I just saw this thread and thought about leaving it alone as do not wish anyone any harm and especially not a provider! It is a funny thread even though I have been the butt of some of it! However, just to set some members straight, I did NOT request a freebie ... she offered it!
(Who amongst you would have turned that down?!)
From a PM she sent me :
This also confirmed in a text message from her which I found and showed her that day!
I DID request that she came to my side of town (because if I ended up with
yet another NC/NS, at least I would not be driving as far!), and that despite everything, I did not want her to be out of pocket, so I would get the room and give her some gas money.
I did exactly what I said I would!
I am no-one's WK (nor, as far I am aware, do I have any!), nor do I wish to ruin anyone's reputation. I simply state the truth as I know it!
As for futile's claims ... well, they're futile, LOL. He didn't know the all the details and ran a fallacious argument which had utterly no merit, based on nothing but assumptions.
Well done, sir ... NOT!!!
We now return to our scheduled program "Living your lives" ... already in progress
abdclub
AKA Joe Friday "Just the facts, ma'am" LOL