Do Weaves and Wefts Take away from a "True" Ebony Experience?? "

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer

It is also Asian, Latin American, Eskimo, Indian, Native American to have long stringy hair rather than an Afro, so please do not frame it as European hegemony.

I don't know why you always come for me on issues of race. You must've missed our conversations.

None of those other races influence popular culture in America, because they're minorities just like Black people. Because we all have our OWN cultures, all of us have to adapt in some ways to fit in. Whether it's processing our hair, changing our names to hide our ethnicity, or trying desperately not to speak with an accent in order not to be judged, we are trying to blend into a society that is not our own.

Next time schedule an appointment.

[Eva Damita]

^^^HOT new pic Miss Jameson! And great points!

[tbone2u]

I've had little experience with ladies with weaves. I personally prefer the natural hair on ebony ladies.

[gimme_that]

Ok Ill admit it........I want to get it wet, and I want to mess it up......is that bad. If her hair is still intact I haven't put in enough work for the night. Donna King maybe? What's a good upcharge to offer........lol

There's something very sexy about watching a naked lady in the mirror groom her hair. Even combing and removing the weave....that is mad sexy to me.....


Ohh oohhh the struggle, the tussle, the hustle......

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I want to get it wet, and I want to mess it up......is that bad. What's a good upcharge to offer........lol

lol ... $100 tip

[Danielle Reid]

My weave looks better when it's wet. Sexy curls and I look like I just came out of one of those Playboy shoots on the beach (I'm a dreamer). No upcharge required either I might just tip you if you do it right.

Pour some sugar on me! Get me hot, sticky sweet. From my head to my feet, yeah!

[Jewish Lawyer]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I don't know why you always come for me on issues of race. You must've missed our conversations.

None of those other races influence popular culture in America, because they're minorities just like Black people. Because we all have our OWN cultures, all of us have to adapt in some ways to fit in. Whether it's processing our hair, changing our names to hide our ethnicity, or trying desperately not to speak with an accent in order not to be judged, we are trying to blend into a society that is not our own.

Next time schedule an appointment.

Other races have had a massive influence on America. But my point was that those other cultures also have women with long stringy hair. I think black women with long hair are very beautiful, and I don't have to touch it or mess it up, I just like to look at it. Also, I understand how expensive it can be to go to a salon, and I hope your customers appreciate you for all your effort.

[gimme_that]

I get to see ebony ladies in some of their most vulverable states on overnights. I've seen ladies wake up with no drawn on eyebrows, morning face, no make up, a careful and gentle digit in the vagina to start the morning, etc......but lord forbid you finger her hair. Blasphemy and look of a mad black women scorned.....thread lightly on those split hair paths....they are tempting to look at but don't touch....I just cover my face with them while we sleep and have my face and nose live vicariously for my hands........maybe slip a split end between my lips and hope she doesn't lift her head abruptly or notice lol.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by sinkerswim

No worries, that's what a good thick leather collar and chain is for. ;-)

One of my favorite ways to be grabbed by behind. I like your way of thinking! Lemons, lemonade, and such.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

gimme that is a romantic at heart.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I get to see ebony ladies in some of their most vulverable states on overnights. I've seen ladies wake up with no drawn on eyebrows, morning face, no make up, a careful and gentle digit in the vagina to start the morning, etc......but lord forbid you finger her hair. Blasphemy and look of a mad black women scorned.....thread lightly on those split hair paths....they are tempting to look at but don't touch....I just cover my face with them while we sleep and have my face and nose live vicariously for my hands........maybe slip a split end between my lips and hope she doesn't lift her head abruptly or notice lol.

hehehe you're too funny - and correct in soooooo many ways.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Haha girl answer is hell no. Don't nobody think a Afro is cute lol. You gone lose all your business trying to pull that off. Black women know what they doing. We only race in the world who even grow Afros. But when men think ebony they just thinking dark skin tone, not Afro lmao. They'd be mad as hell gotta look at a Fro giving them head bwahaha.

I'm sorry that went out the door with our language and Kunta Kin Tae name haha

And why JL always gotta get in on anything talking about black people .., lol I was surprised when I even saw his crazy ass on this thread lmao! Know good and well he ain't paid for no black woman weave and waited 6 hours on MLK blvd..,. Lmao

And yes lighter skin and straight Long hair are what's considered beautiful across the world!
The closer you are to those two things especially being black, the race farthest away from those traits, the more beautiful you are considered. Plain and Simple like it or not.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

I have a perm, so my natural hair that comes out my head is kinky but I perm it straight ASAP... no humidity will make it not straight, it is permed a permanent straight. I never understood why women of color who relax their hair complain that water will make it not straight anymore... mine can never be curly again unless I curl it.

I got a little confident after wearing my real hair (permed straight real hair) up in a nice bun or pony tail for a few sessions and being complimented. Because I used to only wear my hair and was getting back in the hang of it. Next thing I know I got my first NO review, in which case he describes my hair as Short and Black... First of all my hair is light brown really because I perm it every 3 weeks and relaxer/perm makes your hair lighten up a lot. Secondly my hair is long if you ask a black person. Sure its not down my back but I comes to my shoulder blades, and In a pony tail my pony tail comes down to the bottom on my neck. .. How that is constituted as short is beyond me but I know why it was because unless you have hair flowing down to your ass, you're bald headed so to speak lmao.

Never the less that has ensured me to make sure I wear my wig every time, every session, probably wont even wear my natural hair around the clients who like it anymore to tell you the truth. I have a few clients whom have seen me and like my hair in a simple bun or pony tail because if u ask me my face is better in an Up-DO. But man o man I am afraid to even wear my own hair anymore... I have also vowed the sun as my enemy... I messed around and got a tan this summer and that messed me up to... I thought I was light skinned all this time, but I guess with a tan I am Dark skinned.. lol So I only go out at night time now. Gotta stay as light as possible and keep the hair nice and long down to my ass.

If I wasn't a provider I wouldn't care, but I will make optimum money if I conform to the worlds and especially America's standard of beauty. Being a rebel only makes you cool in high school, so to speak. It's not always easy, but hard work pays off.

[Eva Damita]

So, would you consider wigs, extensions, and etc just as part of an Ebony experience as our natural hair lovely Mya? This is one question I'd like to address...

[KatieKatie]

I don't think some guys can tell they difference. They really have no clue even if they feel your track. It has happened to me a lot and I am thinking "are you serious?" It's weave you weirdo!