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Lolahhhhh · 11-28-2015, 02:16 PM

Well, I don't like being called a slut. You can like it all you want. I really don't care.

Danielle Reid · 11-28-2015, 02:25 PM

This is better than watching people fight in Wal-Mart over a sweater

Omerta · 11-28-2015, 02:27 PM

Lolahhhhh, I wouldn't be so worried. I agree with you in some ways: I don't call the ladies here "whores" or "sluts" or anything derogatory, either to their face or behind their back. They are not just bodies for my quick, impersonal gratification; the women here I've met are special to me, women to whom I can be intimate. And maybe I'm being stupid or naive, but I believe the women here deserve respect.

In these posts, it can be very hard to heard the emotional context behind the actual words. In my case, having met Ginger and Danielle in person, I can "see" their facial and body language to the words they're posting above. In the past, both women call themselves "whores" in person with me. But in each case, they winked, or shrugged, or used "that tone" which told me they don't take the term seriously.

And like Selina and Dallass have said, it's just a label. Take that label and make it your bitch: ignore it, change it, kick it... whatever makes you comfortable.

The hobby is all about living an illusion of passion. Sometimes it can really become a friendship but even if not, for a few hours, two people can lower their guard and be intimate together. So if a client is calling you a word you don't like, be kind but honest with him and tell him so. Tell him something like, "I like to act slutty, but I'm not a slut." Say it with a smile and a kiss, and most guys will willingly do what you ask.

But you don't have to put up with a guy disrespecting you. At the end of the day, you have a choice to see him or not.

Ginger Doll · 11-28-2015, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Did I make this asking for opinions? No. You're purposely trying to stir shit up. I made this thread to express MY FUCKING THOUGHTS.

Also I've only made 3 threads. And I've used them as threADS.

Why does it matter to you that I don't like being called a slut? Are you the one fucking me? Does my dislike of the word slut affect you in any way? Please take a moment to think about these three questions.

You can like being called a slut all you want. Why? BECAUSE I DONT GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU LIKE and it doesn't affect me.Maybe you should stop caring so much about me.

I haven't done a damn thing to you or anyone else. All you fucking females on this website who feel the need to start beef, fuck you. Calling me an attention whore. You guys post WAY more than me. I'm the new girl trying to get my name out there. Why do you care so much? You're afraid? You're jealous? Please fucking tell me. And then get the fuck over it. I'm not going anywhere and I'm gonna keep posting and doing the same shit I've been doing. All you're accomplishing is pissing me off and trying to start some petty drama. I'm fucking tired of hearing the hate.

You fucking females just don't understand. We could have SO MUCH FUN. But y'all wanna be miserable and hateful...

I'm done replying to your comments because I have shit to do today. Can't be spending all my time arguing with a grown ass woman, I have more important things to do. Have a nice day Selena. Glad to know your opinions lol

Temper, temper.

You're being a bit overly defensive & illogical. No one is out to get you... Quite the contrary. The experienced ladies here could be a great resource to you, if only you would stop acting so nasty.

Lolahhhhh · 11-28-2015, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Temper, temper.

You're being a bit overly defensive. No one is out to get you... Quite the contrary. The experienced ladies here could be a great resource to you, if only you would stop acting so nasty.

I let my temper get ahold of me. But I edited it. I just need to learn to not give a fuck what any of you have to say. And I'm not here to make friends with the ladies. My first client told me to stay away from y'all.

And I only 'act nasty' because I haven't had many of the more known providers do anything nice to me. Fuck, Danielle Reid blasted my face on BP. I'm angry. And she has her boyfriend or whitearmyboi (as I was told by a few hobbyist) post some hateful shit to me.
I'm angry and fed up.

BabyDallass · 11-28-2015, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Temper, temper.

You're being a bit overly defensive & illogical. No one is out to get you... Quite the contrary. The experienced ladies here could be a great resource to you, if only you would stop acting so nasty.

Damn! Smh self control people...a lot of hate in that paragraphs of post....she could learn a thing or two from some grown ass women one day....ijs

Danielle Reid · 11-28-2015, 02:34 PM

No one is being rude, bitchy, hateful, or miserable. I'm having the time of my life right now in NWA. Even though it's raining I had the best Crab Spinach dip at Crabby's.

Anyway, my point is none of us are attacking you sweetheart. We're giving you our opinions. I mean, this is an open board after all. No need to blow up and freak out. If you think before you hit Post Reply then you wouldn't have to erase it later

SerenityXX · 11-28-2015, 02:35 PM

I personally love being called a Prostitute and a slut.. I often refer to myself as a Penis Professional and I think I'm an outstanding whore. I definitely think Tht ur in the wrong profession if u don't like those terms. Then again u could go with daddy's good little girl if u prefer going about it Tht way. But we are all AWESOME whores, prostitutes, sluts, Orgasam engineers(love Tht IJS), and penis professionals. But Whatever u decide to be, be a good one. U are taking this to personal and u should just breath and take it easy darling.

BabyDallass · 11-28-2015, 02:37 PM

Okay....I haven't done anything to you lolahhh so please do not throw me in this mess...all I did say was being called a whore or slut dosent bother me...to each their own...I also had a client who wanted me to play with his small white penis and tell him what a big nice black cock he had, so I told him what he wanted to hear and we were both happy at the end

Permission2Look · 11-28-2015, 02:40 PM

I think the OP is quite breathe taking and if she ever decides to visit Texas, more precisely Houston, I would call her whatever she wanted me to

SerenityXX · 11-28-2015, 02:42 PM

Danielle Reid ur cracking my shit up over here I can't with u

peter north77 · 11-28-2015, 02:47 PM

I apologize Lolah for calling you a little girl..I am a john,trick,fucktard,loser that has to pay for pussy from chicks that won't give me the time of day in real world.but I have a good time.know thy self.

Ginger Doll · 11-28-2015, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by peter north77

I apologize Lolah for calling you a little girl..I am a john,trick,fucktard,loser that has to pay for pussy from chicks that won't give me the time of day in real world.but I have a good time.know thy self.

Oh, whatever. I let you take me to Denny's.

+1 on know thyself! Excellent way to put it, Peter.

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Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

... I'm not here to make friends with the ladies. My first client told me to stay away from y'all...

There's not a whole lot of safety in insulting & alienating yourself from your reference supply... Ijs.

Danielle Reid · 11-28-2015, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by SerenityXX

Danielle Reid ur cracking my shit up over here I can't with u

Lol glad I could make you laugh

peter north77 · 11-28-2015, 03:34 PM

I meant ladies in the real world who look like the ones that let me fuck them.sorry for not being lucid Ginger,lucidity never been my forte.