There's a simple way to avoid getting caught for "crimes against nature." You ladies should be smart enough to understand that no hobbyist outright asks if he's going to get a bj, until every stitch of clothing is off... and even then if you're still uncomfortable, the simple answer to that question is, "Let's not ruin the mood with talking about what we're going to do," or leave. If you're busted, they've only got you on solicitation.
The law is misleading. When they were pushing this through, I believe I only heard that they were changing that "crimes against nature" to a misdemeanor, which was comforting to hear. But, only on first offense?
I agree that the real kicker is registering as a sex offender on second offense.
For the record I feel strongly that "crimes against nature" has always been an anti-gay law, so I was opposed to it long before this became my lifestyle choice.
I don't see very many guys, so I'm not overly concerned. But, I will be tightening up my screening for the New Orleans area. Sorry, y'all. Discretion is important to me, so just be prepared for that uncomfortable idea. Plus, I want a real job some day.