Married Men in The Hobby / Men in a Committed Relationship that Seek Providers.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by FunMonday

Nina just demonstrated to the entire community that she has absolutely no idea how the hooker industry works. All moral considerations aside it is the married man that represents the vast majority of johns.

My business has always been good so apparently I'm doing something right. I created this thread to counter the "Providers in committee relationship" threads. There are a lot of hypocrites on this site. Johns can be in a relationship and still trick but providers get looked down on when we are hoeing but in a relationship. Its the same thing.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

[QUOTE=Chateau Becot;1058824677]I don't mean to be crass, Nina....but your inquiry has been bantered about as often as Girls with NBA policies or Who gives the best BBBJ (do a little search & you'll find plenty of thoughts on Married Men & The Hobby).
I preferred to do my own thread so I can ask specially what I wanted to ask.

[jamieDallas]

Good question Nina

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by jamieDallas

Good question Nina

Your Avatar is Super Hot Jamie!!!

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

There are a lot of hypocrites on this site. Johns can be in a relationship and still trick but providers get looked down on when we are hoeing but in a relationship. Its the same thing.

I'm not seeing where guys are looking down at the providers. It seems to me that it's more of the guys wondering what the fuck is wrong with a dude to be cool with his lady sucking and fucking for money. On the other hand, the guys' SO's probably don't know what they are doing behind their back....the difference is if the provider's SO knows, he's probably a bum who benefits financially. And on the rare occasions that a John's SO knows, she probably doesn't want to touch him anyway and just wants him to keep paying the bills or she may be a swinger and doesn't care and may even participate with him; either way, she won't benefit financially.

The way I look at it, I don't care about other people's business unless it directly affects me. I have better shit to do.

[jamieDallas]

Thanks Boooo !

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Linking this thread to mines.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1878743
I call my thread "The Counter Thread"

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by jamieDallas

Good question Nina

Of coarse it is, you're only 19 thinking there's nothing wrong with a BF letting you suck and fuck fat old men for $

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Linking this thread to mines.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1878743
I call my thread "The Counter Thread"

Guys fucking whores and going home to wifey is not the same as you women being the whores with hubby knowing and being cool with it

My thread was not to look down on the women but more to understand what type of coward allows his woman to endanger herself in the hobby, only a POS pimp would be down with that

I would love to hear your logic how it's the same thing

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Guys fucking whores and going home to wifey is not the same as you women being the whores with hubby knowing and being cool with it

My thread was not to look down on the women but more to understand what type of coward allows his woman to endanger herself in the hobby, only a POS pimp would be down with that

I would love to hear your logic how it's the same thing

A man can spend money on pussy and go home to his wife just like a provider can fuck for money and come home to hubby.

You made it seem like it wasn't possible but everything is possible.

Just like many men here, your S.O. doesn't know u trick just like provider hubbies won't know they hoe. I never said anything about your S.O. knowing u hoeing/tricking. Dont nobody wanna be with a hoe or a trick so that stays on the DL.

If your S.O. knows what u do n ok with it they either a pimp, hoe, trick or simply a dumbass

[plove35]

Simple: because I want too....and its better than having a full blown emotional affair with someone.

[Guest050619-1]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

I preferred to do my own thread so I can ask specially what I wanted to ask.
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No, that's not true....you preferred to go the easy route; the one that required zero research on your own per the inquiry and popping out a thread on a topic that's been talked about on this site (and others in the adult entertainment industry) up one side and down the other. This very topic has been wrung dry and yet...here it is once again.

I hate to tell you (but) your laundry list of questions pertaining to The Married Man & The Hobby are nothing "special" whatsoever.

This is not an attempt on my part to be contentious or pick on you, Nina ('cause I don't know you from Adam)...I'm just saying your inquiry (and all questions pertaining to said thread) is nothing new....and your questions were not original (or special). Again (repeating myself) had you had put a nickel's worth of elbow grease into doing a search per this topic, you would've come up with more opinions / information than you could've read in a month.

To me, this thread falls into the column of Been There, Done That.

[Ipthirteen1701]

OK, I'll play along, too:

What made u seek something outside of your marriage?

I married my second girlfriend after dating the first for 6 years and the second for three. I was so shy growing up I never went to dances or social events. I always loved women, but was way too shy to ever be able to put myself out there. I had what I suppose is the classic mid-life crisis when I hit 40 and realized that we all get only one life, and I'd never been with a blonde chic, a Hispanic, a spinner, an Asian, a chic with huge fake boobs... well, you get the idea. I feel like I missed out on a big part of being a guy and I wanted to rectify that situation.

Do your S.O. know you in the hobby?

Hell no, and if she found out she'd probably divorce me. I'm her first and only man, and she has issues with any sexual release not coming from her. In fact, she knew I used porn when we first started dating, and we tried to incorporate it into the mix sometimes, but it was terrible. She would end up just sitting there making comments like, "Oh, so why do you like that? I don't look like that." "If you think I'm going to do that you're crazy." "Trust me, she's not having as much fun as she's letting on." Instead of enjoying it with me, she was taking everything that wasn't like our relationship as a personal affront and judging me for it. I see hobbying as not fundamentally different from jerking off. We all do it, and it's nothing against the SO. I feel like it enhances my life and makes everything more enjoyable.

Do you guys normally leave your ring in the car before seeing a provider?

I always wear the ring, and I think most providers that I've been with just assume I'm married. Like that would make them turn me away. Have these words ever come out of a provider's mouth: "Oh, you're married? I'm sorry, you have to leave. I don't cater to married men."

Why get married if your just going to cheat?

Had I known then I may not have gotten married, to be honest. I never entered into the marriage expecting to cheat. And, I don't really consider it cheating if I'm not actually entering into emotional relationships with providers. I have seen a few ladies who are special to me multiple times, but it's still not an emotional relationship. I don't consider having friends to be cheating, do you?

Do you use your money or your S.O. money to pay a provider?

It's our money, but I make the vast majority of it and manage all of it. That's actually the easiest part.

What lie works best when trying to sneak away from your S.O.?

I hobby during the work week, so I usually don't have to make excuses. It helps that I now own my company, so while I bust my ass as the hardest working employee working the longest hours, I can leave to go "to a meeting" anytime I want. I just have to make sure I have the obligations taken care of before I can hobby.

[Bluesplyr]

i have always wondered what "boo" means....??? well, does not really matter much like this thread. is n now considered a conjunction? oh my....

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by Chateau Becot

No, that's not true....you preferred to go the easy route; the one that required zero research on your own per the inquiry and popping out a thread on a topic that's been talked about on this site (and others in the adult entertainment industry) up one side and down the other. This very topic has been wrung dry and yet...here it is once again.

I hate to tell you (but) your laundry list of questions pertaining to The Married Man & The Hobby are nothing "special" whatsoever.

This is not an attempt on my part to be contentious or pick on you, Nina ('cause I don't know you from Adam)...I'm just saying your inquiry (and all questions pertaining to said thread) is nothing new....and your questions were not original (or special). Again (repeating myself) had you had put a nickel's worth of elbow grease into doing a search per this topic, you would've come up with more opinions / information than you could've read in a month.

To me, this thread falls into the column of Been There, Done That.

Why does it matter?? This is MY thread, this is MY eccie account. If I want to make a thread I will make one simple. I only created this to counter the "Providers In Committed Relationships" thread. If u don't like my thread or what I have to say then dont comment.

[Billogoods]

Just a generalization.

When a man is caught cheating, the SO leaves him, takes whatever she wants and tells everyone what a slimeball he is. Nobody believes it if he says he was coerced or forced.

When a woman cheats, the SO wants to hurt/kill somebody, and that's usually the guy she was caught with. If she says she was coerced or forced, the BF, friends and Judicial System run to rescue her and punish the man, often after a brutal beating at the hands of the SO.

So, the BF of a provider has much more potential to harm a hobbyist than a wife has to harm a provider.

Sure, there are exceptions, such as myself, who chose to exit and let the lovers have each other.

Then, there's the woman who starts off with "Oh, HELL no!" That's never a good sign.