This is ONE for the courageous hobbyist~

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Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

In my experience, women are just plain dumb sometimes, they chose the losers over the winners. The momentary excitement over long term stability. A large amount of women are attracted to the bad boy, good looking guy never held down a job, ends up treating the lady like shit after initially gives her some special attention and she runs back to her friends in a year or so. In my mind I am thinking I am right here!!! I am not a bad boy and will always treat her right - I know she can't stand that!!! I can offer financial stability, travel, honesty, loyalty, integrity, and helping her to feel like the quenn she really is. But all that gets turned down for a guy who just broke up with his drug addicted girlfriend - red flag!!! That makes barely enough for a small apartment with no future ambition or eagerness - red flag!!! Paying child support but does not want involvement with his own children - red flag!!! A guy that has a proven track record that he is willing to use a woman for income, sex, and still play around - red flag!!!

Maybe, I should start treating women like crap!! I might be more successful!

No you shouldn’t because you seem like a really nice guy. Contrary to lyrical lore, good guys don’t finish last.

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

I have a large house with just me and the dog, I pay child support but very active in my children's lives, I make a good living and can afford travel, hobbying, and more. Maybe, because I am bad speller? IDK. I am a good guy but not the kinda guy someone wants to keep I guess.

The problem with dating is that I can start to fall for a lady just to have the rug ripped from under my feet and it hurts!!

There’s a lady out there that wants your rug right where it belongs: under your feet You don’t want the women that chase after the throw backs anyway!

[Outdoorsman]

Very nice words Olivia, Thank You. I am not going to change who I am, I like me. I was hurt when I wrote the previous posting. Yes, A very close lady to me decided I was not what she wanted and it hurt. She picked the other guy and really he is prolly a very nice guy and seems to love her. I hope she is happy with him, I really do want her to be happy. It still hurts but I will bounce back.

I will continue to approach attractive and seemingly fun ladies in public as I enjoy women and their company.