Overnights: like them or not?

[bigmiketwo]

I have done overnights with a couple of different ladies in Bangkok in the past. I am a very light sleeper so security wasn't a worry. Was nice to wake up next to them and hold each other, dress and go to breakfast, then come back and have a leisurely shower and sex in the morning. One young lady stayed with me until mid afternoon and we had a delightful time exploring and being together.

[thebbwqueen97]

Has to be with someone I've seen before and dont mind being around. Boundaries must be set beforehand.
The perfect overnight:
I come to your house/room. You cook a nice dinner (or we go out) and cuddle while watching a movie. Fun things happen until were both too exhausted to continue...falling asleep in each others arms.
Breakfast in bed & then a real breakfast

[Katy Shaw]

I think it all depends on the provider / client chemistry. I have done overnights, long vacations and etc . I enjoy them but I would not suggest such a long engagement till you have a strong base line connection with each other and both provider/client have full understanding of what lengthy appointments consist of.

[VENUSNOVA]

Overnights Are The Best...
��...theres more time to explore
Each other..��.
I've Had Several and have to be clear that not one was a negative experience. Some where with established clients & several with first time visiting out of state.

Never A Dull Moment..��

��Nicole

[abaddon]

Yes, I love over night dates. I've done a dozen or so with my current and one other previous SB so that the date matched the donation for her tuition payment that I made for her. It rarely works to have a credit with the girl to apply to several dates. In that case especially, as the entire amount went to the Graduate School.

I hate the clock. I want no rushing.

Usually for me the overnighter involves a nice dinner. Hot tub. Lingerie. Drinks. One round in the evening and then my baby hears me snore all night and we go again in the morning. These dates are epic. Not only memorable. UNFORGETTABLE!

Usually I give her a $200 to $300 weekly allowance and I get a BJ date and a FS date. When I hit the $400 plateau for the week, that triggers the overnight qualification. Which is a helluva deal.

[Warptcuck]

In the past, when younger, yes. It's fun to do it a couple times, get some good sleep then wake up and do it again, if she is GFE friendly.
But now that I am older, one pop and this old man is done for a few weeks.
I have had a lady come for an hour date, then stay overnight instead of going to a hotel, my offer, no threat of another boner any time soon. She was traveling from Ga. to Tx. We did our deed, we cleaned up and slept. Next morning I cooked her breakfast, smacked her on the ass and kissed her good bye. Great night, even though we only played for an hour. The talking and sleeping naked was comforting.

[69in2it69]

Just booked my first, with a first time lady. We seem to really hit it off via text so we both said "why not!".

[Thud736!]

Originally Posted by VENUSNOVA

Overnights Are The Best...
��...theres more time to explore
Each other..��.
I've Had Several and have to be clear that not one was a negative experience. Some where with established clients & several with first time visiting out of state.

Never A Dull Moment..��

��Nicole

Please come see me tonight. Email me brianf1978@yahoo.com

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by Goose7093

I’ve done overnights before, and I have enjoyed them. I realize that’s a long time for a lady to be on her game, so I usually have some downtime planned.

I have to know her some before considering. I personally think it is worth it, though I understand some question paying her to sleep.

What’s your thoughts? Done it, wouldn’t do it?

Ladies, is it difficult to be working that long? Do you like to sleep I. Your own bed? Would you do it with the right client?

I wouldn't have an aversion to spending the night with a provider, but I'd never pay for it. Has yet to happen.

[VENUSNOVA]

Oh I beg to differ Ed...
Already not my overnights😉😊😘🤗

I have had more overnights than I have Toes and fingers to count..😍😊.
All different of course, some included nut not limited to the following;
*Going out like retarded in love couples to Swingers bars, Dinner & Drinks,Concerts, Movies ( and not only to adult movie theaters ..although I insisted😁 one overnight in Florida was on the beach..even though he had a beachhouse..we where in a tent and too tipsy to walk back, another on a yacht...good freaking times..😍
the one that was maybe the one I will not want to do again was where he rented the "Submissive in a cage) I have entertained many DOMS and that cage was maybe the most uncomfy.)
I think If I have an Overnight again it will be the normal stuff, adult XXX fun & Actually getting to sleep on the bed..if we go to sleep😉&#128513
I truly enjoy having overnights with established clients & always up for a new adventure and making a new Sexy Friend in this lifestyle.

My last overnight was the most erotic and Sweetest😊..He prepared Veal (even though I cannot & will not eat babycow)& we cuddled and watched a Movie in between a lot of XXXFun😉😀.
I give a 👍to overnights and hope any of you both Providers & Hobbyist go for it after screening the hobbyist and researching the provider. A first date for an hour might help , but its really not the most important thing when deciding.
Trust me..lol I have met several Gentlemen the first night I was spending the night with them as a provider and had a Blast!!!

😘🤗Go for it..😈YOLO?
😀😂😅

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

Done it a few times.
Only with gals that I've been dating for a while and have had several multi-hour dates with.
Only works if both are up for actually sleeping together thing though, as both need to accept that they will need to let their shields at least partially down, as there is no way for folks to be on their game for that long. Which gets back to having previously dated at least few times.

Sleeping with a woman, and hanging out during personal time, will eventually wind up with the personal shield going down all the way. That is the difference between paying a lady to leave, and starting to cross over into a relationship. Do you now have a friend, who is also a woman, or just a fuck buddy?

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Pangolier

I wouldn't have an aversion to spending the night with a provider, but I'd never pay for it. Has yet to happen.

Is that like "I wouldn't be adverse to having a four course meal with wine at a Michelin 3-star restaurant but I wouldn't pay for it"?

[VeronicaTurbay]

I like overnights with clients I meet before and I feel comfortable with.

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Is that like "I wouldn't be adverse to having a four course meal with wine at a Michelin 3-star restaurant but I wouldn't pay for it"?

In life, I try my best to spend money on things that I find to be worthwhile. That being said, if a provider asked me to stay over, what possible reason would I have to say no? Because I have an obligation bright and early the next morning? Or because that's not the kind of thing I'd ever pay for?


Thus I would never approach a provider and ask for an overnight in exchange for compensation. If I ever have a provider offer it to me complimentary then I may choose to discuss the experience on this forum, though the identity of the woman would remain classified. In this particular case money has proven itself more valuable than time, because I can always choose to do something else while I'm awake or sleep by myself for free. I don't claim to represent other men, but personally I choose not to pay for "dates."

[Old-T]

You have every right to fell that way, and it doesn'tmake you a bad person in any way.

But I think the comparison still holds.