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playingnthedark · 06-04-2014, 11:38 AM

You have great boobs in your avatar. Can you turn around so I can see your ass?

What is this thread about again?

Sashasmith512 · 06-04-2014, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by playingnthedark

You have great boobs in your avatar. Can you turn around so I can see your ass?

What is this thread about again?

Was supposed to be about why guys don't read posts lol and then everyone had to put in off topic comments and it was fed into more by mods, off topic too.... hmm...

stevejones1969 · 06-04-2014, 12:34 PM

Let it go girl. Let it go. You cannot win with all these guys. I don't take it to seriously and instead enjoy looking at those great tits of yours. Mine are better though

sixxbach · 06-04-2014, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by sashasmith512

Was supposed to be about why guys don't

read posts lol and then everyone had to put in off topic comments and it was fed into more by mods, off topic too.... hmm...

We are reading your posts. Calm down, no mod is going to delete your account, etc. Your posts, threads are rather comical. You are lucky you have tits and ass going for you.

You want it back on topic?

Alright fellas, let's stay on topic please.

JennsLolli · 06-04-2014, 01:43 PM

Well...a few things silver-lining style.

1) As Whispers noted, 18 requests > 0 requests.
2) At least the requests actually included an appointment time? Better than "What-up" "flirt" "we should meet" "flirt" "how about" "flirt" "8pm Tuesday" "DAMMIT! I'm not available Tuesday!" That times 18 would drive anyone batty.
3) Careful about bitching about boys when they're trying to book with you but you can't make an appointment out if it, because half+ won't try a second time. (I learned that many years ago with cancellations when I woke up not in the mood -- I've since learned how to ease into provider mode when I'm not feeling it. Scheduling off time is also a good way to keep from burn-out.)
4) I like that the juicy details are kept hidden. It keeps those outside of our community in the dark. A review might mention a detail that can almost out a certain girl when non-hobby people go sniffing around. Also, it keeps the boys more honest, since a natural inclination would be to go easy so you're seen as nice. (Sure...it's not fool-proof but I prefer it to the alternative.)

All that being said, I get ya. The lack of structure with this gig can make it stressful. But it's also sort of what makes it so awesome. And honestly, if I were in your shoes I'd be frustrated as well. On most of my trips I prebook, but on the last two trips (and this one) a good chunk had to cancel last minute. Then a review pops up. Then I get 10 requests while I'm sitting at the airport about to fly home. I just try to remember that buzz is good regardless. Even if I can't say yes today, it's nice to know that tomorrow has a bit of a promise? Or something? Not trying to be preachy or teachy, so apologies if it came across as such. Good luck!

kirkos · 06-04-2014, 01:43 PM

Sasha, in your case it doesn't matter when they book or not. You would probably leave half of them waiting at the hotel door and then text them and let them know you are shitfaced at the strip club and can't make 5 minutes after the time. Do you know how hard it is for some of us to try to find time to play for an hour? You probably don't give a sh**.

Sashasmith512 · 06-04-2014, 02:16 PM

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Sasha, in your case it doesn't matter when they book or not. You would probably leave half of them waiting at the hotel door and then text them and let them know you are shitfaced at the strip club and can't make 5 minutes after the time. Do you know how hard it is for some of us to try to find time to play for an hour? You probably don't give a sh**.

This is the exact drama I don't deal with, you're one of the clients that doesn't get it and I'm done beating a dead horse on this board. Grow up gentleman. It's life. Shit just fucking happens. Everyone has RW shit they gotta deal with. I'm done posting on board because you men are more childish and dramatic than females are. Especially on this board. Y'all all have fun with your silly little drama. Worse than high school I mean DAMN. LOL MOST OF Y'ALL ARE MEN OVER THE AGE OF 30, get over it. This is why I'm done with main board lol and goodbye happily!!! YAYYYYYY.

Whispers · 06-04-2014, 02:26 PM

I thought you already said you were through with ECCIE?

JohnnyYanks · 06-04-2014, 02:28 PM

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... you are shitfaced ... don't give a sh**.

Why one and not the other?

Sashasmith512 · 06-04-2014, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Whispers

I thought you already said you were through with ECCIE?

Posting sweetie I'm going to see my regulars

Toyz · 06-04-2014, 03:39 PM

Then I still don't get it...sorry... But if u r only seeing "regulars" & ignoring all others, don't your regulars know the rules of "shit happens"?

Perhaps you can set up your own web site and spare everyone ese the drama of a post directed at people you aren't going to answer anyway?

My0my · 06-04-2014, 03:58 PM

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Okay so this is the most frustrating thing ever, I posted last night, pretty clearly WHAT my schedule was and when I had incall availability but somehow still had a large handful of guys ask for incall on dates not specified..... I understand maybe one or 2 could've been drinking or misread, but waking up to 18 messages and half being bullshit gets a bit annoying.... but this is NOT the first time either. Can someone please explain whether I'm just not being clear enough when I post in provider ads or if those clients are just not the brightest?....

I think you may have stumbled onto the answer to your own hissy:

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Grow up. It's life. Shit just fucking happens.

saustin · 06-04-2014, 04:46 PM

You do seem frustrated. Perhaps this life-style is not for you:

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I will become more and more scarce over the months. This isn't something I ever planned on doing for a long time. I want to go to school and live a normal life in a healthy relationship. I did enjoy it while it lasted but it is definitely a very stressful hobby and it takes a toll on a woman's body and mind.

http://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1055320650&postcount=1

sunspots · 06-04-2014, 05:06 PM

things seem to have broken down... on both ends to a large extent

Whispers · 06-04-2014, 05:39 PM

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Cuz I've already said I'll see my regulars.... just not going to deal with new client problems all the time. I love my job and the nice people I've met. I enjoy sex very much, only reason I got Into providing in the first place. I still get respectable older gentleman who get where I'm coming from. That's why I stopped doing reviews in Austin. Once I found out that that wasn't everything shown.

you do not get to decide whether or not you are reviewed darlin.... That is a guys privilege here.... especially if you are running ads