Dating a provider?

[vanessaamour]

At the end of the day the shit will never work especially if yall met in the hobby ..every argument will end in u just a hoe ,u sell pussy, and her ur just a trick u buy pussy. He may screenshot reviews and throw them in ur face or want u to spend time qith him when u supposed to be working. Its horrendous NEVER NEVER NEVER

[craigehott]

Originally Posted by vanessaamour

At the end of the day the shit will never work especially if yall met in the hobby ..every argument will end in u just a hoe ,u sell pussy, and her ur just a trick u buy pussy. He may screenshot reviews and throw them in ur face or want u to spend time qith him when u supposed to be working. Its horrendous NEVER NEVER NEVER

If this is one's behavior, the hobby is not the problem.

[txsun]

Originally Posted by SusiSquirts

This sounds like you haven't actually met a provider yet that would want to date you?!?

You realize that ECCIE,
P411 and other escorting platforms are not long term relationship sites, right?

Any escort will be your girlfriend. For the right price.

I suppose you are right although I did have a provider in mind, it really was up to her to actually date me. In general, it would be something I'd be interested to pursue. it seems exciting to date a provider. They seem confident. Open-minded. Self sufficient. Kinky. and super sexy. But I did get a lot of insight from everyone's opinions. Today I opened up to her about how I felt and how she feels about taking it out of the hobby and date on a traditional level but it looks like she isn't taking the bait and wants to focus on her escort business to gain stability and eventually exit out of the business. Sad day.

I went the SA way with a great girl recently, but it ended because she wanting marriage way too soon and she was a bit close minded and was too reliant on me. It also ended because this provider was always on my mind.

I will pitch this new idea "girlfriend for the right price." She seems like she enjoys doing what she does and has good connections with others she doesn't want to leave just yet. It was stupid for me to ask because I know how she likes to keep it professional as I'm sure thats something to be aware of with any provider I try to date one in the future. But never hurts to try. Now the question is what is the right price i should pitch?

[fun2come]

a Million dollars.

Sounds like an "Indecent proposal" to me.

[Guest110417]

Liz's comments are where I've landed in retrospect. It was certainly fun while it lasted but there were some harrowing moments mixed in there for sure!

I kinda had training wheels earlier in life's journey for this type of thing as my SO was a stripper for a minute back in the salad days. We also ran around doing bachelor/birthday gigs and the like.

This much I definitely do know. You can't be a possessive, obsessive, or controlling personality-type if you want to take something like this on.

I guess my closing advice would be to live in the moment, not overthink shit, and definitely stay the fuck out of the way when a lady is in biznass mode just like she stays out of the way when you're pursuing your RW prerogatives.

Peace, Love, and #BHILF

JS

[Still Looking]

What could go wrong?

[Guest110417]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

What could go wrong?

It ain't all sunshine and lollipops, that's for sure. But, I haven't been burned any worse by my hooker girlfriends than I have by RW relationships and I've definitely had more fun.

There was an absence of a great deal of the pretense typical of the established bullshit male-female orthodoxy in my flings with the hobby girls that was absolutely blissful and that I still miss. In that sense, there was a certain Bohemian thing going on. I actually recommend it.

Peace, Love, and #BHILF

JS