opportunity at a nice pie, yay or nay?

[Funtimes44]

hobby usually can't disaagree with you... un this one your wrong... we are guys with maybe a significant other home who are not programmed to fuck the same thing every day too and can't bring home anything...and also if we were a sex addict wouldn't we want to be able to keep using our sex tool and not damaged it or make it sick lol.... I know we aren't the most honest and are degenerates but also doesn't that it make more dangerous...if a sex addict has something you think he is gonna tell the provider...hmmm mostly likely not...its not just the providers that get me nervous its us passing something on to them

[Cjr1288]

Realistically if you want to do it than do it. Some of us are risk takers. Some of us aren't. I don't understand the shaming from one side to the other. I myself have bb cip a handful of providers and have been fine. If you know the girl and trust her go for it. If you end up getting fucked over then you need better judgment of those who you surround yourself with.

[Scoot642]

CJR ,surrounding yourself with better people has nothing to do with banging these girls,I for one don't talk to anybody about my side activities. Its already bad judgment taking on the risk of STDs or getting caught in a sting or getting your ass beat y a handler or pimp. We lost that judgment the minute we made the date

[Northerndancer]

Gentlemen. I think people were just sharing their perspective, all be it with a lot of visceral self emotions and emphatic adjectives, not trying to pass judgement on others. Apologizes if others felt that way. There is no doubt no one would ever prefer a glove if they knew it was safe. For me, if I go unprotected it better be exclusive (ie dating with monthly allowance) not part of a stable/rotation or rapid test for the big one. I’ve walked when I’ve found out otherwise, but I’ve seen what HIV can do to a person and family. It’s a personal risk choice pure and simple. No one should be judging others.

Having said all that, I’m still picking myself off the floor from laughing so hard at hobby’s Christian Mingle comment. I have this visual image in my head of sitting in a confessional booth and hearing his voice on the other side of the screen. A true Roy Kent of eccie.

[Cjr1288]

Originally Posted by Scoot642

CJR ,surrounding yourself with better people has nothing to do with banging these girls,I for one don't talk to anybody about my side activities. Its already bad judgment taking on the risk of STDs or getting caught in a sting or getting your ass beat y a handler or pimp. We lost that judgment the minute we made the date

My statement of the people you surround yourself with was in regards to the hobby. If the girl in question has been a regular for him for some time and is trying to screw him over then he should be able to tell that if he can't and gets himself in a bad situation then he's bad at judging character. None of what I said was referencing actually friends or those in his immediate circle.

[soldierboy44]

Hobby..........wearing a raincoat in a rowboat......LMAO. Here is how I see it.........1) If you are in the hobby and married......you better be wearing a rubber or you WILL GET BURNED 2) If you are not married or never plan on getting married or are 40+............you are a FOOL if you have not been cut yet........the time will come and you will be on a real date with a real women and she won't want to use one either and if you say stop I need to get a cover she will wonder why. Now if she says do you have a rubber that is a different story.....her pussy/ her rules is how I roll 3) Most women don't like rubbers either and if they are offering bareback then you are not the only one they are offering it to.....NEVER think she is only going bare with you and ONLY YOU.

[Hobby1750]

Originally Posted by Funtimes44

hobby usually can't disaagree with you... un this one your wrong... we are guys with maybe a significant other home who are not programmed to fuck the same thing every day too and can't bring home anything...and also if we were a sex addict wouldn't we want to be able to keep using our sex tool and not damaged it or make it sick lol.... I know we aren't the most honest and are degenerates but also doesn't that it make more dangerous...if a sex addict has something you think he is gonna tell the provider...hmmm mostly likely not...its not just the providers that get me nervous its us passing something on to them

I'm saying, if you have a steady paid girl you've been seeing for a while, using condoms, and then she says she would be comfortable going without, the next time you have your hard cock ready for warm, wet vaginal ingress... you're going to have the will power to pause the action and put on a condom?

One thing I realized about condoms is they're "evidence" of sex. There's the wrapper and the condom itself. Yes, they can be flushed, but the unused ones kept in the car/wallet are "evidence" to an SO.

All this being said, I went strictly with condoms for a decade with all my paid girls. Never even considered going without. Then I had a young, beautiful 23 year old Latina Sugarbaby. Instagram model. About five dates in, she said we can go without condoms. I still used a condom that night. Next date, I had the Skyn on the dresser, but opted to not reach over. And went in bare. That was a mistake... because I realized what I had been denying myself all along. Sex undeniably IS better without condoms. It's uninhibited and liberating. Breaking/slipping off/getting dry/allergic reaction/etc - none of the nonsense applies.

That being said, I was 'zombified' well before I ever entered the hobby. Free pussy doesn't mean clean pussy.

[Mr.Random]

This discussion could go round and round till the day we heard a complete coherent sentence come out of biden's mouth.. i myself have gone bare (always pull out though) with regular girls with "normal" jobs and "normal" friends.. but that's a completely different situation than paying a hooker.. specifically an stg hooker.. who practically all are into the same "thing" and hang out with the same "riff raff".. and who's job is having sex with multiple men daily.. the odds are much greater catching a nasty affliction... so no.. i wouldn't bbfs or daty them cuz it's an unnecessary risk in my eyes.. all are going to do what they do.. and no one is "right" or "wrong" here.. the one who originally asked the question in this post.. he can look at all the info and opinions given.. and make his decision.. there are no sure things in life.. just figure out if the risks are worth it to your personal situation

[wonderland3212]

Many many posts guys admit to daty but have a serious problem with going bare? I've gone bare with 100 girls and no sti or any issues. Had a sb who would bang a new guy at the bar every weekend. Look up the actual stats on sti's. Very low %. to each their own

[wonderland3212]

9 out of 10 girls will go bare for the right $. Many will for no extra, some for very little more. I like the ones that dont offer fs , like massage girls, but will for the right $

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Paulie Rockstar

What could possibly go wrong????

Not interested in finding out the answer to this question...

[Mr.Random]

Originally Posted by wonderland3212

Many many posts guys admit to daty but have a serious problem with going bare? I've gone bare with 100 girls and no sti or any issues. Had a sb who would bang a new guy at the bar every weekend. Look up the actual stats on sti's. Very low %. to each their own

I actually do look up info.. no offense.. but I'm not gonna just take the word of some dude posting on here that he bbfs 100 hookers and never contracted sti.. do we all just listen to you as if sti's don't exist?.. mayb even doubt other experts and believe the earth is flat.. here's cpl links anyway

https://flo.health/menstrual-cycle/s...getting-an-std

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-In...e/show/1192216

[wonderland3212]

to each their own there mr random. never stated you had to do anything. good thing youre better then me and can teach me a lesson, lol

[wonderland3212]

mr random, youre own link said that you have a 30% chance of getting an sti IF that person ALREADY HAS an sti. says nothing about chances overall.

[wonderland3212]

2020 Gonorrhea- 678,000 new cases = .2% of population
2019 Hiv- 34,800 new cases = .01 % of population
2018 Chlamydia- 1.8 million new cases = .5% of population
2020 Syphilis- 134,000 new cases = .04% of the population