Are you afraid to admit your fetishes? Or look down on those who do?

[MsKristine]

Originally Posted by windowshopper

i generally think admitting fetishes and getting turned away is one sided. meaning women can say what they want and be labeled a hot, horny, and freaky. but if a dude says same thing, he could be a pervert, looser, creep, etc...

I'd have to agree with that. Even outside this Hobby, I have guy friends that know I have a fetish/fantasy side and like it, yet they were weary in telling me theirs. It is either because they didn't want me to look down upon them, or they told someone before and got that disgusted look, but after many talks they finally came around and opened up. So over the past few years I have come to realize that more guys do have more of a fetish side than girls, wonder why that is. I could never look down on another person for whatever fetish desire they have, actually I like it when someone opens up about their fetishes, no matter how wild it is.