Suggestions in the ISO...and references....seious issues

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by JuanDiego

Personally, if a lady asks me for references, I am moving on to the next lady. The KC area is the only place I have found that is so big on screening. Not knocking your choice. I understand your personal preference and thinking that you're being safe. You have to know you're closing the door on many great guys. But, I'm sure you do just fine without us.

A few current events locally
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.kansascity.com/news/local/article314718.html
https://www.google.com/amp/s/fox4kc.com/2019/04/08/independence-police-arrest-24-people-in-2-day-human-trafficking-sting/amp/
Stay safe all!

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

I know that's always a concern or paranoia but has that really ever been done? That is, on this board or P411? It seems to be a lot of trouble just for nailing 2 consenting adults...now if they think something else is going on or can get to bigger fish, that may be different

The biggest ones in my recollection

1. Oklahoma-- there was infiltration so big that for a while Oklahoma boards were completely shut down both on ASPD (this was a long time back) and if I remember right, even Gina shut OK down on P411 for a while.

2. Louisiana-- there have been P411 flips there in the past.

3. Denver-- there was a P411 flip there as well.

See... the easiest way this happens is when a gent with a P411 account decides to take a walk on the wild side and see someone he can't verify-- and whoopsie-- he gets arrested. They get offered everything from privacy to amnesty if they just turn over their accounts to local LE. Takes 1-2 weeks for the ladies in the area to catch up to the fact that there has been an infiltration.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

....See... the easiest way this happens is when a gent with a P411 account decides to take a walk on the wild side and see someone he can't verify-- and whoopsie-- he gets arrested. They get offered everything from privacy to amnesty if they just turn over their accounts to local LE. Takes 1-2 weeks for the ladies in the area to catch up to the fact that there has been an infiltration.

Or an eccie guys account which is part of the recent KC story.

I anticipate east coast rules being implemented by the gals here. Multiple very current references and rw data. I would think board membership will not be considered nor references older than 3 months.

[Grace Preston]

Either way-- all it takes is being in the wrong place at the wrong time... I don't know too many gents who wouldn't take the opportunity to make it all go away if arrested.

Honestly, KCMO has been getting progressively hotter for a while now-- It breaks my heart that my second favorite place to hobby has to be taken off my list-- I had hoped to make one last stop before hanging up my hooker heels for good. But with my real world job-- can't risk it. Sucks.. and I feel for all the ladies that call the region home.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

It’s definitely a different world out there now, and the hobby world is, unfortunately, no different.

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

...my second favorite place to hobby has to be taken off my list-- I had hoped to make one last stop before hanging up my hooker heels for good.

Wish you the best, Grace!! Huggzzz and lixxx...

[Guest041919]

Screened or not, if the guy (or provider) is LE the chances are they will get their bust. You can't rely too much on screening just like LE doesn't rely on it. We are all at risk somehow or some way its just with this fosta/sesta thing we aren't allowed to vocalize support for each other or drive each other to meet ups, or show providers addresses to hobbyists. These are the things that they are going after in the fight.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

You just lost out some really nice ladies in KC . Why would you not want to give references ? or maybe go for the low hanging fruit .

Originally Posted by JuanDiego

Personally, if a lady asks me for references, I am moving on to the next lady. The KC area is the only place I have found that is so big on screening. Not knocking your choice. I understand your personal preference and thinking that you're being safe. You have to know you're closing the door on many great guys. But, I'm sure you do just fine without us.

[KatiforYou]

Kansas City has always been hot. I think for awhile it wasn’t so bad but some of us remember years ago...

[Mikeskip100]

I agree What ive run into is if you have seen a provider on eccie or off they aren’t willing to play ball meaning they will not provide information as a reference to others I’m sure I’m not the only one

[DallasRain]

I gladly give references. We all gotta keep each other safw!

And I will give provider suggestions to reputable dawgs here or my regular clients....via pm or email only

[SweetSuzanna]

Originally Posted by KC Heisenburger

Is there a thread on eccie where ladies can leave a reference or "white list" for a gentlemen? I have never asked for references, but always thought ladies I have seen would vouch and convey that I am a good guy. I spent the better half of today trying to set something up to no avail.

Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated.

Ask your most recent faves if they would be a reference for you. If they say yes then put her name, link to her bio, your phone number and how she might remember you. Then she just pm's the ref and you're good to go!