Dressing up for sessions? Is it that much hassle?

[dilbert firestorm]

most of dates I had were casual at the door. a few wore lingerie at the door. Even rarer, at least 2 were nude at the door. That was a pleasant surprise.

[Outdoorsman]

I agree with you LFG, I like a woman to dress up for me. I have requested certain outfits, usually what I have seen in their pictures. Most of the time the ladies wear what I request, sometimes they do not and it is disappointing, but not so disappointing that the session is ruined. I really enjoy undressing each other at times and I have requested that as well.

I have found that when I am seeing a lady for the first time, there is effort in dressing up, hair done, etc. and some ladies did take me for granted and the effort faded in repeat sessions. Disappointing, absolutely, so I book less frequently or not at all. The way I see it, is if that is what I want and she is no longer willing to give that to me, she does not really want my business or company and that's fine.

As far as types of outfits, I like them all. fishnet is sexy, heels, garters, teddies, g-strings. I simply adore removing a ladies g-string panties as she sits back on the bed and looks back at me with that sexy glance and her head tilted slightly to the side, as her hair droops over her shoulder and the smile says to me "Outdoorsman - take me!" and she lifts her legs in the air. Oh Yea that's nice, great view and she is posed just right for my dining pleasure!! Alright I am gonna have to make a call now that I am getting all worked up, lol.

[manofthebayou]

I have in my p411 profile what I like to see. If a woman shows up accordingly, that means she took the time to read the profile and cared enough to please.

She gets extra in the envelope if she does that.

[pornodave69]

Never had that problem with incalls. Ladies doing outcalls to my hotel or house have been dressed appropriately and changed into something sexy before starting the fun. Incalls have always been greeted by either the whole garter/stockings/heels/bra or corset/thong set, other forms of sexy and revealing lingerie or fresh out the shower in a towel.

Maybe it's just the girls you pick?

[badhusband]

Originally Posted by Lakefrontguy

I have a question I have always wanted to ask but never seem to got around to putting on the board until tonight.

I love when a provider dresses up for the session. In particular I love stockings, heels, the sexy outfit with match bra/panties etc. However, I find that when you arrive at a session with a provider a lot of times they are not dressed up. Sometimes when you request certain items, especially stockings, they moan and groan about putting them on. Or even worse, you show up, and they are casual and advise you to wait while they get dressed - to me the waiting and seeing the provider in a casual outfit ruins the moment for me. I am looking forward to seeing the pretty package - not to arrive and be told to wait, and then grunting about dressing up etc. I hate to show up and see a girl in jeans, tshirt and flip flops....or even worse with a bad manicure or pedicure - I usually just leave when i see this because it does ruin the deal for me as well.

Anyone else have this happen - my fellow dawgs? Providers I would love to hear your thoughts on this - I mean even if a guy does not request certain outfits etc. do you dress up anyway? I mean what guy does not like sexy outfits and heels?


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LFG

If I'm coming to see a gal, it is nice if they are dressed sexy for the occasion, heels/hose or maybe daisy dukes, short skirt etc. I do see one gal who has a pair of thigh high black stilettos that get me going just looking at her and as soon as we are finished, she takes them off. I guess they are too hot to wear comfortably? But she never complains about wearing them for me. It also looks awesome in the pictures for her husband to see. I've had a few outright lie to me and say "yeah I have that baby" or "you'll like what I have" to only be a bit dissapointed because they aren't wearing what they said. It's not a show stopper for me because the ultimate package is her, but I just won't call them again for lieing to me. If they are coming to see me at my hotel, then I completely understand discretion and had most will bring something and change after they arrive.

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[Nina Rae]

I really don't see why one would complain...to me, the dress up is the fun part! I love leaving my office, and heading home to prepare for my dates. Its an ongoing ritual for me. After the shower and meticulous shave, a little hair and makeup, I like to put on something sexy, both for me and for him. I slide my dress over them and toss a corset or bustier into my goodie bag for later. Who doesn't get hot over a corset. Hell, I know I do.

I like to arrive at the out call dressed so that I look like a head turner without going over board. Once I'm inside and doing the "getting to know you bit", I like knowing that a gentleman is watching me, looking at everything, and probably wondering what's underneath. If I'm doing an in call (I use hotels most times), I answer the door wearing either my silk robe and satiny/lacy bra and panties, or my favorite baby doll. I want to see the initial reaction...and I want it to be different than what you'd get if you were just any woman on the street. For me, jeans are not an option unless requested. I much prefer a cute little (easy access) dress and my favorite heels. Occasionally, my cowboy boots will come out...and then you know you're in for a ride!

[DallasRain]

ditto with what Nina said==dressing sexy is so much fun!!! Sometimes I like wearing a skimpy dress and no panties..that way the guy can just "rip my dress off" and have his way with me..lol!!

I get requests alot to dress how I am in a certain pic..thats cool too!

[London Rayne]

As someone who only does incalls for anything less than 3 hours, putting on lingerie is about the easiest and most normal request out there. I would much rather be sitting in a big house in my panties and heels than having to get my SUV out, drive downtown, pay to park, find the room with a bag on my shoulder, take an extra 10 min. to change into what he wants, and wow finally it's time to have fun. I would be too annoyed to even do anything after all that lol.

What IS annoying is when you are visiting another state and the guy who booked you 2 weeks before waits til you get there to say, "Oh London by the way can you wear that cheerleading outfit?" Yea honey I always travel with 8 bags when I fly lol. Just ask before hand, and it should not be an issue.

[Jacquie]

I am a total fashionista, so the few times I've been asked to wear jean and flats, I was uncomfortable. I feel under-dressed if I don't wear stockings. I always figured these were apart of the "hooker uniform." It may be hot outside, but I just wait to put them on until they need to be put on. Plus, the AC in my car is incredible. If worse comes to worse, an ice-breaking shower is not the worst thing that could ever happen.

There's always a man who is pleasantly surprised at how stylish I am without drawing too much attention. It's fun. And, I love it.

[Rebecca Love]

I'm glad I happened upon this thread to get some ideas of how you girls dress for outcalls. Being new, I usually only do incalls but have been getting requests for outcalls to business men travelling in the area. Lots of great ideas! I personally love to dress with the whole garter, stockings, corset, get-up with panties that can be easily removed in case things heat up quickly. Yumm...Great thread. Thanks!

[_Honey_]

Getting dressed up is part of the fun and play. Your supposed to look and feel sexy. I wouldn't suggest jeans and a T unless specified, but even with that you can still look sexy without having the "spotlight" on you if you are trying to be discreet in public. You just have to no how to "work it"

[will_61]

I had one provider dress in a school girl outfit with pigtails, it was hot and resulted in a spanking for her lack of underwear, the rest is history, a sweet one at that..

[DallasRain]

wooohooo mmmmmmmm will baby, i bet you spanked her good{lol}!!!

[will_61]

Guess who taught me

[DallasRain]