THE FOLLOWING ARE THE BASIC "DO'S & DON'T DO'S" OF GANG BANG ETIQUETTE.
NO ALWAYS MEANS NO! - Everyone has the right of refusal, so you don't have to have sex with a person unless you want to, and they don't have to have sex with you. Be honest with your feelings and desires, and expect others to do the same. Only ask those you want to say "yes." If they say "No," take it graciously and don't try to coax, pressure or persuade them to change their mind. When you say "Yes" to others, be honest and enthusiastic. When you say "No," be tactful and courteous. But don't say "Maybe later" when you really mean "NO." Tell the hosts if another guest causes a problem, won't take no for an answer, or is objectionable in any real way. They sincerely want to know so that they can correct the situation before it becomes a problem. Keeping problems and bad feelings to yourself only contributes tension to the situation.
BE COURTEOUS - Don't disturb the enjoyment of others in the Gang Bang area with loud or prolonged talk. Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. We all want to be treated with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding, sensitivity and courtesy. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden Rule.
GO PREPARED - Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or a robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms (if you are allergic to latex), etc. Make sure you bring towels and a wash cloth to shower and clean-up with. Keep money, jewelry and other valuables to a minimum.
HYGIENE & GROOMING - Cleanliness and good grooming is essential for Gang Bang participants. Be aware of your body and take care of it. Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Be especially aware of any body odor you may develop due to the physical nature of these activities. Even a kiss can be a turnoff if delivered with a breath heavy with the taste of cigarettes or liquor. Breath mints or gum are very helpful. We ask the men (that do not have beards or moustaches) to be freshly shaven. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at the party. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO. Men should trim and file their fingernails because a great way to get turned away is trying to turn your lady on by rubbing her pussy with long nails or a hangnail.
RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS - Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that people around you are relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous.
HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO - One of the basic etiquettes is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The gang bang world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
ALCOHOL - You will find that most gang bangers do not use alcohol, although some drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Only drink what you bring. Never help yourself to what others have brought without their permission.
[staff edit by jymie: prohibited subject], are not allowed. Gang Banging is it's own pleasure, don't dilute it and don't subject yourself and others to legal problems. Going in and out of the party to your car will not be allowed.
PRACTICE SAFER SEX - It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, HIV, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.
SCHEDULE - It isn't fashionable to arrive late or leave early. The doors open at 7:00 pm and close at 7:15 pm. You won't be let in after that time.
CANCELLATIONS:
If you cannot attend for any reason PLEASE let us know. Once you register, you will have our phone number in your confirmation letter, please call us ASAP. There are no refunds but being courteous will keep you on our Invitation List for future parties. We really frown upon no-shows.
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