Overbearing Clients

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Ignore the overbearing clients. Concentrate on the $3500 overnighters.

Every time I think of that thread, I can't help but thinking of the scene in Catch Me If You Can where Leonardo Dicaprio gives High-priced Call Girl Jennifer Garner a forged cashiers check for a a night of sex. She charges $1000 but he gives her a bad check for $1400 and she gives him $400 cash back. So she ends up paying him $400 for the night of passion!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=31lZFoSS-VQ

[Taskmaster]

Lilmynx -- I thought you made a great post in that thread (even if not universally well received) about the extra trust required for an extended date.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Taskmaster

Lilmynx -- I thought you made a great post in that thread (even if not universally well received) about the extra trust required for an extended date.

Thank you. "Not universally well received" is an understatement. I think it's quite hypocritical for "providers" to ask clients for all sorts of personal info, but the client paying $x10 doesn't even know her first name. What's she hiding? Criminal background? And how serious about extended dates and luxury companionship is she? He can't book her a plane ticket without her name. But whatever...no one needs to know a "provider's" for an hour wham bam session, I suppose.

I'm not here to judge...at least not out loud.

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Thank you. "Not universally well received" is an understatement. I think it's quite hypocritical for "providers" to ask clients for all sorts of personal info, but the client paying $x10 doesn't even know her first name. What's she hiding? Criminal background? And how serious about extended dates and luxury companionship is she? He can't book her a plane ticket without her name. But whatever...no one needs to know a "provider's" for an hour wham bam session, I suppose.

I'm not here to judge...at least not out loud.

Yes, you did get some flack about that from the ladies. I wholeheartedly agree with you. I have taken providers to Hawaii, Alaska, NYC, Key West etc and never had a respected lady give me a hard time about her real life info when I needed to book plane tickets. A date like that is a true GFE date and I can't imagine having a GFE feeling if it started out by me telling a lady that I am flying her First Class to Four Seasons in Maui and paying for her time while there , only to have her say that she won't tell me her name and birth date. OK -- bye bye honey. I can spend that wheelbarrow full of cash on someone who "gets it" -- Lilmynx , for example.

[offshoredrilling]

Iowa?????

[Frankie Fine]

Originally Posted by ExoticChyna

Guys...

It is okay to give a courtesy call after you see a provider but to call her work phone everyday knowing that her schedule is totally booked now that's a bit much! If you call once and she say hey I will give you a call when I am back in your area. Please please wait for that call she will get to you trust me! Please don't call or text 30 times a day with the infamous, WYD TEXT!

THOUGHTS!

Yes, that can happen. If you can't answer the phone then turn the ringer off. I find calls I do not answer, do not stop until I answer them. If its my biz phone and I can answer I do, or I just shut the sound off during appointments. If someone is overstepping my boundaries, I block them :/

You hopefully have a personal phone and a biz phone!?

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Yes, that can happen. If you can't answer the phone then turn the ringer off. I find calls I do not answer, do not stop until I answer them. If its my biz phone and I can answer I do, or I just shut the sound off during appointments. If someone is overstepping my boundaries, I block them :/

You hopefully have a personal phone and a biz phone!?

So that explains why I never get an answer -- blocked! Darn Frankie, now who will have my children?

[Frankie Fine]

LOL, rug rats?! Thank gosh I blocked you

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Yes, that can happen. If you can't answer the phone then turn the ringer off. I find calls I do not answer, do not stop until I answer them. If its my biz phone and I can answer I do, or I just shut the sound off during appointments. If someone is overstepping my boundaries, I block them :/

You hopefully have a personal phone and a biz phone!?

Block was the answer...

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Ignore the overbearing clients. Concentrate on the $3500 overnighters.

OH BELIEVE I MAKE SURE I GIVE BOTH ENDS ENOUGH ATTENTION NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE DONATING!

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

No. A good GFE would keep her clients expectations in check and not let it get out of hand.

If it did get out of hand, a good GFE would not air her dirty laundry in a public thrAD.

And a good person wouldn't badger the general population with insultingly stupid displays of shameless self-promotion.

It is interesting how many ladies will write threads about the hazards of lower cost providers and then embarrass themselves chasing free marketing.

Obviously you haven't read the thread.. Real expectations were set by letting him know when I would be back in the area...

And this is all to real.... what is the board for? For feedback, suggestions etc... NOT for bashing each other.. as usual you my dear are wayyyy off topic....

I really do need to promote you help out really well with that for me.....

This thread was for thoughts on dealing with Overbearing clients... without being rude! And was meant for providers not hobby it anyhow... ONCE AGAIN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE SAYING... AS USUAL

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by ExoticChyna

Obviously you haven't read the thread.. Real expectations were set by letting him know when I would be back in the area...

And this is all to real.... what is the board for? For feedback, suggestions etc... NOT for bashing each other.. as usual you my dear are wayyyy off topic....

I really do need to promote you help out really well with that for me.....

This thread was for thoughts on dealing with Overbearing clients... without being rude! And was meant for providers not hobby it anyhow... ONCE AGAIN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE SAYING... AS USUAL

*** DO NOT NEED TO SELF PROMOTE...

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

so far she seems to be having good luck with that.
And seemingly uncontrolled doing it her way.

Yes OSD My way is exactly it.... if you don't blaze your own trail you are following someone else's roadmap which may nor work for you! I will not be suckered into the ring so to speak....

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Not making fun or singling out but.... http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=936172 it's a newbie thing primarily or a fantasy out of control.
Wasn't it 2 years ago a girl got killed in oh by a jealous client when he found out she was married with kids and a house?

That is what worries me, jut how far are some guys willing to go. You get it

[ExoticChyna]

Originally Posted by Doove

Anything on overbearing self promoters?

Overbearing self promoters.. ha! That's not the topic and I do not to make threads for self promotion when I can just pay for ads... I barely make ads here smh... back to real topic, thanks