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Old 05-20-2016, 10:54 AM   #31
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I'll take the blame for spoiling him over the last three years fellas.
Just a gentle FYI - we're not all "fellas".
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Old 05-20-2016, 11:19 AM   #32
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Cancellations happen. It's part of the hobby. For me they've been rare. Worse things can happen. If a cancellation is the worst thing to happen to you in the hobby then you're not doing too bad.
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Old 05-20-2016, 01:22 PM   #33
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Just check out my showcase lol... You figure out if I'm slow... but I only use this site for Oklahoma, Texas, and Missouri states. I tend to travel more north and east if you cared to know about how busy I am. At Fancys rates she's the one you need to be worried about having slow business...
As Forest Gump's mama used to say, "Slow is as slow does."

You're the one threADing, not her.
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Old 05-20-2016, 03:13 PM   #34
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My most recent last minute cancelation was by my atf. And of all days my bday. We spent a few weeks planning it all out. No lie I was bummed but other than that I didn't bother me cause I know sometimes life hits you in the face when you least expect it. She did make it up to me.
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Old 05-20-2016, 04:44 PM   #35
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My most recent last minute cancelation was by my atf. And of all days my bday. We spent a few weeks planning it all out. No lie I was bummed but other than that I didn't bother me cause I know sometimes life hits you in the face when you least expect it. She did make it up to me.
Exactly. I have had a number of the ladies I see on a recurring basis cancel from time to time...life happens. But they always contact me before the appointment start time, and then reschedule when the problem is resolved. I have no problem with that.

It's the ones that go "radio silent" about an hour before the appointment and don't respond for a couple days, then pop up on PM or email with a lame excuse. Those I thank for telling me what "happened"....
Then I delete them from my contacts and block their account on P411 so it doesn't display anymore. Far more great ladies to see than I have time and funds for, no need to bother with that waste of time again.
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Old 05-20-2016, 07:33 PM   #36
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With the OP's attitude it is not surprising that he gets cancellations.
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Old 05-21-2016, 06:00 PM   #37
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So far I have had 12 sessions and not once did a provider cancel on me.
That's been my experience, too. Actually, I'm such a reprobate that I don't know how many appointments I've had, but it's certainly more than twelve. Never been cancelled on, nor have I ever cancelled. I'm sure I'll experience a cancellation at some point, but ... book with reputable, experienced, substantial, intelligent women, and I think there's a serious tendency that what they say they'll do, they do. And when they say they'll do, that's when they do it.
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Old 05-23-2016, 06:27 AM   #38
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This happens all the time. They verify your references and confirm a 2 or 3 hour date then 2 hours before cancel. They have some excuse which most of the time is from poor planning or just non professional behavior. This is why guys in the hobby schedule 2 or 3 providers for one date because one or two will cancel. I know the ladies get made about cancellations but the main reason this happens ladies is because providers cancel 50 % of the time.
if guys are scheduling 2-3 at one time then what makes it wrong for providers to cover themselves the same way if they are paying for an incall location?

karma is a bitch

if both sides of the aisle are doing this then it will continue happening

I prefer low volume ladies for this reason who I can pre book with. less of a chance of issues.

also if you get cancelled on then its not that big a deal, no money changed hands.. she doesn't owe you a thing. move on to another provider. i'm sure providers will brush you aside for someone they have seen before, especially since you are a newb to this.
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Old 05-23-2016, 06:36 PM   #39
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I've been canceled a few times and I've had to cancel a few times. It's not the end of the world. It happens with doctors and dentists too and they charge $600 an hour for sticking a finger up your ass. What annoys me is when I show up at the appointed time and place and the lady is gone like Jimmy Hoffa. Please, if you got a booty call from D. Trump or a visit from Bloody Mary, just tell me you had to take your mom to the hospital or something, don't leave me hanging. And if I say I'll call back in half an hour and two hours later I still can't reach you, don't be surprised when I have to take my mother to the hospital.
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Old 05-23-2016, 11:59 PM   #40
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As a provider with a good screening process I would say if your date cancels on you it may be a blessing in disguise. If she doesn't feel comfortable setting up the meeting it's probably because her screening method didn't completely mete out the desired result. Even without a review to refer to I'm still no worse for wear with the clients I see because I trust my instincts and I'm not desperate to see every guy that calls. Of course I am only body rubs so I may have a different set of clients than escorts.
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Old 05-24-2016, 04:48 AM   #41
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if your date cancels on you it may be a blessing in disguise.
This is probably the best advice here. If she NC/NS or last minute cancels without explanation, you should move along. She is not the lady you want to see. Too many responsible ladies here to waste time on unprofessional ladies.
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Old 05-26-2016, 09:54 AM   #42
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OMG...I feel intimidated by the presence of such a classy lady, who has graced us with her presence in these lowly forums, promoted her ability to outshine "most", and shared her ability to please our higher end client base. We hobby, we participate in forums, we share and learn from one another which, come to find out, is looked down upon by the elite. I am grateful for the lesson. Who'd a thunk it?

Babill, you stated 50%, yet later in the thread, you referred to only one. You judged without actual knowledge, but rather what seems to be speculation. Then you slammed said provider with a less than classy statement about her role as a mother. Maybe you should stick to your like minded hobby guide and friend. By her own admission, she's got it going on and you will never encounter such shabby treatment should you continue to seek and then experience the perfect encounter with her, over and over again. She sounds perfect, so why look elsewhere?

Best of Luck!!
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Old 05-26-2016, 11:07 AM   #43
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Everything in this hobby is false. If you can remember that, you can enjoy your time with the ladies. It is false that she desires you to enter her, her name is false, your name is false, their advertisements are false (I always add 5 years to the posted age, low-volume, yeah right! they take as many men as their perceived needs of money are at the time, photo shopped pics, etc.) reviews are false (no she did not orgasm 6 times, her moaning was an act, no you really are not that huge as compared to others), But she squirts so orgasm is real (please she fills her bladder and squirts on cue), your status in society is false, you being a big shot is false (men with status and big shots typically do not pay for pussy). Let go of any smidgen of truth and you can get off and have more fun. Reason she canceled, probably false, reason guy cancels, yep you guessed it just assume false. Shit happens but not that often. Providers try to juggle men around. You have appointment at 8pm, she gets a call for a two hour at 7pm, she cancels on you and makes the higher dollar appt. Your a regular hell you will re schedule, right? See? Part of the little game of lies we all play in order to fuck women without strings.
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Old 05-26-2016, 12:09 PM   #44
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The escort lost the money on cancellation.Move on find another escort.Hobbyists cancellation on escorts the're would be pissed.
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