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Originally Posted by The_Real_Jazzymyn
Fuck why do all guts want bbbj and why does it matter if I have a pimp or not. Most girls do so what. So what if he's black let's just get this over with I'll take my donations and you leave. No I don't want to he friends or lovers it's business and one I don't even enjoy at that.
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Wow. I stumbled upon this thread. And while my two cents isn't asked for... I'm going to give it anyway. You posted this, so I can only assume that you knew it would draw a response.
If you dislike what you're doing... Stop.
Life is much to short and precious for you to spend your time with men who you evidently dislike the activities which transpire. I don't know your age, but I do know that this is not for everyone. It takes a really strong, and strong minded woman to be able to stay in this business for long. You say you have a pimp... I'm inclined to agree with the other posters comments. WTH? Firstly, why eould you be with ANYONE who agrees to let you be a provider? Which.. That may be too nice of a title for you... I don't know. I'm older, and with that is supposed to come wisdom... My advice is go get a job at McDonald's. No one should pay money to someone who dislikes being with them(unless of course it's s fetish kind of deal, or a "money pig" in which that attitude goes along with those roles) but from what I've read, that doesn't seem to be the case.
I don't get the pimp part at all. What does a pimp provide you with ? A false sense of security ? A pimp can not do anything that you can't do for yourself. Many women have husbands, boyfriend, and pimps. I'll be damned if I am going to be with anyone who is going to say.. Yeah, go be a hooker, it's okay... Just make sure you give me my cut of the money... REALLY?
A man who is worthy of me will be able to support himself and would be against me being a provider but supportive while I transitioned out of it.
I believe I said what you did above, and truly had that attitude.. Well.. I'm sure I wouldn't have stayed in this business this long, as the money would've dried up no matter how hot you are.
I personally love what I do, but again, I'm older, I don't do it out of desperation, but desire. I find nothing more satisfying than meeting new gentlemen, spending quality time with them, and the carnal pleasure we share.
Good luck to you missy, but you really should consider another career. If you honestly feel like you've represented your feelings above... It will only get worse the longer you stay in in.. Another option to consider is... You might not hate it so much if you were not giving a cut to your pimp. Again.. Not everyone can be a provider mentally.
Good luck to you.
Too bad you don't enjoy it... The perks are like no other career you will ever have. But again.. Maybe that's just in my world, as I DO like what I do... And it shows. What you've protrayed in your post is like what most gentlemen perceive the "typical" BP girls to be like. If you hate it and the men so much.. Why are you even on Eccie?
Just my personal options and I realize that posting this it leaves me wide open to criticism.. And I'm okay with that. I'm a thick skinned, confidenent, intelligent woman. I love a good debate.