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Originally Posted by TonyStark
So sorry laz, next time I have a question for another member I will run it through you first.
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Tony,
First I'm not certain why you are trying to turn this thread away from the original issue by making that sort of asinine statement. not even sure why you are apologozing to me, you should be apologizing to BBL for hijacking his thread and attacking him for reporting some facts that have been confirmed as truthful by the provider.
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Originally Posted by TonyStark
Why didn't bbl book using his own handle? What is he worried about?
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As to this portion of your hijacking questions, I'm so sorry that with all your vast knowledge you have never understood that there are many more guys who do not use their handles when making appointments than those who do.
And what makes you feel you know him so well that you can ASSume that he would be worried about something? based on his BCD habits, it doesn't appear to me that he worries about much with regard to the hobby but I'm digressing from your hijack so let me get back to it.
Shall I try to enlighten you as to the reasons why? I mean, this is a topic that has been addressed in threads before but since you are asking me directly, I'll give it my best shot.
Some girls have posted they have felt intimidated when booking an appointment with someone who has a ton of reviews or even someone who has been openly in the hobby for a very long time. Sure they know the guy is most likely "safe" but due to their "experience" some providers have felt they might not measure up to what have been referred to as "legends" overs the years and so rather than risk a potentially bad session and review, they'll pass.
Some providers have also expressed at times that because some guys feel their handle gives them "cred", those guys will try and bully better rates, more services than they normally provide, iincluding but not limited to BBFS and most everything else. Here; go read this brand new thread to see a very recent and terrible example of why many guys use handles for bad things:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=389389
Or how about this Alert?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...18#post2203018
Took me all of 30 seconds to find to perfect examples of how some guys abuse the implied power of a handle.
It is shocking to me that you actually had to ask such a truly basic question when examples such as those are all over this board and were all over ASPD for years.
Clients have expressed in the past on here and on ASPD that by not using their handle to book appointments, they can write a more honest review. the last thing some clients want is to get angry calls when an honest review appears that is not the same sappy white knight bullshit containing things such as "she's curvy but not a BBW" when he knows that he will call a spade and a spade and describe that yes in fact, she IS a BBW.
Clients have also learned that some on the boards go to great lengths in order to find out additional personal details about specific people and a perfect example of that was back on ASPD when a moderator was stalking a moderator on another board and calling up providers he was posting reviews of trying to find out personal details. That mod denies it of course but what he didn't know was that since he never used his handle when booking and many times saw the providers many times, they would not only tell him about the requests and ask his advice since he WAS a regular and enjoy a laugh about it.
Using a handle can be both good and bad. If you have honest conversations with providers you'd soon learn that way too many clients throw their handle around like it is a something to be feared. Go read the alert forums and see how many times guys have used someone else's handles or used their own handle demanding shit.
Got it?
Now that you've been answered, hopefully you can stop hijacking this thread trying to turn it into a new topic and if you want to ask such questions as you just did, you might want to first do some research on the issue and then start your own thread.
The provider who is the subject of this thread has already admitted she fucked up and did not tell him she wasn't fucking prior to confirming the appointment and him heading to her incall.
Did you miss that post in your haste to hijack and then try to make smart ass comments to me?