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Looking41today · 10-30-2013, 08:41 PM

So this comes up all the time, so I'm going to ask. Why was Tara banned and why is she such a lightning rod? While she posts often, her posts seem rather tame and she seems pretty sweet with a good sense of humor. Why are guys always picking on her (or flirting with her) and end up derailing many of the threads (like this one was)?

Luke Skywalker · 10-30-2013, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Looking41today

So this comes up all the time, so I'm going to ask. Why was Tara banned and why is she such a lightning rod? While she posts often, her posts seem rather tame and she seems pretty sweet with a good sense of humor. Why are guys always picking on her (or flirting with her) and end up derailing many of the threads (like this one was)?

I can only speak for myself. I flirt with Tara because she looks hot, and plenty of humor as you said. That simple. I don't know and don't care about why was she banned or whatever.

There are people with too much time on their hands and too little gray matter in their skull and they waste their not so valuable time here picking on her.

NearHauteRed · 10-31-2013, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lukeskywalker7667

I can only speak for myself. I flirt with Tara because she looks hot, and plenty of humor as you said. That simple. I don't know and don't care about why was she banned or whatever.

There are people with too much time on their hands and too little gray matter in their skull and they waste their not so valuable time here picking on her.

From what I can see, Tara "picks" back when attacked, and quite well actually. She is someone who does not start a drama thread, but if her name is mentioned in a negative light, she will come at her attacker with full guns blazing, which is admirable and one reason why she is so popular, by those that like her and those that dislike her. As far as wasting time picking on someone goes, there are multiple members who deserve a gold medal in that category!

pyramider · 10-31-2013, 04:27 PM

Some need to download porn ... ijs.

Lucy_Of_Dallas · 10-31-2013, 05:18 PM

So as far as moving up, how do i meet more ppl if i can only post one Ad since im not verified yet ive sent all my info to mods and have heard nothing? I am soooo confused

bored@home · 10-31-2013, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucy_Of_Dallas

So as far as moving up, how do i meet more ppl if i can only post one Ad since im not verified yet ive sent all my info to mods and have heard nothing? I am soooo confused

Did you send it to the staff at dallas@eccie.net from the same email you used to register for the site?
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=455271
There may be a back log but I would suspect if you followed all the outlined steps from the link above they could help you out.
As far as meeting more people, I don't think your "rank" other than verified will help.
Some suggestions for meeting more people;
1. Repeat the steps from the link above exactly as detailed.
2. Add something new to your WW post(s) to lure in new folks.
3. Contribute like you did here to community discussions.
4. Request 411 membership (using their guidelines)
5. Chat is always looking for fun people
6. Everyone loves a bargain

Lucy_Of_Dallas · 10-31-2013, 06:17 PM

Pretty much have done most of that
Womppp

Tara Evans · 10-31-2013, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Looking41today

So this comes up all the time, so I'm going to ask. Why was Tara banned and why is she such a lightning rod? While she posts often, her posts seem rather tame and she seems pretty sweet with a good sense of humor. Why are guys always picking on her (or flirting with her) and end up derailing many of the threads (like this one was)?

The best answer that I can give you is because I am Tara Evans.

omakase · 10-31-2013, 10:43 PM

Judging by your inquiry in the "Question to the Staff" forum, the Dallas mods are waiting for your friend to vouch for you. You can also ask one of guys who reviewed you to provide the vouch.

eccienewbie · 10-31-2013, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by omakase

Judging by your inquiry in the "Question to the Staff" forum, the Dallas mods are waiting for your friend to vouch for you. You can also ask one of guys who reviewed you to provide the vouch.

This ^^^

Wildstar would probably be a good choice as a sponsoring hobbyist. Drop him a PM.

LazurusLong · 11-01-2013, 04:16 AM

Taylar.

Men on here have short attention spans because there is always a new shiny flash of ass to draw their attention.

So that means you have to do a few things on a regular basis.

Post ads like your business depends on it. Follow the rules but do NOT get lazy.

There is no point in posting an ad in the weekly forum and then on the same day posting in thw weekend. Posting your weekend ad on say Friday afternoon when guys have cash in hand and are about to get off work is better than the moment the forum opens.

Then offset to the weekly and post say on a Tuesday or better yet, figure out that some get paid twice a month so post before the 15th and 30th and the inbetween weeks that allow for the 7 day spacing,

As someone else noted, keep your signature line updated with useful data.

Also, keep an eye on the Requests forum and send a PM IF you meet what they guys is looking for,

If you see an ISO that works for you, reply and that also tells other guys that may be looking for similar fun that you are someone to put on their "list".

I disagree about the advice of getting close to those guys with 100+ reviews. Sadly there are many of those sorts who demand deep discounts and things some ladies do not offer in order to get their review so keep that in mind.

Back on ASPD a guy looked at a quotient where he took reviews and posts and if there were too many posts and not enough reviews he felt the guys did not have true "cred" but since that entire board died and many lost hundreds of reviews and even more lost many great and helpful posts, checking to see WHO a guy has reviewed is better than just looking at total numbers and yes that takes time.

Some guys do not post a lot of reviews but they post quality ones and of what are considered quality providers and not just any fresh new hole to dump into.

pyramider · 11-01-2013, 08:02 AM

Where is the rancking system noted?

NearHauteRed · 11-01-2013, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Where is the rancking system noted?

Unwritten. Ask the vets who claim to know it all and make up the system and what it consists of and the rankings by provider and hobbyists.

eccienewbie · 11-01-2013, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by NearHauteRed

Unwritten. Ask the vets who make it up what it consists of and the rankings by provider and hobbyists.

Is English a second language for you?

Just curious.

Faulkner · 11-01-2013, 02:31 PM

Some very good advice has been offered throughout this thread. Might I offer another though someone may have already highlighted this.

Answering your PMs is a good way to improve your recognition and to court a good community presence. I understand newer providers may get abnormal #s of PMs and some may be offensive/ridiculous/etc. Probably okay to ignore those. But legitimate inquiries, I would suggest, should probably get a response. Its just good business and should only help improve the status your seeking.