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Originally Posted by NTFunGuy
For us members that have a definite need for discretion, this can become a serious issue. Family, job, whatever, etc. And as much as I may want or feel the need to see a certain provider, nothing will trump those things.
With all of the questions surrounding sites like this, or P411 and Date Check, and LE using 'Meet and Greets' to set up stings, what's a hobbyist to do? What do you providers out there recommend we do? As with most guys here, I'm open to fair, well thought out options within reason. I just don't think I should be required to give you everything up to and including a recent credit check.
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I think that no matter what their job is or how important a man thinks he may be, we all have the same to lose. Do we all not have personal lives, jobs, and families? We all have something to lose if we ever were implicated. One person is never more important than another in my opinion.
This is what I look for when I screen:
Does the man have an Eccie handle with reviews and posts? If not, then I ask for P411 or references with a verified provider from NYS. If he is a newbie, then I ask for employment verification.
I know that men are reluctant to give personal information and I understand that (but I won't see them without any screening). I now understand the reasons for the reluctance since I started this thread. I do care about my clients and their safety as well, but I really don't care about what you do for a living. I use the info to screen to keep myself and my ladies safe and I'm not saving the information for future reference.
I am a provider, but I do agree that asking for credit info, mother's maiden name, and personal address is going too far.
To assume one man or lady has more to lose than another is rather arrogant.
I'd like to apologize again for being blunt, but I've been contacted by three men recently who claim they have more to lose than the "normal client" and wouldn't give me any info. One even asked if I would meet out at a hotel since he was "more discreet" than other clients and said that he had "more to lose than normal men." Another man recently claimed that "believe me when I tell you that I am not your normal client" and said that "I am above anything you can imagine."
These are the contacts that encouraged me to ask why men think that they don't need screening.
Sorry, this is a long rant. I need to lay off the champagne today...