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Originally Posted by Ansley
Okay, so my feelings on the subject are different than yours. Is there really any reason for you to comment on it?
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You can comment on things yet others are not supposed to? Is that the kind of forum you want returned to? That was another board. I do not agree with that mentality.
Yes I miss
some posters but I at least respect their wish's for whatever reason not to post. Do you want all posters to come back? Or just a certain few?
What you wish for is to go back in time. Times and people change, you will never be able to achieve that wish. I will never be 20 again and 'kinder gentler' are to subjective to define from a group perspective as diverse as this.
So when I comment on:"That mother fucker can't leave enough alone!" You think.
"F you and the horse you rode in on!" and the people who agree with it , forgive me for taking exception with it and commenting on it.
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Originally Posted by Ansley
I didn't feel like my world had ended, yes I was upset, as in mad. Yet, another person leaving because they don't feel safe to post. I've heard that you need to have a thicker skin to post on an escort board. Yes, I agree to a point. I really have no interest in getting an even thicker skin, and I'm sure other ladies feel the same way. One of the reasons this forum was set up, was for us to enjoy a "kinder gentler" area of eccie. Hopefully in the near future things will change and some of the people will come back.
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They didn't
feel safe? How are we supposed to address that? What if I do not
feel safe around you? There has been no indication that you would disclose personal information. But if I do not
feel safe, I should leave if that is the case. I should not ask you to leave because of my feelings. For me to ask other to leave they would have to do something that validities my feelings of being unsafe. I hardly think discussing what we all say on a discussion board would rise to validation of being unsafe.
I do think there is a certain segment of society that does not like having their beliefs challenged , while challenging others beliefs at will.
I could care less about thicker skin but I do like an equal chance for all. That includes people I do not agree with. That includes your comments and anyone's counter comments. Not just you comments and ten people that agree with you because you have silenced dissenting views. I consider open discussion 'kinder gentler''. The more people exposed to a forum, the thicker skin you need if you are not accepting of differing views. I do not need thicker skin. I realize that there are other POV's than mine. I do not take someone questiong my POV, personal. Therefore , though people question my views all the time, I do not need thicker skin, I needed more tolerance. May I suggest that instead of thicker skin. For the one you mourn, I would suggest that controling one's enviorment is next to impossible, especially in an open forum. It discounts the Blowback theory.