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sexaholic87 · 09-01-2013, 08:39 AM

As someone who has done both (FFM and MFM), I can say that MFM is much better.

If you have one hot (and freaky) girl and two guys who are both really into her, you are guaranteed a hot time. All of you who are afraid of "crossing" swords should get over it. If you find the right people for it, you will thank me.

Also, you shouldn't bring ego into it at all. Just try to enjoy yourself and please the girl. You will end up doing both. Size also doesn't play as much of a role as you think. Usually, I was always the larger partner, but the ladies seem to like the contrast... So if you are much smaller (or bigger) than the other guy, I wouldn't worry.

roaringfork · 09-01-2013, 08:43 AM

The closest I've come to the sword-crossing thing was when I was being entertained in a very crowded and cheesy strip joint. The lap-dance area was so cramped that the cowboy sitting in the adjacent folding chair had his lower leg pressed against mine for the duration of the dance--no escape short of giving the stripper's skanky ass a great big shove and running. A pair of Levi's like the ones I was wearing that night can be thrown away and replaced, but my dick is a different matter.

Welladjusted · 09-01-2013, 09:09 AM

I have enjoyed FMF but as far as MFM goes it is not for me. CAll me greedy, I like the ladies all to myself. Even if its just for the hour.

stexguy · 09-01-2013, 09:19 AM

MFM's are great! It's like having live porn. LOL

rolonon · 09-01-2013, 09:34 AM

Well. this is an interesting thread. No real surprises here. Most men are homophobic; it doesn't take much research. Just how they are wired. But I spent some years active in the swinging lifestyle with my wife. To me, there's nothing more erotic than having a woman sandwiched between two men. Giving her a double dose of what she longs for. Captivated and titillated beyond the boundaries of normal partner sex.I have no way of knowing how many women fantasize of this, but my guess is that it's common among those who truly enjoy sex.

Taylor Sims · 09-01-2013, 09:57 AM

I love me some good MFM. How it is a major turn on. How hot and wet do I get from it let me show you...

gimme_that · 09-01-2013, 03:25 PM

For the ladies that do these MFM......I'm expecting theres an upcharge right.

If there's an upcharge.....you don't truthfully enjoy it but just tolerate it.....if its the same fee as your single sessions then you enjoy it...........

The only way I would run train like this on a provider is if I get the pussy first. Definitely would be pse with no kissing. And best believe if we booked an hour he wouldn't have much time left. More than likely I wouldn't do this at all. As theirs no value to it.

But on the other hand...... guys.....your probably doing this voluntarily anyway and don't even know it. She might have booked a half hour session right before your hour hour session...maybe a quickee.........get over yourself and invite a battle buddy and make it a tag team event............

Karyn Lovely · 09-02-2013, 02:48 AM

If it's MFM, then both men are engaged at the same time. Very much unlike a train where one dude gets off while the other one waits his turn and then goes.

As far as upcharge goes, it really depends on the lady, but no lady is only going to charge their one hour rate two entertain two men at the same time for that one hour. They will at least (for me) will be paying for the full time individually, which is not an upsell at all, but just a combination of two separate dates happening at the same time.

I also wouldn't blame ladies for charging more as this could definitely fall into PSE especially if there is dp, and PSE is always more expensive than gfe.

As for me, I have never done MFM but it is definitely a fantasy of mine, dp included

I think is would be amazing to be entwined between two warm bodies, 4 sets of hand, 2 mouths, and 2 cocks at my disposal ready to please me and explore my every nook and cranny.

BBW Katrina · 09-02-2013, 12:38 PM

I've done it and enjoyed it in my personal life with men I absolutely trusted with my safety. Professionally, no. However, I would be open with the right two clients if they were regulars or ATF material, but not random gents or ISO's.

DallasRain · 09-02-2013, 02:14 PM

quote---For the ladies that do these MFM......I'm expecting theres an upcharge right.

Not me babe...my donations are all inclusive!

Taylor Sims · 09-02-2013, 02:23 PM

Karyn if you do it once you will want it over and over.

RedLeg505 · 09-02-2013, 06:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gimme_that

For the ladies that do these MFM......I'm expecting theres an upcharge right.

I can't speak for all ladies, but 2 providers that I have seen individually and as an FMF doubles, are in arrangements to do a 4 some with me and another hobbyist who is known and respected in the local hobby community. The two ladies have been with him also, individually and as doubles.

The amount being charged is their standard doubles fee, with each of us guys paying "our half" of that amount. So, no, no upcharge from these ladies at least.

The problem thus far has been trying to get the schedules of 4 different people to match up correctly. We have had 2 reschedules so far but are still trying. All four of us are looking forward to this with great enthusiasm.

I can't speak for the others but I can say that there are a number of combinations only possible with multiple guys that I've been intending to try and this will be my first chance to do so. As others have mentioned, I won't be all that worried about watching what the other guy is doing so much as watching the ladies reactions to everything. I look forward to being able to "high five' the other guy as he's at one end of the lady while I'm at the other simultaneously. And the daisy-chaining so all 4 are involved at the same time has some great possibilities.

Once we manage to get this set up and done, I'll be more than happy to come report the results here or in the "Another Realm" thread on the same topic.

GlobeSpotter · 09-02-2013, 07:10 PM

I can remember some mfm from high school days.

no...it wasn't forced and nobody was drunk. The fist time surprised me.

One time in a double date, I remember the guy in the back seat (I just met him) saying to his date "I think she's sucking his dick" (he wasn't getting so lucky) I couldn't believe this girl sucked me with her goody goody friend in the back. Maybe she was trying to get her to lighten up. PS - it was a two door with a small back seat and I'm sure they got every detail including the explosion.

It was amazing (now scary as a dad) how brazen we were as teens and what we did.

Recently: I've invited some guys I know only from the board to mfm a common provider we know but I've never had any takers.

sexymaid_69 · 09-03-2013, 04:38 PM

My thoughts are...

Yes!
When and where?
Yes again!

mm-good · 09-03-2013, 08:14 PM

The MFF is fun to me as long as the two ladies are into each other and I much prefer it than FMF.....

first MFM is planned and scheduled... Will lot you know in Another Realm or wherever appropriate. Have 2 more M's that have kindly expressed interest in response to a post. These both are pending the schedules it are both likely to be very different. Mainly because of the ladies and what they want -I wouldn't have it any other way