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Guest010619 · 11-07-2013, 12:07 PM

Tracy,
I can say it's not just men but women too. Years ago I thought my life was going to be with one person and she upped and left.
Same thing happened to another buddy who had everything a girl might want. 2 college degrees from A&M, officer military ranking. Made more money and was decent, levelheaded fun loving. She upped and left to Mary an electrical apprentice from Monterrey.
But maturity is a big key factor. Hang in there.

Maxx · 11-07-2013, 12:59 PM

Obviously, this was a relationship that wasn't meant to be. As they say ... there's a lot of fish in the sea. The right person will come along things will just click on both sides, not just one as in this relationship. Enjoy the fishing while you can, eat a little, throw back some, and eventually that keeper wil find your line!

Wow, no appts for a couple days and REALLY horny, best time to make some time, Wish I wasn't busy and my hobby funds were full.

Guest010619 · 11-07-2013, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxx

As they say ... there's a lot of fish in the sea. The right person will come along things will just click on both sides, not just one as in this relationship. Enjoy the fishing while you can, eat a little, throw back some, and eventually that keeper wil find your line!
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Become a Mermaid and you increase your chances.

A.M.Would · 11-07-2013, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

I'm wondering who it will be too!! No appts yesterday or today it seems

Might have to call over someone else.... cuz I sure am horny!!

Happened to me a couple of weeks ago and it still hurts, but you sound like a very strong/surviving type of woman. If I had one more ref., I would be contacting you already. Guess I better get that done sooner than later.

Have a virtual drink on me for now and I will be sure to bring a real one when we meet.

Candi Staxx · 11-07-2013, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ugotme10

Become a Mermaid and you increase your chances.

colt · 11-07-2013, 05:08 PM

Tracy I say he messed up big time! But seriously a text? I guess it could have been less personal like a twitter or a facebook, but shit man the "F" up if you are going to dump a girl..

If he really cared about you he would have done it face to face eye to eye, like a real man.

mayorcastro · 11-07-2013, 05:23 PM

Breaking up via text is bullshit. At the VERY LEAST make a freaking phone call. That should tell you something about that guy.

bearf15amc · 11-07-2013, 05:43 PM

Maturity, intelligence and grace are the things he was/is lacking and the these are the traits you embody. On a separate note... with the increase of texting, email, PMs, and even phone calls people have lost the ability to communicate effectively. You deserved the face to face discussion.

Next time you feel this way...let me know! I'll let you abuse me and be happy about it!

You are very special...

Bear

guy fawkes · 11-07-2013, 06:10 PM

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This is a little personal but I feel the urge to write...

GF: No problem

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I had been seeing someone for the past few months but they didn't live here. They visited about once a month and things were cool until we actually hung out. Then something changed...

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First it went from, "I really like you and it kind of scares me" to a text this morning, "I'm sorry I wasted your time, you're an amazing woman, I'm just not ready"

GF: It could be so many possible things:
He found out about your hobby and did not want to discuss that as the real cause
He found someone near him and that second relationship may have become serious
There are so many reason you will possibly never know why.

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UGH!!!!!! And I actually liked this guy and put off other potentials for him. I just don't understand. He obviously doesn't know about the hobby, but from his perspective of me... I have my own place, my own car, I take care of my body, I'm funny and cool to hang around with, what more does a man want?!?!

GF:-I have to say I and I am sure many men on this site have the above also good jobs, car apt. or home. But we can't find anyone. We try in the world and either have less time to go out and do a "meet and greet". Be set up by friends. And not real into OKCUPID. So as all we leave things to chance.
I would not say it was age I do not know you or your mate. I would say that all things take time. You should not change or doubt yourself. We all fail in love and relationships.
I say take time let things come to you enjoy your life, friends and family. Never settle because no one should. I am sure you will be approached again.

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Oh well. I was extra peeved this morning but now I just feel more amped, like I can take on whatever and can't wait to show him what he's missed out on.

GF: I don't think the the "I will show you" is the best approach. You will move on and should. So move on and let the past be the past.

GF:-There are many men here and I am sure that you can possibly gain a friend or two via the Movie request forum. Or having a lunch to meet a new freind.
Most important live life

Guest101314 · 11-07-2013, 07:51 PM

Thank you everyone for the kind words! I'm just at a loss because I got blocked on facebook... he took me off other apps too, but liked a picture of myself on my instagram just 20 mins ago..

I want to say "Boy, what the hell is wrong with you????? "

I wouldn't show him anything, but we have lots of mutual friends so he would find out eventually.

I still didn't get laid today... guess I had two days off! Maybe tomorrow someone will cum fuck the shit outta me and make me forget why I was tripping over this guy... a girl can only hope!!

Kisses to everyone!

and ugotme10 ... maybe... worth a shot.

(he offered to teach me how to swim with a monofin... just like a mermaid )

pickupkid · 11-07-2013, 09:01 PM

Tracy , the guy is jerk...maybe the kids scared him away...lot of guys don"t want an instant family.don't worry you'lll find someone who likes you for what you are.PS I had a great time see you soon.

Guest110314 · 11-07-2013, 09:52 PM

I would love for you to take your aggression out on me Tracy! XO until we OD!

pickupkid · 11-08-2013, 12:19 AM

young love

http://now.msn.com/note-asking-for-g...n-reddit-photo

sms918 · 11-08-2013, 12:53 AM

I'm sorry tracy, I'm sad for you. It's his loss, your a special person and you'll find someone who can realize that.

Guest010619 · 11-08-2013, 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

Thank you everyone for the kind words! I'm just at a loss because I got blocked on facebook... he took me off other apps too, but liked a picture of myself on my instagram just 20 mins ago..

and ugotme10 ... maybe... worth a shot.

(he offered to teach me how to swim with a monofin... just like a mermaid )

In the old days (late1800's - post WW I) most relationships were ended by a letter (telegrams also). Nowadays being 'unfriended' or finding your partner has changed their status to 'single' has become the norm.
Let me know about the fin thing.