AA Men

[Sizematters75]

Originally Posted by Big C-Dub

Then why don't we see ads that say 'No Indian Men' or "No Asian Men" ? How about "No fat guys"? I know most women aren't attracted to fat guys, huh?

As a black guy, seeing ads like that is such a downer. I understand ads like that are most of the time are influenced by an insecure black BF/pimp or a provider that is too lazy to to check references, and we are in the South where some old habits/stereotypes die hard, but c'mon, it's 2012.

I understand the free market argument and how that will work itself out, but we still see it, which means someone is still making $$$ with these kind of ads.

OK, vent over. Now back to looking at providers that want to be with intelligent black guys like me. (Oh, and I'm well-endowed too)

Then I guess leave it as personal preference or some other unforeseen why they dont I was just putting in a thought on it. It sucks that you have to deal with that and yes I do realize its 2012 and as you say die hard but again I can tell you I was raised with that old habit you referenced and I dont stereotype nor discriminate I just choose to in a sexual manner stay with what I am comfortable and like.
This goes back to that old thing called being american I would say and you have the right to free choice.

[lat]

There is one provider I would love to see on this site , we text ,once she found out I was AA it was off ! No disrespect to her I can understand cause I really have a preference of light skin girls or tan or mixed , that's just me , so I might be in that same boat !

[MrGiz]

When I stop and think of the delicious ebony girls that I have been lucky enough to enjoy, in and out of the hobby.... it really brings it home to me, the frustration you guys must feel!! It's really quite a shame that some people place limits upon even their own potential experiences!!

True , adventurous , open sexuality should include the entire smorgasbord!!

[disilene]

Lat brings up a good point.

I have heard from both providers and strippers who are black...that they don't get as much business or as big a tip or donation.

We might be jumping all over the providers for not seeing black guys, but are all of us seeing the black girls too? They need money too.

My UTR ATF is a smoking hot little black girl. I would have really REALLY missed out if I didn't see black girls!

[jl11]

Well I guess I'll drop a bomb. I remember a NBA provider asking me once if I have some Hispanic in me, so I asked the question of why she was NBA. She told me bc AA have the highest rate of HIV, and in BR 70 something percent of new HIV cases are amongst AAs. She also told me that she turned away a couple of white guys that looked like junkies. Hmmm. Yeah, we didn't want to hear that huh. It's kind of awkward that this thread has more views and interest than a provider showing her new showcase pics, and of LE crackdowns due to upcoming elections eh.

[Massage By Mandy]

would not consider you a true AA lat. you are creole. very much enjoyed my time with you and those pretty green eyes. a woman would be crazy not to see you. funny, my biggest hagglers are all white guys.

you showed up on time, smelling great, dressed well, and had manners of a southern gent, and you tipped. imagine that.

[Nicolet]

Lat sounds absolutely yummy!

[tejero]

Whoever that NBA provider is need to get out of the business and find a new line of work. HIV don't discriminate it see's no color. Yeah a lot of new reported cases of HIV in Baton Rouge are coming from african-americans, that's because the city is like 60 percent black. And how can somebody look like a junkie, unless there showing obvious track marks on there arm.

[mysticaldreams]

Originally Posted by eholiday

I find the whole No AA thing to be a pain in the ass. Here I am cruising BP or ECCIE and see this hot girl that I would love to spend some quality time with. I read their ad and see 'No AA'. I lose my hard on, and it takes a few more clicks to get the motor going for another girl. The next 3-5 girls after that ad have probably lost out because of the previous girls 'preference'.

In all seriousness, post 'no thugs', or something to that effect if you will see respectful guys of any race. Lumping us all in with the wanna-be's with the crotch of their pants between their ankles just ticks me off. I have never negotiated a rate for a session. I'll either see you at your rate or I won't. I'm a professional, well spoken guy in his late 30's.

well said sir. i second your response.

[urhuckleberry]

If you want more reading on the subject there is a 121 page thread in the National forum on this topic.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600

Huck

[Prissy Patty]

I try to screen as best as possible, but I started a new rule lately, over 35. Thinking maybe over 40. This may be dumb for missing out on to much but I like to feel appreciated for the work being done! Is that dumb ?

[eholiday]

Originally Posted by Prissy Patty

I try to screen as best as possible, but I started a new rule lately, over 35. Thinking maybe over 40. This may be dumb for missing out on to much but I like to feel appreciated for the work being done! Is that dumb ?

I'm 38. 40 would put me off your list. I think 35 is fair for an age limit. Set it much older and you are cutting off a good number of guys with disposable income.

[lat]

You r right Holiday ...

[Raptor794]

My view is a little unique. To the world I look as blonde haired, blue eyed, fair skin Germanic descent as they come. As the old racist saying goes about woodpiles... Lets just say my family tree has lots of branches.
Anyway, I have been able experience a lot concerning race and stereotypes. This topic could go on and on and on.
Since the Internet and TV provide a constant stream of news and most of it only the bad news the faces you see arrested for most violent crime and " pimping" are non-white. At least in areas like NO or BR where the populations of non-whites is higher than say, Utah.
Just a glimpse at the NOLA web site will show that. I do think its unfair to lump everyone who l

[Arverni]

Some interesting insight here on this topic from a former New Orleans Escort and Agency Co-Owner ...

http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2.../18/black-men/