Have the rules changed? TCB, a pet peeve

[BBW Katrina]

Originally Posted by eyefo

This is very true... I actually end up seeing very few of the girls I consider, and this is after a good deal of research. This is a pretty chaotic environment and its up to the hobbyist to provide their own sense of order.

This means for me that nearly 100% of BP and a high percentage of Eccie don't interest me.
P411 is not immune either... but TCB is much more valued there and is in fact a requirement.

For me, quality is more important.... much more important... than quantity.

But that's just me.

Oh and if you you don't think a lot of Eccie or P411 girls advertise on BP...you're straight trippin boo. It always makes me laugh when guys talk shit about one site and act like Eccie girls are GOLD. Um ok. Eccie has some of the most scandalous, scallywagging, trifiling ho's there is to offer.

[jdkees]

Originally Posted by FunInDFW

My personal preference is that if I have PMd a provider, and she doesn't responsd, I no longer have any interest in her whatsoever. Though, I also don't respond to every provider that has sent me a PM (for my own reasons, which are no more or less valid than theirs when they don't reply).

......

But please, I love all the butthurt. It's already got me at half mast. Just a bit more indignant stoicism but with that saucy undercurrent of emotional instability. Tell me you're typing your responses while wearing a fedora and you've finished me.

[bojulay]

Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

If you have P411....
She more than likely needs you to send her the request through
P-411. It irritates me when a guy just sends me a email, saying Im so and so and here's my P411.

What she said.^^^^^^^

The reliable girls check their P411 messages every day or every couple of days
or so unless they are taking a break or traveling, a lot more girls travel now
and there is the calendar feature on P411 that you can check for their
availability in your area. If they are over in Houston or another state they
maybe wont bother to respond to a Dallas pm on eccie

If a provider that's available doesn't respond on P411 then why bother, go to some other provider.
If you have legitimate questions about her service or some other aspect that is legitimate,
you should have few problems with getting responses and information.

If I don't get a response to legitimate questions about seeing her that I might have
then I use that as a screening tool myself.

Some guys just want to flirt around or don't get to the point, and the girls view them as
someone that is not serious and probably just a time waster.

Those guys need to go on over to some dating site.

[eyefo]

Her comment specifically says email. Nothing about pm's. If you saw us on Eccie, send us a PM through Eccie. Not email

Allow me to help you with this.
Lindsay Lee's Eccie contact information page indicates to send her a Private Message... not an email.

Her profile page also has a link that reads: Contact Me Via Private Message, and when you click it, it brings up the Eccie PM box.

Lower, her profile indicates specials on P411, but she wishes to be contacted via Eccie... unless this is one of those "rules" that means something other than what it states.

Why in the world would a gentleman pay for P411 and not utilize it???

I use it every chance I get, and its my basic tool.... unfortunately, not every provider has an account. This is the real mystery... don't know what it costs on the provider side, but seems it would be WELL worth the money.

Oh and if you you don't think a lot of Eccie or P411 girls advertise on BP...you're straight trippin boo.

Boo? Would that be Boo as in Boo Radley?

Eccie has some of the most scandalous, scallywagging, trifiling ho's there is to offer.

Are you referring to yourself?
If so, you've saved me from some unnecessary research.

[BBW Katrina]

Boo? Would that be Boo as in Boo Radley? Eugene Levy

[eyefo]

As usual, its always real on the Eccie boards.

I've received a few legitimate comments trying to help and I thank you for your contributions.

But several posters evidenced insufficient reading comprehension to answer what I'd asked.

Several lead with their egos and commenced with tiresome pontification, presumably to show off or exert status in the food chain. (sigh)

Among these were the gaggle of WKs, assholes, small brains, and a general cluster fuck of people who seem to think they've reached Jedi Mastership of Planet Ho and their dicks are Light Sabres.

LOL

It reminds me of why I mostly choose to lurk, read and pay attention.

Thanks again.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

. Um ok. Eccie has some of the most scandalous, scallywagging, trifiling ho's there is to offer.

Preach.. anyone with a freaking email can sign up. All the other stuff is equally as busy to get. The quality lies in the girl, not in the site you got her from, be it BP or wherever.

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by eyefo

Topic: No response from providers.

Typically, I send a provider a short but informative PM about myself as an introduction, also stating she can verify me via P411, telling her I'd love to see her, etc.

All too often lately, I'm getting NO response... I mean NOTHING.

I'm patient... realize providers have more to do than hover over their devices waiting for my PM... but after 24 hours, it would seem a polite, to the point reply is in order.

Have the rules changed?

Let me be clear: I'm not writing a porno short story trying to engage in a fantasy text relationship, I'm not sending explicit inappropriate comments, I'm not stalking the lady.

I'm talking about a: "Hi... want to introduce myself and love to meet with you", "here's how you can verify me", "hope to hear from you soon".... type of thing.

I am NOT going to name names, but this is a real turn off to a potential client, IMO... at least to me.

On the other side, the very BEST times I've had with women has been with those who were professional.... i.e. replied to my inquiry, answered any questions, show interest, etc., and maintained this through the entire transaction up to and including BCD.

Price of service did NOT necessarily have any bearing on this professionalism.

Any thoughts on this, ladies? If I'm doing something wrong, I'll be happy to change... but its beyond me at this point.

I --like many clients-- spend a LOT of time doing research, and by the time I contact someone, it is actually near the end point of the decision making process.

To me, this is a business: not dating, not fantasy, but a professional service for a fee which SHOULD include a bit of IOP and excellence of product on the part of the provider.

I hate to move on after the research and the non-response from the provider, but I will and do.

This is compounded by the fact that I'm in Fort Worth, and simply cannot be driving to Dallas for a number of reasons, so FW and sometimes HEB and Arlington are about my geographical limit, which DOES cut down on provider options.

Love to hear any comments or suggestions on what I should change.

'm just a guy. Your manner pissed me off. Just a thought.

[Laura Lynn]

When doing reference checks, I always look to see when a provider last logged in. If its been a week or longer, I try to email her instead of sending a PM. Maybe the lady just doesn't get on the board much.

Unfortunately, lack of professionalism and laziness seems to be a very common.

[ithyphallicus]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Unfortunately, lack of professionalism and laziness seems to be a very common.

I think this sums it up nicely. Every guy on this site has experienced your problem. Best to move on and find a provider worth your time.

[Guest041816-1]

First thing to look at is when was the last time she logged on. If it's been weeks probably best not to send her a appointme request. If i"m unavailable for weeks and sometimes months I would pause my account that way no way can contact me and I woulnt defilently dont want to waste anyone's time. They can move on to the next..

[pairofhearts33]

Glad I am not the only one. Bojulay makes some points I would say the same as how I feel on this.
Some gals don't log in every day on 411 but who knows on why no response. Maybe they didn't like the way I asked a question or asked too many. As Bojulay said maybe percieved a time waster, but I guess a guy that likes to book multiple hours is a waste of time ha. Who knows. Likewise vice versa it serves as an easy screening tool on them too because I think of some of them the same way if they can't handle the tcb side, no matter how good these reviews say they are. For me, hit and miss. I know by the initial reply pm if I think I will "click" with enough to have a good time or just simply move on bc of a ymmv feeling from their reply pm if any reply at all. I can read into a lot of things by initial reply pm to any questions you have and quickly screen. I will say this and stick to it from prior experiences which I wished I never experienced or eh this wasn't that great, any lack of tcb, or can't answer straightforward questions, ymmv (reviews differ from what she says by pm on activities) simply move on. For the gals that I click with and have A game, I keep on seeing them repeatedly. They deserve that and see the ones that are on top of their tcb and bcd. The reviews when I had ros access baffle me is they give some gals the benefit of the doubt that their experience would be any different? They proceed on and find out their experience was the same as other experiences which was not good or average. I feel you and glad to know it isn't just me experiencing this too. Like I said on prior experiences, in retrospect I wished I didn't go thru bc I had more for the gals that really deserve it.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Oh and if you you don't think a lot of Eccie or P411 girls advertise on BP...you're straight trippin boo. It always makes me laugh when guys talk shit about one site and act like Eccie girls are GOLD. Um ok. Eccie has some of the most scandalous, scallywagging, trifiling ho's there is to offer.

I totally agree.

Providers tend to use ALL avenues of advertisement at their disposal as well they should for the exposure factor if nothing else. However, just because they are an Eccie VP or in one case, even a P411 member (check out my 50th review, http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1345363 ), it means very little if anything, to the quality of time and service a provider gives. All in all, most providers are at the very least decent (TCB and BCD), regardless of where they advertise, as it has absolutely no bearing on her skills and how she will treat a hobbyist. I have had a few of my worse BCD sessions and overall experiences ever with Eccie Verified Providers. Laura Lynn's last sentence is post #39 is the absolute truth, whereas all too often, the BS drama, lies, ect. are just as bad, if not worse than anyone else, then the sad part about it and kick in the balls for the guys is the fact that the Eccie girls will usually just charge you more for it!

[Hercules]

This is not a legitimate trade with any rules. We're johns, they're hookers. If they want/need my business they'll find a way. Myself, I've learned extreme patience keeps the blood pressure down. Never consider the appointment "confirmed" until the undies are on the floor and her ankles are in the air.

[eyefo]

This is not a legitimate trade with any rules. We're johns, they're hookers. If they want/need my business they'll find a way. Myself, I've learned extreme patience keeps the blood pressure down. Never consider the appointment "confirmed" until the undies are on the floor and her ankles are in the air.

LOL... then its like a real estate deal!.... ain't over till you've signed the papers at closing and the Title Co has handed you the check.

Got it!