study: men looking for love from providers

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by ms_elizabeth

"A new analysis of men who pay for sexual activities suggests that their true goal is finding something a bit more complicated – true love – even if it’s from the sex worker."

http://lasvegas.cbslocal.com/2012/08...-for-true-love

I would say any guy who sees a provider with the intent of finding "true love" should probably have his head examined. And I don't say this to degrade providers as I believe most providers wouldn't want their customers falling in love with them. That's when problems can arise. Seeing a provider is a fantasy, a break from the ordinary. It's not some kind of love quest for most guys. It may be for some but not most. I can't get in the heads of providers but I would imagine what they want from customers is kindness and respect, not heavy emotional attachment. And any strong attachment a guy does develop is more likely lust, not actual true love.

[Lexxxy]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I would say any guy who sees a provider with the intent of finding "true love" should probably have his head examined. And I don't say this to degrade providers as I believe most providers wouldn't want their customers falling in love with them. That's when problems can arise. Seeing a provider is a fantasy, a break from the ordinary. It's not some kind of love quest for most guys. It may be for some but not most. I can't get in the heads of providers but I would imagine what they want from customers is kindness and respect, not heavy emotional attachment. And any strong attachment a guy does develop is more likely lust, not actual true love.

What he said ^

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I spread out in the middle of the bed,

WTF?? It would seem most men would appreciate you spreading out wherever it might be.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I would say any guy who sees a provider with the intent of finding "true love" should probably have his head examined. And I don't say this to degrade providers as I believe most providers wouldn't want their customers falling in love with them. That's when problems can arise. Seeing a provider is a fantasy, a break from the ordinary. It's not some kind of love quest for most guys. It may be for some but not most. I can't get in the heads of providers but I would imagine what they want from customers is kindness and respect, not heavy emotional attachment. And any strong attachment a guy does develop is more likely lust, not actual true love.

I agree with the content and that this should be true. However the number of guys that should have there head examined may be higher than ya think. And the numbers of gals that would not put it to a end but rather play it for gain would be higher than than we all would wish.
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ok back
I took a look at your reviews you seem ok. What I was looking for was something like I found my new ATF in the 1st or 2nd meet of any one provider that you have reviewed. I cringe a bit every time I see that. Meeting anyone for the 1st and for many time after that both will try and be the best they can. That old best foot forward saying.

Well crap I want to say more. But for some reason I want to read 2 old reviews of mine on the old 2nd home board errrrrr latter.

[jackfengshui]

I welcome any empathy - but not emotional entanglement - between a provider and a client.

[The Drummer]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

drummer
I almost want to say don't waste your breath.
but that is good
so I will add to it something I just posted in another thread

the song part fits for what ya sayin I think

Hey OSD,

Your point is well taken. You make an interesting analogy between the topic of discussion and “The Gambler”.

Most everything in life is a gamble. If I tell a provider I love her as my friend, she might genuinely appreciate the sentiment or, conversely, think of me as a sucker and devise ways to manipulate my emotions.

In some cases I may just be wasting my breath.

[jokacz]

Could I get a list of all the best parking lots in the greater Rochester area?

That 23 bucks at the Gates is really cutting into my hobby budget. J/K

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by The Drummer

Hey OSD,

Your point is well taken. You make an interesting analogy between the topic of discussion and “The Gambler”.

Most everything in life is a gamble. If I tell a provider I love her as my friend, she might genuinely appreciate the sentiment or, conversely, think of me as a sucker and devise ways to manipulate my emotions.

In some cases I may just be wasting my breath.

we do have some of the same
Friends in Low Places - Garth Brooks


at the same
Animals - House Of The Rising Sun

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Could I get a list of all the best parking lots in the greater Rochester area?

That 23 bucks at the Gates is really cutting into my hobby budget. J/K

• 1. Court Street Garage
• 2. East End Garage*
• 3. Genesee Crossroads
• 4. High Falls Garage

• 5. Mortimer Street Garage
• 6. Sister Cities Garage
• 7. South Avenue Garage
• 8. Washington Square Garage

#2 has some great nightlife within walking. And is free when the bars are hopping.
#4 some nightlife, near high falls. good place to see the fireworks after a ball game not sure when free
#7 near hotels but some have there own ramp. near Dinosaur but #1 is closer. #7 use to be good to see downtown fireworks from top floor. then one landed there and they close it now for the fireworks. Roof use to also used as a lovers lane. ya cam's now duh
#3 smells like the Genesee River. Duh most of below water level.
#6 near city hall and Federal Court
the one for hockey games county, city, state court not shown

#5 some nightlife, safer to park on street or pay lot. For a short time near by bar thinking of having , a Speak Easy bar hidden in a bar deal. But so for nope. To many other problem makes it a no go.
#8 near strong toy, and the gay bars on monroe duh useless unless ya work nearby

me think you would love #2 the most. East ave bars Alexander bars. Monroe bars far but walkable. If staying over night there is a hotel on East & Alexander with parking.

[The Drummer]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

we do have some of the same
Friends in Low Places - Garth Brooks


at the same
Animals - House Of The Rising Sun

Now, that's funny!

[offshoredrilling]

yup, and as survivors we are to say

Guns N' Roses - Welcome To The Jungle


to the newbies of

[Tiger]

Originally Posted by ms_elizabeth

"A new analysis of men who pay for sexual activities suggests that their true goal is finding something a bit more complicated – true love – even if it’s from the sex worker."

http://lasvegas.cbslocal.com/2012/08...-for-true-love

Looks like there is a way for the sex worker to keep guys from falling in love with them.
15-biggest-beauty-turn-offs-real-guys


(ok, maybe it's just a bunch of whiny guys)

[offshoredrilling]

where the piranha and
Barracuda- Heart

roam

mmmm the title fits, not sure about the song. mmmmm ya from the other side of coin its a fit.

[JONBALLS]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XV4_VHY6QeY


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIAcaGNdCyA


:mf_lustslo w:

:in _love::hi tit::footinm outh:

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XV4_VHY6QeY

Kenny Chesney - I Always Get Lucky With You


I like it, but I wish it was always true. ya club closed made a call went over. looked over a dead laptop. Hard drive. was thinking take HD out of the one that should be dead. but newer one still has a warranty. after some other things around and about the house. Almost time for my time and one of you out there got lucky.
its fun to be me. but ya better off not being me. just sayin

edit: plus she hates country music. mmm will try and sing that when try tonight. My time to get me out of the house LOL know when to fold them.