What do you consider to be a true gfe provider?

[hotelal]

Good topic.. for me its about passion which means dfk,bbj, multi positions and msog if time permits.
now retired Maria of Houston was the definition of GFE also Martha of HLG is GFE in my own opinion.And of course its about being with that person. To me cim,and greek are not part of the gfe experience.. its just a bonus.

[tbone77494]

Pretty well agree with the rest. CIM isn't required for me but the couple I considered true gfe all did it - with a smile! Most important to me is really acting like you are into the activities. Bbbj is however clearly a requirement.

[Lea Madisson]

GFE is really all about attitude... You can add all the activities to the list you want, but if the right attitude and atmosphere is not there, then the experience is far from what one would expect from a girlfriend. GFE, to me, is what the guy expects from you... it is his experience. You can be a great gfe for him if what he really wants is nothing more than kisses and a BJ... if it is something he would love for a GF to do because he can't get it elsewhere... then he just had his GFE!

A provider who says she is GFE must be able to read the guy like a book and adjust what she does to accommodate his desires (within parameters and reason). If she does not enjoy the company of men, if she does not truly let herself go with the moment, then it is hard to come accross as a true GFE provider.

I know that I look for something good and enjoyable in each and every client. I concentrate on that and it helps me get into the moment! I really try to look at each client as a guy I want to impress, I want to make happy so that he will want to be with me. Isn't that what a girl does in the beginning? Don't we try to please and impress the guy in real life so that he will ask us out again and possibly fall in love and get married (real life, people... not hobby life!!). Then a girl finally catches the guy, gets married and as his wife, she now changes into another person (not onger likes BJs and CIM! LOL) and he wants to find a girlfriend again!! LOL

I have been doing this long enough that I do not have to act like I am really into it... I really DO get into it because I want to be your girlfriend (at least for the appointed time (-: )

Smooch!

Lea

[bbkid]

LFK, DFK, BBBJ. And, at least act like you're enjoying being with me.
Oh, and not laughing at my little pee-pee helps out alot too.

[romab]

Pica Flor You got it 100% on the head. It's the big ass smile and knowledge that you will see her again because it was such a great time on more than just the physical level.

[HoustonMatt]

Originally Posted by Pica Flor

TO ME a True GFE provider is the one that includes all of the above PLUS an affectionate attitude, that gives you the feeling (makes you BELIEVE) that she WANTS to be with you, WANTS to please you, that she WANTS you to please her, WANTS you to come back. How do I know it was a true GFE? when I walk away with a big smile, keep thinking back at the experience and trully WANT to go back to visit with her. There has been only a handfull of providers that I have seen in Houston that I consider true GFEs

+1.... hit the nail on the head. the elusive search for true GFE in a provider

[Beau Derierre]

Originally Posted by bbkid

LFK, DFK, BBBJ. And, at least act like you're enjoying being with me.
Oh, and not laughing at my little pee-pee helps out alot too.

You are silly! Had to read that twice.

[BettyWow]

Originally Posted by Oralist

There is a reason it is called The Girl Friend Experience. It is not FS, Half And Half or Around The World. The Client is paying for something more akin to "Making Love With A Real Girl Friend", not what is mentioned above.We are looking for kissing, intimacy, slow exploration and the things a real couple share. We are not looking for the YMMV Experience, either.

I have a Lady I have seen for 4 years now. She makes me feel like she really wants to be with me, really thinks I am sexy, etc. We have become friends and we converse on non-hobby things all the time. She is also Muy Calente!

All those things add up to what I consider GFE to be.

I saw Betty last week for the first time and she is very much that type of Lady. So, I plan to see her again very soon.

CAnt wait!
Xoxo

[zerodahero]

I agree with Oralist.
Kissing helps get in the mood. Especially when she intiates it.
Makes me feel nice and warm inside!

[AllisonofHouston]

Kissing is very important and very intimate ...it just ignites the passion ,..and gets the juices flowing darlin...

[hotelal]

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

GFE is really all about attitude... You can add all the activities to the list you want, but if the right attitude and atmosphere is not there, then the experience is far from what one would expect from a girlfriend. GFE, to me, is what the guy expects from you... it is his experience. You can be a great gfe for him if what he really wants is nothing more than kisses and a BJ... if it is something he would love for a GF to do because he can't get it elsewhere... then he just had his GFE!

A provider who says she is GFE must be able to read the guy like a book and adjust what she does to accommodate his desires (within parameters and reason). If she does not enjoy the company of men, if she does not truly let herself go with the moment, then it is hard to come accross as a true GFE provider.

I know that I look for something good and enjoyable in each and every client. I concentrate on that and it helps me get into the moment! I really try to look at each client as a guy I want to impress, I want to make happy so that he will want to be with me. Isn't that what a girl does in the beginning? Don't we try to please and impress the guy in real life so that he will ask us out again and possibly fall in love and get married (real life, people... not hobby life!!). Then a girl finally catches the guy, gets married and as his wife, she now changes into another person (not onger likes BJs and CIM! LOL) and he wants to find a girlfriend again!! LOL

I have been doing this long enough that I do not have to act like I am really into it... I really DO get into it because I want to be your girlfriend (at least for the appointed time (-: )

Smooch!

Lea

I'll second that emotion!! nicely said..

[CivilBarrister]

It should be called the fantasy girl friend experience.
Its all in the attitude. Make me feel/believe that you really want the hour together.

Pay attention to the direction of the session.

Don't just say YES, but make the fantasy say YES.

Oh, BIG turn off - peek at the clock, yawn, answer your phone, spend 10 min in the bathroom spitting.

And if I see YMMV in the review, I won't be scheduling a session.

If you can't "do" what you advertise, say so at the beginning and send the guy on his way. If you take his money, pretend for an hour.

I don't want to go to a restaurant, pay for a steak and get a burger because ....

If you are afraid of fluids, ie DFK, BBBJ, DATY you are not GFE.

[BettyWow]

I'm feeling especially GFE this weekend lol!
Jk! But really, if u have to feel like she is miserable n going through the motions u might as well hunch the wife in her sleep!!! I agree about it not so much being about the "menu items" (smh) but her attitude and eagerness to please you, basically those things should always b there in a provider (if that's ur thing) and its up to you the gentlemen to imply & initiate passion, some dudes just wanna throw the gift on table n smash but my attitude can't reflect his indifference of my pleasure ect. I like to open the door with a friendly smooch n smile n make u seem like we've known each other awhile. Two people usually can sense what the other is going for, shit research reviews n see what he likes. And as always, you pay for what u get so don't expect all those BP girls to bangin Em out for the low low with enthusiasim! And sometimes the super experienced "provider" ain't all she's cracked up to be, shit if u have to get with her scheduler or her inbox is full and she has an extensive rule list again, just get really good at picturing me when u negotiate a time n date to mish fuck the mrs.'

[Guest100613]

From the very beginning, GFE meant "girlfriend experience;" at its inception, it was a rare and precious thing - not a list of positions or activities you can cram into an hour. Any woman with relatively good flexibility who is in possession of at least two out of three holes can provide that. So can a blow up doll. A good 80% of providers now who advertise themselves as GFE would not have been able to get away with it 10-12 years ago; they would have been flamed for trying. I find it sad that the climate in Houston has shifted to the point where basic backpage service gets a GFE rating.
The only requirement for GFE when it was initiated was DFK; other than that, think "Hooked on a Feeling." The basic idea of most on this thread is correct; it's about walking in the door and being made to feel wanted, desired, cherished... Until you walk out the door. It's about it not feeling like a business transaction at all. You can provide that without a checklist, but it takes a combination of beauty, brains, and charm that is exceedingly rare. Much easier for the majority to toss in the obligatory BBBJ. Because that's what a GFE is, right? Someone who gives BBBJs?

[Oralist]

Not for me. See my earlier post.