Dude (OP), don't worry about these fools. If you're a good guy, just sweet talk these 'No AA' providers a little bit, be a gentleman, and you'll get some breakthroughs.
We all know the truths about the hobby. Some of these ladies are being harassed by people of their own race for openly seeing black men. These same ones complaining about these threads are some of the same ones telling these ladies behind closed doors not to be seeing N-word's or he'll ruin her business, or use some other bullshit scare tactic.
That's not all of it. Some black men are just immature dumbasses. These fuckers wearing their pants half off their asses, they need to be removed from society. That shit looks STUPID AS FUCK, and there should be laws against it. The irony of wearing your pants that way is that it hinders you, particularly when you're trying to run, fight, reach in your pocket (since they're now down to your knees), or just walk in general. They gotta walk with a wide stride to keep the pants from falling down any further.
How STUPID do you have to be to not realize that you're a detriment to yourself by not wearing your clothes the right way?!?
It's embarrassing to watch, and sets back black people in general. The few white cats that try it look even sillier, fwiw.
In short, just act like you got some sense with these ladies instead of acting like a poorly raised, undisciplined douchebag, and things will get better.
Ignore the trolls, too.