So I read this thread and got kinda quietly judgmental "who doesn't want to share their fantasies... Come on serially?"
Only to realize that I'm that guy too. But I worry that my fantasy is too vanilla, that I'd just plain bore a provider. Ever since I was a kid playing cowboys and Indians, I loved being tied up... Even at 10,I liked it to much. But my fantasy technically ends there, I like feeling helpless. I like the idea of losing control. But then I don't have the experience to say what comes next (or maybe the yarbles to say'hook me up to the electrodes and let's get this started!)
So in long hand, thanks to the providers for making this a safe space. Good God I sound like the biggest stuck up on here. But that's the joy of self awareness, self consciousness!