Well, before the close...
Men and women tend to handle conflict in different ways.
Men, we tend to thrust the chest out, face things head on and hash things out. The older and wiser tend to pick our battles and only fight about those things we feel truly important. When we do fight, it's either based on strength or facts and logic.
Women, tend to seek out allies and look for emotional support. They tend to validate by making a big splash and seeing who is on their side and who isn't.
Us men, we aren't big fans of the whole blow-up thing and so seeing this sort of reaction tends to turn us off. We go look for our man-cave to hide in and enjoy a nice violent sport and indulge in adult beverages.
As some of the other ladies have learned, taking this sort of thing public rarely results in a positive outcome. Be aware of how you handle conflict and maybe learn something from how other people handle things.
While it is entertaining at times, there is entirely too much drama most times in the hobby. More fun, less drama is the key to happy clients, making good money and living a more fun and less stressful life.
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Originally Posted by leilover
Thanks so much for feeback from everyones.
Anyone that i have offended i humbly apologize..
I did not post all of the text messages or converstions it.
But, it was very disturbing and made me upset.
It will still not an excuse to post but, I hope you relate lesson learned my part
And Wellendowed I apologize, but please not to harass me again. Thanks.
Mods please close this thread.
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