Nic,
I thought I would be the last person to be dominant because in RL, I love a masculine, dominant guy who can take charge. As Heidilynn, I am sweet, accomodating, and totally GFE. That's how I roll, so I couldn't see myself being a dom.
I had a client who really wanted to be dominated and after I was comfortable with him I tried it. All I can say is WOW. Once I gained the confidence with him, I really started to get it. I am not into verbal humiliation because, like you, I am too soft-hearted. There are so many levels to domination.
There is a big demand for this type of play, btw. Another perk is that subs tend to be very loyal! I mean, come on, getting paid to have a guy worship you and do anything you want is a win win situation! Being such a tall lady, you would most likely do well.
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Originally Posted by Nicolet
I get asked all the time if I am a domme, I don't see it myself. I'm too soft hearted to be a domme, but I would like to learn! I could make my slave buy me the toys I need to torment him!
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