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sphlish · 02-13-2011, 10:18 PM

For me, it was a business trip in Dallas nearly 2 decades ago. I had the itch, called an agency, and luckily scored well with a lucious spinner (a review now would be ouside the 30-day window ;-) ). Then, around 2001, I hooked up with a married woman who had caught her husband cheating. She said he had been using a site to make dates. Later, we took a few moments to browse the "site." I created a profile and browsed around with her sitting on my lap, looking to see if we could find posts by her hubby (she stroked my cock as we surfed). That night was my registration to aspd it has been a wonderful life ever since. I have made some wonderful friendships and acquaintances in this hobby, not to mention having some out of this world experiences too.

bigrich75 · 02-14-2011, 06:35 AM

hmm.. maybe cuz when i was about 14 or so i ended up somehow in boystown in acuna and when it only cost me about $13, i was hooked on "cheap" pieces of hot mexican nalgas...

and then it progressed to CL and then BP and then ASPD and now here...

BritishBabe · 02-14-2011, 05:59 PM

These answers are vared...and I love reading everyone of them. We are all unique looking for the same yet different experience!! Birds of a feather flock together!!

Happy Valentine's Day! xx

latinalover · 02-14-2011, 07:09 PM

military over seas. then i found if you give them $ they will leave WOW jack pot lol
ok kidding. well maby not

oldtiger · 02-16-2011, 11:06 AM

I like hot women who know how to take care of business BCD, my ex wasn't and didn't.....

Willen · 02-16-2011, 11:33 AM

The SO is clinically depressed and the meds have killed an already weak libido. That said, variety is wonderful, and so too is being able to explore new aspects of the sensual realm (not to mention nasty stuff I barely dreamed of back in the day.)

wheels69 · 02-16-2011, 12:33 PM

home alone ..tired of playing with myself ..wanted someone (female) to play with
can not stop
now I am looking for more

MisterB · 02-16-2011, 05:03 PM

Some buddies tossed me in a truck and hauled my skinny 16 year old ass to Acuna. There I met a beautiful girl named Veronica. She treated me with love and tenderness and made me feel like her man. She also fucked and sucked me like a demon. I still think of her once in a while.

So now it's over 30 years later and my SO withholds sex as a punishment AND has had an encounter with my best friend. My once granite-like faithfulness is now shattered.

PM me BritishBabe, I'd love to see you!

PaganGuy · 02-16-2011, 05:18 PM

Think Ive answered something similar before but basically while I'm otherwise more happily married than most men I think, 15 years is a long time with one woman. Well not really one.. when we were first married we used to fool around with couples a few times till one of the other women went kinda crazy obsessive over my wife and she said 'enough' and won't consider the idea again.

Her sex drive has been going downhill steadilly, which is sad since she used to be an animal in bed.. still has her moments but they are very very few and far between while my appetites are pretty insatiable. So a lack of steady nookie, a love of variety, and the final straw being moving to SA from Virginia a year and a half ago and spending a lot of time unemployed initially (wifely job moved us here), bored and horny (but reasonably OK at the time with a generous relocation bonus and savings).. I started playing the CL game looking for "NSA" distractions. Found that of the very very few ads that had real women behind them who weren't flakes or psychopaths, were looking more for "$A". In a moment of immense weakness I met my first provider, had a wonderful time once I got over being nervous as hell, and had this forum brought to my attention (actually I think it was the other one first which I never really got into posting on, then this one later), and the rest is.. what it is.

BigAl69 · 02-16-2011, 05:34 PM

Went to a strip club with some of my buddies (was 21). Cutest Ebony in the place comes up and asks if I wanted to f*** for $. That about did it for me!

tim_29m · 02-16-2011, 09:28 PM

My start was over in Europe while in the military...Amsterdam and Frankfurt will always hold a special place in my heart! (And in my pants!!! ;-)). I guess I am a deviant at heart too. Same with others on here...SO drive has gone down to almost nothing after 20 years and I do love the variety and being able to share the physicality with a partner....I think I would have fit right in during the 60s!! Saying all that...I feel comfortable being here...think it would be VERY easy to be friends outside of this site with most, if not all of you!

liesas · 02-17-2011, 12:51 PM

Customers in DFW started taking me to massage parlors, then CL, then ASPD, now here.

guest050313 · 02-18-2011, 10:56 AM

I'm kinda along the same lines as Crimson and Pagan - I'm actually really happily married, and my SO and I have a pretty good & active sex life... it's just different with her vs. with some of the girls on the site here. It really is a matter of purely physical sex vs. sex w/emotional connection, and trying to compare the two goes a bit beyond apples and oranges.

So... I'll chalk it up to millions of years of genetics compelling me to seek variety. I get asked occasionally by a provider if my wife doesn't 'satisfy' me... I guess she doesn't, but that's mainly because I don't think one single woman can ever completely do that for any man with a normal sex drive. I loves the sexy naked women. The more the better. Me and Gengis Khan could have had long discussions regarding harem-building techniques. Unfortunately I was born into a 'civilized' age.

I really kinda wish I could get my wife into couple's sessions, but I think she'll need a few more years before she'll consider it. After two kids, her sex drive is still pretty good, so we'll see where we are in another couple of years. For now, I'm having my cake and eating too, and I'd like to see how much longer I can keep that up.

Tara Foxx · 02-18-2011, 04:09 PM

Became a lingerie model late 90s, was like "sweet". For the first time in my life, I made great money and didn't have to kill myself to do it. It was weird but whatevs...We didn't have to (were not allowed) to touch the client below the waist either. Realized if I didn't do something, I might never get a real career, so left for the adventure of my life. Returned home to the CL killer which ironically alerted me to the fact that ladies were "doing it for themselves" which I promptly did. Stumbled around, ended up working for a fat miserable beeotch who advertised her biz into the ground, pissing off REAL citizens and then blamed ME for HER getting arrested. Realized being my own boss was awesome, realized that when you're in trouble for fbsm, you get same charge as providing. Was working my a off - up to 6 deep tissue plus a day, when I gave up...why the hell not? Have some fun and it's safer (at least you get refs which are not always available in fbsm)...keeps me from screwing up lovelife...

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 02-18-2011, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by BritishBabe

Gents & Ladies...What Started your fun naughty adverture into the world of hobbying?

Was it a friend? Were you a dancer? The devil made you do it? Did you need a little stress relief and verification that you still play well with others? Perhaps you just love being naughty?

Mix...after transferring back to a difference college here in D.C. and coming back home from RVA. Finding a "square" job and sending out resume's was taking too long so when CL was up I went from the admin & it jobs section over to glancing at the adult services and I have always gotten very good feedback about my sexual skills so I figured why not give company be compensated for it for awhile. After my 4th or 5th CL post I stopped using it altogether because new clients "hipped" me to other sites.