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12-12-2014, 10:56 PM
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RETIRED
User ID: 165635
Join Date: Dec 6, 2012
Location: NW Austin, TX
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Originally Posted by Camille Fox
It takes a VERY mature person to make a relationship like this work. Correction, it takes TWO VERY mature people to make a relationship like this work.. AND a lot of trust, AND a lot of self confidence, AND a sh*t load of luck, AND FINALLY, not having access to ROS probably won't hurt you either... IJS.
P.s.: don't make her stop working for "love", ever. Here is a VERY timely blog entry. I happen to agree with it. http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/a...maggiemcneill/ |
YES, it does take TWO mature people to make any relationship work, not just within the hobby.
Some guys may get turned on and hotter sex after they read the ROS, so that part could be personal choice.
Not only do you not want to force her to stop providing for 'love', DON'T expect her to change her services if she is still an active provider unless you are able to make up for the income she would be losing to stop that service.
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Originally Posted by Peter Gozinya
Which school girl? Lol. So you all have been "texting"? Are you the only one infatuated with her? The way you word it sounds like it's only your idea and not hers. These girls have a way of making you feel like you are king. Don't let the "business" side make you feel like you are the only one. Be ready for an emotional roller coaster.
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If you are the one always bringing it up, she may not be as into you as you are into her.
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get past the dating part get married to a escort I am . no guys not taking her away from any one. we can fake it till we make it.
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That is maturity, if true. If you can truly accept the hobby as any other job she may have. Some waitresses have to flirt with diners, or bartenders or many other jobs where the lady would have to make the customer feel good to earn tips. This is just more physical than flirting.
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Just play within the rules.... you'll have a lot less stress this way. This isn't a dating site, it's a site to get your rocks off. Good luck.
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True, this is not a dating site. And there do have to be rules.
I have noticed at times that I do doubt my SO because of how we met, however as long as there is communication things can be very good. 
Someone mentioned "damaged goods", we may be that in some ways. And maybe a little jaded because we see things that a normal/blinded SO sees them. Make sure to keep things open and communicate.
IF she is as into you, then that is your only chance to make it work. But it will be work at times, it won't be as easy as you may hope. You may have to deal with insecurities and reassure her. Or leave the hobby entirely if she is the possessive, jealous type. But she should also accept you the way you are IF she wants you too.
Some ladies may need the extra attention of someone that they love or care for after being with clients that are only physical, whether they enjoy it or not. (I personally enjoy myself with clients, however I need that personal touch of my lover.) Some may not want to be touched at all or may just want to cuddle. Some may not really want anything to do with sex because of their work. Some may end up treating their SO like a client. We are all individuals so you would have to base your experience on who the 2 of you are. You can't expect what works for one person to work for you.
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12-13-2014, 12:24 PM
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Join Date: Aug 24, 2013
Location: Between your mom and your sister
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Most escorts are broken on some level. Best to buy new....
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12-13-2014, 12:38 PM
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Join Date: Oct 6, 2014
Location: Count down city
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You know what pussy spells backwards? "Wise up" !!!
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12-13-2014, 12:56 PM
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Pending Age Verification
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Join Date: Oct 1, 2013
Location: San Antonio
Posts: 1,119
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Originally Posted by Jaxhardcore
Most escorts are broken on some level. Best to buy new....
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EVERYONE is broken on some level. You just don't see it out in the open.
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12-13-2014, 06:04 PM
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Lifetime Premium Access
Join Date: Apr 25, 2009
Location: sa tx usa
Posts: 14,700
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Originally Posted by Molly Rendon
EVERYONE is broken on some level. You just don't see it out in the open.
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I have always said everyone in the Hobby is broken.
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12-13-2014, 06:38 PM
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Join Date: May 5, 2012
Location: Earth Terran System
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Not a good idea.
I been there done that
Unless you have "DEEEP" Pockets
Usually what happens is that they'll hound you for money "ALL" the time
Once the money stops flowing. She gonna go bye bye.
Basically you are still paying for pussy...Just more expensive...usually 5-10x more expensive.
I'm not gonna call anyone out but I've known a few that supposedly say they are "retiring" yet they come back on to eccie sometime in the future.
because they use whoever they are with as a ATM....until that guy finally wakes up or gets tired of her. OR BOTH....
The Question you should ask yourself is,...Would you bring this one home to momma. (yes even ask yourself this question if your mom has passed away)
IF its no..then don't waste your time.
Above may or may not apply to you.
Just use your "big brain" to do the thinking
Don't just rely on your little brain.
If she will be proud to show you off to her friends ...then maybe...
You get the idea
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12-13-2014, 06:40 PM
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Gaining Momentum
Join Date: Apr 23, 2012
Location: Dallas County
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I agree, she is exactly right!
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12-13-2014, 06:45 PM
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Join Date: Jun 7, 2011
Location: SA-TX
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You're thinking about dating an escort?
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12-13-2014, 06:46 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jun 7, 2011
Location: SA-TX
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Originally Posted by Little Miss Cuntcakes
If Charlie Manson found love, why can't a eccie whore?!
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12-13-2014, 06:49 PM
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Join Date: Mar 18, 2014
Location: New Braunfels
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Originally Posted by Molly Rendon
EVERYONE is broken on some level. You just don't see it out in the open.
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I agree with that.
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12-13-2014, 07:06 PM
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Join Date: Jan 4, 2010
Location: San Antonio
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He just wants to date her. Why not?
I've been OTC with several ladies and I had a great time...
He isn't taking her home to mama yet.
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12-13-2014, 07:08 PM
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Join Date: Aug 13, 2014
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by thehighlander
Not a good idea.
I been there done that
Unless you have "DEEEP" Pockets
Usually what happens is that they'll hound you for money "ALL" the time
Once the money stops flowing. She gonna go bye bye.
Basically you are still paying for pussy...Just more expensive...usually 5-10x more expensive.
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How is that different from a wife?
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12-13-2014, 07:45 PM
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Account Disabled
Join Date: Dec 31, 2009
Location: Texas... Mostly
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Originally Posted by Precious_b
I have always said everyone in the Hobby is broken.
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I couldn't agree with you more PB.
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12-13-2014, 08:15 PM
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BANNED
Join Date: Sep 20, 2014
Location: San antonio
Posts: 1,234
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Just cause you pay to have fun sexually sometimes or if you charge people for your sexual expertise does not mean your broken!
Hobbying being your only sex life and working any job just to finance bad lifestyle choices is broken!
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12-13-2014, 08:34 PM
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Account Disabled
User ID: 263694
Join Date: Oct 7, 2014
Location: Houston
Posts: 215
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I would given the right guy and my gf Sonya dates a previous client and they are doing well together
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