Due to all the drama, I'm out!

[Guest120615-3]

I feel horrible for some of the providers on this site. They are trying to make living and have some fun here but are subjected to crude, disgusting, even threatening comments behind the scenes. These jerks don't have the balls to post the same comments in an open forum, yet apparently have no problem sending hateful PMs. It's sickening! It just makes the rest of hobbyists look bad. Too many providers that I adore just refuse to post here anymore. It's just too bad.

[London Rayne]

This goes well beyond Eccie and the hobby. What is said on any board, I couldn't care less about. It is when guys make it their sole ambition to find out who you are, where you live, where you go to school etc. just to make up rumors to hurt your personal life.

Some men are that intimidated and insecure, that's what they have to do. They can't stand any woman having something going outside of this, and want to try and destroy it. Eccie nor any other board, has control beyond what is said and done here. We can't expect that from them.

[burkalini]

As someone that was ncns a couple of times and I reviewed it on then Escort.com. I felt it was appropiate since there was no call at all. I found out later that this provider put my real name ( she apparently got my name from a hobbyist I knew) out on one of the escort only sites and completly lied about it. It doesn't really bother me because I am retired and single but I can imagine if the provider or hobbyist had family or employment to be worried about it could be very damaging. These type of people, provider or hobbyist need to be boycotted.

[London Rayne]

That's absurd! A simple NS is not worthy of having your real name out there. BBFS attempt after being told no, robbing, and rape are what I would consider serious.

[burkalini]

London I hope you realize it the provider that no showed not me. She was retaliating because I told the truth and reviewed her on it.

[London Rayne]

Still not cool. She did what she did, and can't get mad because you called her on it. You did not put her real name out there.

[burkalini]

No I didn't and I know it also. Please excuse the description but this one is a bitch with anger issues

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by burkalini

No I didn't and I know it also. Please excuse the description but this one is a bitch with anger issues

How hard are those to find? LOL

[Budman]

Sami,
I don't know you or the drama you speak of but why post this thread? If you feel the need to leave then just go. Don't log on anymore. Have your account guested. Don't think of this site again. IMO this was posted so you can get a bunch of "Oh please don't go, we all love you" bullshit posts. You started this BS yesterday morning and I see you are still here. Does that mean you really don't want to go? If you want to stay then by all means stick around and play in whatever playground you wish but if you truly want to leave then GTFO.

[MrGiz]

Naaaaaaahhhhh.... I think she just wanted to highlight some of the scumbags on the site, before she goes!!

[Budman]

Giz, If that's the case call them the fuck out by name. This was just an "I'm leaving because you're being mean". "No, I really mean it this time, I'm leaving". "I promise, one more time and I'm outta here". "Ok, I'm gone". "Oh never mind I'm staying".

[guest100913]

At what point I wonder...


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[Sami]

Seems you are keeping tabs on me, no need to call names when asses like you show yourself. Last I checked I was able to check my pm's.

Originally Posted by Budman

Sami,
I don't know you or the drama you speak of but why post this thread? If you feel the need to leave then just go. Don't log on anymore. Have your account guested. Don't think of this site again. IMO this was posted so you can get a bunch of "Oh please don't go, we all love you" bullshit posts. You started this BS yesterday morning and I see you are still here. Does that mean you really don't want to go? If you want to stay then by all means stick around and play in whatever playground you wish but if you truly want to leave then GTFO.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Budman

Giz, If that's the case call them the fuck out by name. This was just an "I'm leaving because you're being mean". "No, I really mean it this time, I'm leaving". "I promise, one more time and I'm outta here". "Ok, I'm gone". "Oh never mind I'm staying".

Whats it to you? Why would you even say something like that....

[ProfessorC]

Well Sami, someone has been kind enough to illustrate your point quite conclusively--although perhaps inadvertently--so I 'spect you can now offer thanks and declare victory!