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Originally Posted by Lil'Whiskey
I have two answers.
When it is a purely physical and lustful attraction, such as a one night stand, then doggy is preferred. The physical pleasure and view relieves all the lust inside of us and brings an explosive satisfaction.
But when an emotional and loving aspect also exists between us then a side by side facing each other position is the most intimate. This way we can look into each other's eyes, kiss/nibble gently or deeply along the lips, ears, neck, eyes, breasts and whisper to each other. This position also allows us to use our legs and arms to embrace each other and pull ourseleves deeper within. Our hands are free to explore and caress each other. After orgasm we tend to lie together and continue kissing and talking. All in all a much closer experience.
A few escorts and I started in the first category but now have settled into the second catergory. There is no illusion of being or becoming a couple just the respect and trust that can exist between two people that care for each other.
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I completely agree with you regarding the positions.
Doggy is fun for the occasional rendezvous. The ones where you know the entire appointment is just about the sex.
Anytime the appointment is with a more frequent and trusted provider, I prefer any position where the provider and I have eye contact.
However, where I disagree is with the statement "There is no illusion of being or becoming a couple just the respect and trust that can exist between two people that care for each other."
Isn't the purpose of finding a GFE for that very reason? The illusion that, for the brief time you're together, you are a couple and you care for one another. It's hard not to care for the providers you see on a more frequent basis. But, the illusion that they also care for you, that's what brings the whole experience to another level.