Guys. Are you a loud lover?

[BBW Katrina]

If you are louder than me...then..umm NO. I don't mind moaning and grunts. And I definitely like to know you came or when you are about to (the silent cummer always confuses me), but guys this is your hobby and you can be as loud as you like. I couldn't be with a man in real life though that was really loud and dramatic when cumming. Just not my thing. I like to be loud onel!

Some clients have actually startled me with their overly ambitious finales! I was like God I hope nobody heard that!

[Fortisb43]

Interesting topic. I am pretty quiet bcd, especially in p4p. (Heck, I may be one of the silent finishers mentioned). I guess I always felt a bit sheepish. Like the provider would be laughing later on saying and then he made a 'face like this' and a sound like this', lol. I never thought about if from the lady's perspective where they appreciate the feedback and know how things are going.

I might as well be more open about how much I'm enjoying it.

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

And I definitely like to know you came or when you are about to (the silent cummer always confuses me)

Exactly!

I really don't like silent play dates. Moans & grunts let me know I'm doing it right and brings a smile to my face.

[Kendall4U]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Exactly!

I really don't like silent play dates. Moans & grunts let me know I'm doing it right and brings a smile to my face.

This....I like a happy medium

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Fortisb43

Interesting topic. I am pretty quiet bcd, especially in p4p. (Heck, I may be one of the silent finishers mentioned). I guess I always felt a bit sheepish. Like the provider would be laughing later on saying and then he made a 'face like this' and a sound like this', lol. I never thought about if from the lady's perspective where they appreciate the feedback and know how things are going.

I might as well be more open about how much I'm enjoying it.

Men will ALWAYS giggle a little bit when they orgasm. A VERY long time ago, might have been on ASPD, I started a topic and asked why men always laugh a bit when they orgasm.

I know that now ... especially if it's been a remarkable time with someone ... I giggle a little bit, too.

So don't be too shy when around a sex worker. Most of us, at least the ones that I know, actually enjoy sex for the most part. And are appreciative of it's finer points.

Exclaim your passion! It's alright. And if someone does giggle afterwards? Couldn't it be laughter and chuckles of delight?

On a side note: It's completely fine if your orgasm is silent. No issues there. I happen to appreciate a little noise. That's all. Hugs!

[L.A.]

I'm pretty quiet. I usually let my body language do my talking. Sometimes I'll throw out a "wow" or "whoa!" but I'm not ever overly loud or dramatic.

On a side note I get so pissed of at porn when the damn guy is making all those moans and groans...STFU.

[anita]

That "I'm about to cum" or any other dirty talk with faster strokes and tight grip of my hips or ass is a major turn on. I love it when guys moan as well. The quiet ones will cum, then stop and I'd ask "what's wrong?", just to hear "I came.", oh... Lol.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by L.A.

I'm pretty quiet. I usually let my body language do my talking. Sometimes I'll throw out a "wow" or "whoa!" but I'm not ever overly loud or dramatic.

On a side note I get so pissed of at porn when the damn guy is making all those moans and groans...STFU.

Pretty similar myself.

I even feel about the same way with porn. Listening to guys make almost ANY noise, or especially talk (black porn guys are the most annoying fucks in porn), is a nuisance.

[anita]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Pretty similar myself.

I even feel about the same way with porn. Listening to guys make almost ANY noise, or especially talk (black porn guys are the most annoying fucks in porn), is a nuisance.

Ahah!! I don't like the non-stop dirty talk (men or women), and I am like you. Don't really watch porn where the guys (or both sex) talk too much.

[Hermosa]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I'm too focused on the finish line to notice, but I think I emit some sound as I get close.

I'm often asked "are you alright?" soon after, so something is going on..

I'm choking on my water dude!

[Guest113018-1]

I don't know if I get loud or not, when her thighs are clamped down on my ears, I can't hear a damned thing. IJS.

[littlehugbigkiss]

Being too loud would be a little weird. I might do it to be funny or something but only to lighten the mood. I like to focus more on making the girl be loud and crazy.

[Reacher]

The only time I have a 'silent' orgasm is when I'm somewhere where I would be otherwise embarrassed to be heard.

I'm not super-vocal but I definitely make some noise at the moment of no return. Like some others have said, there have been times where I need to grab a pillow I come so hard.

[beachcomber789]

I'm not very vocal, but I do comment to let my partner know how I am enjoying the time we are having together....a past girlfriend told me I. want to know you aren't enjoying it, thus I learned to talk during play..unless I am DATY!

[plove35]

I love to talk and the more im aroused the dirtier shit I say...I have to apologize sometimes...lol