather have our money.

[AmericanHardwood]

When's Hobbiest Appreciation Day?
We already have March 14 as Steak and Bj Day but I didn't get any calls for a free steak and Bj. "This would be a great day for you to set aside for customer appreciation "
Most establishments have customer appreciation day to honor those who have contributed to their success as well bring in new customers.
Let's not forget our funds support you. The new car, the home your in, those designer clothes was not bought with a 9-5 pay check. Without the Hobbiest all of those would not be the same standard.
How would you feel if Chase Bank for example asked for a Bank appreciation Day?
After all the tellers do work hard.
Please let me know when Customer Appreciation Day is.

[KittyLamour]

Damn.

[CG2014]

Originally Posted by The Phoenix

When's Hobbiest Appreciation Day?
We already have March 14 as Steak and Bj Day but I didn't get any calls for a free steak and Bj.

I didn't either but I sure got a great many calls and iM and texts weeks prior to Valentine's Day to remind me that Valentine's Day is upcoming and we ain't talking about one call/text/iM per girl.

Same from when they have a birthday nearing, we are reminded almost every day about it for weeks prior to it.

But when it's my birthday, none of them, whether providers or regular girls or strippers, has ever offered to cook me a meal or a HJ or a BJ.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by CG2014

But when it's my birthday, none of them, whether providers or regular girls or strippers, has ever offered to cook me a meal or a HJ or a BJ.

Or wives. Mine even outsources the birthday meal.

[CG2014]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Or wives. Mine even outsources the birthday meal.

McDonald's?

Hungry Man?

Banquet?

[Guest110416]

My thoughts on provider and hobbyist appreciation days:

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

IMHO - With the amount of Providers in DFW, any day that a guy chooses you(any provider) to pay to have sex with is provider appreciation day.....

I agree with Von, a provider gets appreciated each time the day comes she gets contacted, an appointment is set and the hobbyist shows up and pays.

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

A lot of guys on here view providers as interchangeable cocksockets -- Plan B or C is as good as Plan A, and as long as a nut results, all is good.

Some of us are a bit more particular, whether because money or opportunity is more scarce, or because we seek something a little, or a lot, more than just the nut.

Maybe we don't show it enough, or maybe the women see too many guys to appreciate it, but our selection process does show some appreciation. And a repeat visit, or a long-term business relationship, is the ultimate form of appreciation -- well, for those of us who can't afford cars and trips to Vegas.

Von, does the "take pity on me" approach work? I need to try something new.

I do not think most guys think providers are cock sockets or want to just get a nut. I think most guys are wanting a total bedroom GFE experience, which is why they pay for it in the first place for the guarantee instead of playing the seduction game of a RW experience.

Originally Posted by The Phoenix

When's Hobbiest Appreciation Day?
We already have March 14 as Steak and Bj Day but I didn't get any calls for a free steak and Bj. "This would be a great day for you to set aside for customer appreciation "
Most establishments have customer appreciation day to honor those who have contributed to their success as well bring in new customers.
Let's not forget our funds support you. The new car, the home your in, those designer clothes was not bought with a 9-5 pay check. Without the Hobbiest all of those would not be the same standard.
How would you feel if Chase Bank for example asked for a Bank appreciation Day?
After all the tellers do work hard.
Please let me know when Customer Appreciation Day is.

Some providers think that hobbyist appreciation day is when she agrees to an appointment and allow him to pay her for her service(s). IMO, one way a provider appreciates a hobbyist is by giving him a discounted session after a few visits in the past at full donation price or giving him added time for no charge.

[Guest112916]

Originally posted by Sir Lancernot -Von, does the "take pity on me" approach work? I need to try something new.

It's worked every since my right hand took pity on me the first time I masturbated to a Hustler magazine.

In high school a group of us were playing Dungeons & Dragons trying to come up with ways to get laid. We all came up with different schemes. One guy was going to pretend to be gay because he heard a few girls talking about being so hot and good they could turn a gay straight. Mine was to make a girl take pity on me after an accident. Oddly enough I was in a snow ski accident and partially paralyzed. I couldn't move but I could feel. Over a period of days motor skills above the waist returned and I could move my arms, hands, upper body but my legs wouldn't work. The Doctors said they would eventually recover. Many of my classmates, especially the lovely hot cheerleaders and other hot girls came to visit me. One gal I had a crush on was sitting on the bed next to me. As we chatted I became aroused, she noticed, looked at me and blushed the asked if I could feel anything or control it. In my head I'm thinking "fuck yeah" and made a puzzled look of concern on my face and said "I really can't tell." THE VON PITY FACTOR KICKS IN! She gave me my first blowjob. While doing it my toes and feet would twitch and my knee jerked when I came. She took credit for helping me recover.