How long is too long?

[Guest040215]

Originally Posted by GneissGuy

Maybe give it a few minutes, but until she contacts you back and makes a firm commitment to a specific time, the business is still up for grabs.

All the more reason for a lady to answer phone calls right away, or at least respond to messages quickly.

They're providing a service for money. Until they make a commitment, why the hell would you feel a commitment to give them your business?

I can respect that attitude, but I'm usually so specific and limited as to my availability that I try to be understanding. I'm the type that likes to see someone repeatedly, and I don't want to upset anyone. That said, a GFE experience BCD loses credibility when you feel like someone doesn't respect your time and effort.

[GneissGuy]

Originally Posted by Jimfightsfire

I can respect that attitude, but I'm usually so specific and limited as to my availability that I try to be understanding. I'm the type that likes to see someone repeatedly, and I don't want to upset anyone. That said, a GFE experience BCD loses credibility when you feel like someone doesn't respect your time and effort.

No need to be emotional. If you call a lady, she takes her time to call you back, and you've found someone else, what has she lost? Just the time to check her messages and respond. No big loss to her if she wastes that much effort looking for a $100 plus appointment.

If she gets pissed off because she wasted 1 minute of her time responding to her, you're better off not seeing her. If you start seeing her, she'll go psycho over something else later.

Don't forget that a lot of ladies never bother to return calls anyway, wasting a lot of your time.