What would it take to quit?

[Allie_Kat]

But then again, maybe I'd be paying YOU.

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by JS42

Ari, I have never met you, but I like your style. Enjoy reading your posts as it shows you are a smart lady with a good head on your shoulders. I can totally see your point. You enjoy your independence, and yes, the money may be sweet, but the many strings attached to it would make you miserable. Some guys may disagree, but not all women (even in this profession) would find 100k a year an ideal situation. Sounds like you have experienced a situation like this, and found out it wasn't suited for you. You are making your own way in life, and being true to yourself. I respect that.

"I may not have the funds to show you how much I care, but I'd be glad to explain and bond further with you by doing yardwork or basic auto maintenance!

Love,
JS42"

Best,
Noah

[sovanna]

Quit? Now why would I do that? Lol. J/k. I love my independency.

[JS42]

Awwwwww, shucks, how sweet. I'm one of Noahs' targets now.


Best,
JS

[chuckinolathe]

Originally Posted by Ari816

Can't buy me out of he hobby! There may be a magic formula that included financial freedom, but I would have to connect on multiple facets.

I participate in the hobby because I love it! I like my independence and the lifestyle. I like having lots of boyfriends and attention. I also don't believe in gold digging or faking feelings for financial gain.

The hobby is supposed to be an honest arrangement where everyone knows what the expectations are and it is drama free. I consider hobbying to be more honest than most relationships and have no moral quandaries.

Best post of month award winner

[Guest030817]

Originally Posted by JS42

Awwwwww, shucks, how sweet. I'm one of Noahs' targets now.


Best,
JS

Join the club!

[ElumEno]

It could be worse... you could be accused of being him.
but his is just one of the many handles that I must have created while I was gone.

Best,
EE

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by JS42

Awwwwww, shucks, how sweet. I'm one of Noahs' targets now.


Best,
JS

Not really. Just pointing out to others that the road from, "Pvt. Save-a-Ho" to "Capt. Save-a-Ho" is paved with self-deprecating smarminess.

Thanks for serving as a prime example.

Best,
Noah

[JS42]

Troll effort 2/10..

[PleasantSurprise]

Originally Posted by Herm

What would it take for any of you ladies to quit? I mean, hypothetically, if I offered you $100K a year would you quit and be my girlfriend? More? Not about the money so no chance? Just curious...

Quitting doesn't have to be forever. Provider quits servicing multiple friends and only services one friend, exclusive arrangement is agreed upon, I see no harm as long as the terms are agreed upon so neither party feels cheated.

A flat monthly rate sounds like it is asking for trouble, I would not accept a monthly fee to be at someones every unlimited beck and call. I would be your exclusive girlfriend if we came to a financial agreement and a fixed number of visits per week or per month.

Bills $ + Saving $ + Spending $ = Enough money for me to be your girlfriend.

Nevertheless, if a lower financial arrangement happened to get brought up in discussion after initial terms have been agreed, it would cause me to reconsider my desire to remain exclusive, not necessarily decline, just reconsider.

Originally Posted by Ari816

The hobby is supposed to be an honest arrangement where everyone knows what the expectations are and it is drama free.

+1

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

I would be your exclusive girlfriend if we came to a financial agreement and a fixed number of visits per week or per month.

Shades of Ferris Bueller...

"It is so choice. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up."

I'm thinking you want to be like Ferris. Just a hint, but guys that have enough scratch to set up an exclusive deal don't post on this site.

Best,
Noah

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by JS42

Troll effort 2/10..

Proof of the Dunning-Kruger Effect on your part in four syllables or less!

That might be some kind of record...


Best,
Noah

[PleasantSurprise]

Originally Posted by NoahScape

Shades of Ferris Bueller...

"It is so choice. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up."

I'm thinking you want to be like Ferris. Just a hint, but guys that have enough scratch to set up an exclusive deal don't post on this site.

Best,
Noah

Thank you for the hint Noah, the various perspectives of those on this board make it educational and entertaining.

[blk07lac]

I'm thinking that some of the ladies here have been promised the world a million times already and wouldn't do it because they know in general we as men usually find a way to mess up a good thing... I think if someone offered an easy 75k with a vehicle, and a place to stay the average woman could come to some type of agreement. The problem is can she trust that the guy is going to honor his part because as soon as the guy wants something different he would probably ditch her. Sounds like a modern day marriage to me...

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

...........
A flat monthly rate sounds like it is asking for trouble....................

Bills $ + Saving $ + Spending $ = Enough money for me to be your girlfriend.

.............................. ........

Sounds like a wife. I always gave my wife her own money, and I did not ask how she spent it. The payments for the house, cars, etc. where another account.

Guys who want to watch every penny their wife spends, are asking for trouble. Even if she stays home with the kids and takes care of the house, she needs to know that she is not a slave to the guy. Having her own money, without being questioned, goes a long way to maintaining a long term relationship and trust. That is assuming that she knows how to handle money, and does't just throw it away at the boats; then you have a problem.

Be safe,

JR