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Originally Posted by badams69
Waiting for that experience that makes it all feel good instead of wrong or scary
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I have never been cuckolded in real life, but I have watched a ton of videos and read about the experiences of real life couples. I imagine the most important factor is finding the right partners so that it never feels "wrong". The cuckold, the hotwife, and the bull, should all be clear about what they are expecting and what the boundaries are before anything happens. There should probably also be a lot of discussion privately between the husband and wife about their indiviual comfort levels.
I too find this whole concept fascinating, but yes, also a bit scary. Cuckolding is probably a very edgy activity, even for people who have experience with BDSM. For the cuckold, it's about knowing and accepting your place in the hierarchy, making peace with the fact that another guy may be able to please your SO better than you can, but hopefully with the comforting knowledge that your SO still loves you at the end of the day. Forgetting about the bi element for a second, cuckolding is about facing the truth that you're not the world's greatest lover, but that's okay, and furthermore, there's NEW ways to have fun that are opened up to if you can just deal with that fact. You have to be okay with who you are, and be able to put those marriage vows aside temporarily so that you can have some intense experiences. And then if you add in the bi element (where the cuck is pleasing the dominant bull, or fluffing/cleaning up, or even being taken by the bull) plus some humiliation, then the excitement level just goes through the roof... at least for me personally.
Of course, there is also the BDSM cuckolding side of things, which can be done without any "husband-wife" element and just a cuck and his mistress playing up the sissy aspect or the feet worship aspect, etcetc.