Your reason for hobbying

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by johnspice

Some valid points. But again, one size does not fit all. Its just not the physical attributes that can get you laid, though. But then again, in the RW it takes much more time, mental stress and money to do it. And I have some boundaries that I will never cross - I will never fuck somebody's wife in RW even if she begged me and I will never fuck a girl that I have some degree of authority over - be it due to work, social or whatever. The hobby allows me to be me without potentially messing up someone else's life.

Respect that

[EJ Dfw]

I hobby because sometimes I just wanna have some great sex and go home. I have real world women I have sex with too but sometimes I don't wanna deal with playing the game or going for drinks or having them try to hang around after sex. Sometimes I wanna just fuck and go home. Quick and simple...get in and get out.

[J.G Wentworth]

Originally Posted by suiram77

Yw and amen brother to that, and I'm with you here. Im 40 and not bad looking (handsome) and I have done the exact same thing. Five years ago I got super lucky and was able to meet and fuck and get sucked by my favorite porn star Holy Halston, and even though if I remember correctly it cost me $2000 for 2 hours of her time, it didn't matter to me because, I was fucking someone that would never fuck me for free or look my way.

At least you and I J G is not in denial with reality. A guy has the right to believe whatever he wants to believe about himself, even if it's a Lie. When you deny the truth you just only delay reality.

+10000

[Analeese]

Oh wow.... Thanks for sharing guys... Last time I checked this thread there were only 3 or 4 replies...

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by EJ Dfw

I hobby because sometimes I just wanna have some great sex and go home. I have real world women I have sex with too but sometimes I don't wanna deal with playing the game or going for drinks or having them try to hang around after sex. Sometimes I wanna just fuck and go home. Quick and simple...get in and get out.

I can agree with this EJ, and I will admit with out a doubt, it is more expensive to try to get a girl you like and want to sleep with in the RW. We all have to do that whole dating shit, spending money here and there, and still haven't fucked by the third date. lol SMDH!!!

This is easily a good reason why some guys will hobby, it's cheaper in the long run, quick, and you get to leave when it's over.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

+10000

Yes sir J G

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by Analeese

Oh wow.... Thanks for sharing guys... Last time I checked this thread there were only 3 or 4 replies...

Sure Ana, it's a great thread and it will be 6 or 7 pages by Sunday haha

[EJ Dfw]

Funny thing is I used to be one of those "I'll never pay for pussy...that's for guys that can't get any" and then I got older and realized that sometimes I just wanna get some and leave and it all made sense. Lol

[eyefo]

Hmmm....

Maybe JG and Suriram hobby because they have confidence issues, but I think most guys ... at least married ones... do it because they have a high sex drives and their wives have low to none.
I read this as being the most common reason for going outside of the marriage with the SO. Also, many guys don't consider it cheating... certainly not like having an affair.

Paying providers is the simplest way to get needs filled that don't get addressed at home.

So I think JG and Suriram's poor confidence reasons are a very small percentage of the reason guys pay for sex.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by EJ Dfw

Funny thing is I used to be one of those "I'll never pay for pussy...that's for guys that can't get any" and then I got older and realized that sometimes I just wanna get some and leave and it all made sense. Lol

Hahahha love it, btw let me just remind all us guys that none of us have to feel bad or any kind of way about it, because I'm a professional musician and have been for 18 years. You want believe how much pussy the artist and other famous musicians and athletes pay for.

Hobbyng for some, like the stars is just a convince for them. For me as I stated it's to fuck and get sucked, and be in the company of women I wouldn't normally be able to be with. That's my high from it, nothing more nothing less.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by eyefo

Hmmm....

Maybe JG and Suriram hobby because they have confidence issues, but I think most guys ... at least married ones... do it because they have a high sex drives and their wives have low to none.
I read this as being the most common reason for going outside of the marriage with the SO. Also, many guys don't consider it cheating... certainly not like having an affair.

Paying providers is the simplest way to get needs filled that don't get addressed at home.

So I think JG and Suriram's poor confidence reasons are a very small percentage of the reason guys pay for sex.

Lmfao hahahah!!!!!! Dude if you really fucking knew me, you would swallowed all the words up you just typed on your computer lol. Trust me the last thing suiram77 has is any confidence problems. Just ask the op Ana that started this thread she will tell you and maybe a few others here that Suiram77 can be one of the most arrogant ppl you will ever come across buddy. The last time I check, arrogant ppl don't have confidence problems. Since this is just the internet and we don't know each other at all, I will let your comment slide this time.

Now let's get on your actual statement, first off no matter how much confidence you think you have eyefo, and yes even you, yes you, lol, it's impossible to think you can fuck every woman if you wanted to.

This is where your confidence, great looks, game, and hung cock, would not matter to a woman that's completely not interested in you. Now this where J G and I point comes in at, and that's unless you have the money dude and a lot of it, most men here couldn't fuck the quality of women we get to fuck in this hobby.

If you believe you can great, just do me a favor and cancel your account tomorrow here with eccie. Take my cell number down, and I want you to go meet the exact same quality of women you can meet here in the hobby, and then fuck them the same day you meet them. If you do this successfully for a year I will pay your car note off buddy. Lmao let's see how your pro claim confidence works for you, good luck buddy.

As I stated in one of my post, denying the truth only delays reality.

[2short@desky]

I play because of reasons all the guys stated before...and some. I started looking around and saw guys I graduated from high school with dropping dead, dying of cancer, etc. Reminiscing about the good ole youth days when outrunning the cops in our 70 SS Chevelles and 440 Roadrunners, drinking a case of Coors in one night, having group fights between us and guys in neighboring towns after we gang banged one of their broads, I realized how much shorter my fuse was.

I've never had any problem with the ladies, and granted I wouldn't want to shack up with a 21 yo. Lately, RW 20-25 years my junior are fun and interesting, and I've been able to have some mutually enjoyable encounters in that sphere that cost me nothing but a hotel and some time. It doesn't seem to stop there though, after the encounters they want a relationship and I start feeling cornered....like the one night I wasn't able to outrun the highway patrol in my 71 GP SJ.

I'm like a previous poster who doesn't like the word hobbying....to me it's more like gratification and fulfillment. I've worked like a dog all my life, took care of everyone, and now, I want a little spice for myself. I'm not being selfish, just focused on myself for once, and decided to start working on the bucket list. I'll not be like my two closest friends in high school already dead and having missed out.

Speaking of the ladies I've enjoyed in P4P zone, these ladies have been very rewarding experiences for me. I'm not a HoDog and won't fuck and probably can't fuck just anybody, in reality I'm very picky. That goes back a long way, I've pissed off a few RW because I declined...conversely been given the same medicine. The P4P ladies I have been with have all been super exceptional in every respect but it's because they had something to offer me on a higher level than I could get without entangling myself in a relationship. Think about it, I can have a GFE for an hour of total fantasy, but it's still real and gratifying... and it's not all about sex. Even their noncommittal company is measurable in my gait and my step is lighter when I leave. Too cool.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by 2short@desky

I play because of reasons all the guys stated before...and some. I started looking around and saw guys I graduated from high school with dropping dead, dying of cancer, etc. Reminiscing about the good ole youth days when outrunning the cops in our 70 SS Chevelles and 440 Roadrunners, drinking a case of Coors in one night, having group fights between us and guys in neighboring towns after we gang banged one of their broads, I realized how much shorter my fuse was.

I've never had any problem with the ladies, and granted I wouldn't want to shack up with a 21 yo. Lately, RW 20-25 years my junior are fun and interesting, and I've been able to have some mutually enjoyable encounters in that sphere that cost me nothing but a hotel and some time. It doesn't seem to stop there though, after the encounters they want a relationship and I start feeling cornered....like the one night I wasn't able to outrun the highway patrol in my 71 GP SJ.

I'm like a previous poster who doesn't like the word hobbying....to me it's more like gratification and fulfillment. I've worked like a dog all my life, took care of everyone, and now, I want a little spice for myself. I'm not being selfish, just focused on myself for once, and decided to start working on the bucket list. I'll not be like my two closest friends in high school already dead and having missed out.

Speaking of the ladies I've enjoyed in P4P zone, these ladies have been very rewarding experiences for me. I'm not a HoDog and won't fuck and probably can't fuck just anybody, in reality I'm very picky. That goes back a long way, I've pissed off a few RW because I declined...conversely been given the same medicine. The P4P ladies I have been with have all been super exceptional in every respect but it's because they had something to offer me on a higher level than I could get without entangling myself in a relationship. Think about it, I can have a GFE for an hour of total fantasy, but it's still real and gratifying... and it's not all about sex. Even their noncommittal company is measurable in my gait and my step is lighter when I leave. Too cool.

Exactly 2short, the fantasy may not be real, but that nut or two we bust is. Lmao

I don't have to ever see porn star Holy Halston again, but at least I know I can die one day knowing I fucked her, and she sucked the shit out my Dick. This is my whole point of why I Hobby and some others here, and for all us that don't need a reality check then we understand that it will just take a lil money (moola) babyyyyyyy. Lol

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by 2short@desky

I play because of reasons all the guys stated before...and some. I started looking around and saw guys I graduated from high school with dropping dead, dying of cancer, etc. Reminiscing about the good ole youth days when outrunning the cops in our 70 SS Chevelles and 440 Roadrunners, drinking a case of Coors in one night, having group fights between us and guys in neighboring towns after we gang banged one of their broads, I realized how much shorter my fuse was.

I've never had any problem with the ladies, and granted I wouldn't want to shack up with a 21 yo. Lately, RW 20-25 years my junior are fun and interesting, and I've been able to have some mutually enjoyable encounters in that sphere that cost me nothing but a hotel and some time. It doesn't seem to stop there though, after the encounters they want a relationship and I start feeling cornered....like the one night I wasn't able to outrun the highway patrol in my 71 GP SJ.

I'm like a previous poster who doesn't like the word hobbying....to me it's more like gratification and fulfillment. I've worked like a dog all my life, took care of everyone, and now, I want a little spice for myself. I'm not being selfish, just focused on myself for once, and decided to start working on the bucket list. I'll not be like my two closest friends in high school already dead and having missed out.

Speaking of the ladies I've enjoyed in P4P zone, these ladies have been very rewarding experiences for me. I'm not a HoDog and won't fuck and probably can't fuck just anybody, in reality I'm very picky. That goes back a long way, I've pissed off a few RW because I declined...conversely been given the same medicine. The P4P ladies I have been with have all been super exceptional in every respect but it's because they had something to offer me on a higher level than I could get without entangling myself in a relationship. Think about it, I can have a GFE for an hour of total fantasy, but it's still real and gratifying... and it's not all about sex. Even their noncommittal company is measurable in my gait and my step is lighter when I leave. Too cool.

Great post. I mean that. I have a pretty low attention span with long posts, but I read every word of your post. Again, great post...I won't lie, you write very well, you use paragraphs and you had very good content. That's a rarity on here. So yeah, I enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for putting in the thought and time to write it.

[J.G Wentworth]

Originally Posted by eyefo

Hmmm....

Maybe JG and Suriram hobby because they have confidence issues, but I think most guys ... at least married ones... do it because they have a high sex drives and their wives have low to none.
I read this as being the most common reason for going outside of the marriage with the SO. Also, many guys don't consider it cheating... certainly not like having an affair.

Paying providers is the simplest way to get needs filled that don't get addressed at home.

So I think JG and Suriram's poor confidence reasons are a very small percentage of the reason guys pay for sex.

That is so far from the truth. Did you skip over the part where I said I look rather great for my age and I am physically fit as well? Would you not agree that average hobbyist is probably over 55 and over weight? Once again, I am not being harsh but there's not a lot of ladies if any who are looking to get screwed by an over 50 something over weight guy.
My job causes me to travel very often so I have to make amends and the hobby world is a good way for me to meet ladies because I travel so frequently.